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[sunlian]

never posted this commission I got from @roorenart! my most beloved classic BioWare romance!

[virgomoon]

i don't like the way you people talk about addiction. i don't like the way you people talk about bpd. i don't like the way you people talk about eating disorders. i don't like the way you people talk about paranoia. i don't like the way you people talk about ocd and intrusive thoughts. i don't like the way you people talk about cluster b personality disorders. i don't like the way you people talk about autism. i don't like the way you people talk about disabilities. i don't like the way you people talk about lesbians.

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

do you guys ever think about that time someone On Here was like "man James Baldwin has some good takes but he's so pretentious about it" and then it was promptly revealed that they had no idea who James Baldwin was and they were under the impression he was some sort of contemporary blogger who they only knew from seeing him quoted on tumblr. I think about that constantly.

[fatluka]

DYKE UP OR DIE. #PRIDEMONTH.

[dykieran]

trying to get across that dragon age has a problem with lesbophobia sucks so much because you'll say "it kinda makes me uncomfortable that the two canon relationships between queer women in dao are explicitly abusive and predatory. also the game was absolutely made with men in mind and despite leliana being bisexual, she has a lot more romantic interactions/reactivity with a male character, and overall it just makes a kind of uncomfortable effect where it feels like the intention was Saving this poor abused women from her evil bitch ex with the power of your manly heroic ways" and people will just respond with "yay toxic yuri i loveeeee toxic yuri!!! also leliana is bisexual just romance her as a woman lmao" and completely ignore that you were talking about. like. the intention of the writers. and then you'll say "It sucks that sera is so mistreated by the game and ends up getting paired off with a side character she has no interactions with if you don't romance her" and they'll respond "that's just because she's unlikeable" and completely ignore that part of the reason she's so "unlikeable" is because a lot of people just genuinely do not like lesbians

[elishnord]

I don't like Sera.

But her orientation is the last reason... No, it doesn't even matter, actually, it's out of the list of reasons why I don't like Sera. She's just this kind of character. Maybe the developers were too busy writing Solas and left some sidekicks incomplete. Blackwall is also somewhat 🤨

Maybe they overdid her, and she became irritating. Maybe she was meant to irritate people. At any rate, how is her personality defined by orientation?

Same with Lel. She's nice, okay, but... Could she stop being so enthusiastic about the Maker and his will? I'm Dalish! 😂

I romanced Zevran and Morrigan. Dude, those relationships are broken and sick too, stop pulling the blanket. It's just the way it happens with the people who've seen a lot of stuff.

Sometimes I really think people are too sensitive and see things that don't really exist, because they expect to see them. But the world is not an evil place. It's indifferent.

Can you imagine, most people don't care about other people's deviations. Well, that's how it is. Mostly. Just find the point of view you're comfortable with, and stop looking for piles of shit.

[velnat004]

Dumbass qrbs like this only prove OP's point even more 🥀🥀🥀

Criticism is not "looking for piles of shit" when there's a clear pattern of how wlw relationships are written.

[not100bees]

Yeah sorry I can't come into work today. I accidentally heard Primadonna by Marina formerly of and the Diamonds. So I need the day to be a primadonna girl. Yeah it's going to be the whole day.

[nixpunk]

[lustcannibalism]

going into the fandom tags can be a form of self harm

[telltalebatman]

averting my eyes in shame as i vote for the court of owls

[jadeempire]

[mspepperfish]

Rest in peace John Blanche.

You we're one of my favorite artists and certainly my favorite painter. Your art defined what "grimdark" means in scifi as a whole. I cant day how much i love and appreciate your art, its style and the art and aesthetic it inspires and continues to inspire to this day. I cannot describe my appreciation for these cold tone missing detailed, over the top grimdark paintings and yet again i hope you rest in peace.

[cloevr]

[bookwyrminspiration]

i understand words and phrases. my dialogue is natural and in character. i know where the plot is going. my word count is reasonable. i am not scared of my document

[godlessondheimite]

In 2026, the chicest thing a gay actor can do is never explicitly come out as gay but also make it abundantly clear that he is. Coming out is too modern. Staying closeted is too old fashioned. But this method merges contemporary freedom with Old Hollywood glamour and allure, and it weeds out the dumbest people who truly don’t get it. I call it the Pascal Method.

[nobodys-odyssey]

Taylor Swift does this

[godlessondheimite]

no she doesn’t

[nobodys-odyssey]

You clearly don't go here or to queer history and signaling, or both, enough to have this conversation and I'm not going to explain it to you. You could have asked questions, you could have done even a modicum of research. You didn't and you made yourself look ignorant. Goodbye.

[hafrun]

Wayward Daughter 🌕

[devoursjohnlock]

knuckle tats that say PREV PREV

[goodgirl-inc]

[goodgirl-inc]

nevermind post cancelled he's dead again

[zeitghost]

[innerchildabortionclinic]

mind palace that was formerly a palace until the ruling family was killed mercilessly for its crimes. and now it's the thinking woman's socialist republic.

[orpheuslament]

terrifying when you watch a movie or a show or whatever & youre like that was fun but it felt a little redundant they didnt need to hammer the point home that much & then you go online & theres thousands of people going that was so weird i did not get it what did that mean google.com ending explained please?