Soft Stuff

Exclusionists DNI Lou | nb guy | aro* ace gay R*pe and abuse survivor

[acedetective07]

[gaymaramada]

Quick reminder!!

I LOVE AND APPRECIATE THIS MAN

[jadore-softness]

Ozpin is a Twink.

[jadore-softness]

I mean even if he has dated Salem it doesn’t mean he isn’t a twink. For starters I know loads of bi guys that call themselves twink/hunk/bear, and also I know gay men who’ve had long and meaningful relationships with women and it didn’t mean they weren’t gay. So yeah oz being with Salem doesn’t mean he’s not a twink thanks for coming to my TED talk

[jadore-softness]

Ozpin is a Twink.

[thecooler]

Having separate flags is good bcos it’s good to have a symbol for your particular identity to embrace but it also important to remember the rainbow flag unites us all. All LGBT+ people can use it. I feel like it’s somehow become assumed by a lot of younger lgbt+ people that it’s only fr gay men, which it isn’t and never has been

[villanevehaus]

The rainbow flag when originally created by Gilbert Baker in 1978 actually contained 8 stripes that were assigned values and specific meanings that were meant to show what unites us and what we value as a community, 

It took 30 people to hand dye AND hand stitch the first 2 pride flags- 30 people of various identities came together to create the first symbol of pride. Hot pink was removed due to fabric shortages and turquoise was mixed with indigo to have the darker blue we have today.

Having individual flags is great to show your identity but I think we shouldn’t forget that the rainbow flag isn’t reserved for gay men, it was created to show what we all have in common regardless of identity. 

[thecooler]

Thank you for the ONLY good addition to my post

[titane-ic]

The pink stripe is an ace exclusionists, block and stay safe, cake lovers

[yorksilk]

Question: do you just thrive off negativity? Here’s a nice post about being united as a community and you of course feel the need to come trampling in with sarcastic rude bullshit against ace people. Do you really think it’s a good look to derail posts about history of lgbtq people and culture just to totally pwn those acies? Not worth it.

[morgue-diaries]

list of paraphilias: true crime edition

• anthropophagy: consuming of victim’s flesh/slicing off portions

• colobosis: desire to mutilate male genitalia

• coprolagnia: desire to eat feces

• coprophilia: fetish for feces

• exhibitionism: exposure of one’s genitalia to reach a sense of control

• flagellationism: desire to whip or beat a sexual victim

• gerontophilia: desire for elderly victims

• hematophilia/hematomania: desire to see or drink blood

• kleptomania: theft in a form of sexual expression

• klismaphilia: substitution of enemas for sexual intercourse

• mazoperosis: desire to mutilate female breasts

• necrophilia: preference of sexual intercourse with corpses

• necrophagia: consuming corpses in advanced stages of decomposition

• necrosadism: desire to mutilate corpses

• parthenophagy: cannibalism of young girls

• pedophilia: sexual preference for children

• pederasty: desire to sodomize male children

• perogynia: desire to mutilate female genitalia

• picquerism: mutilation/stabbing as a substitution for sexual intercourse

• pygmalianism: desire to have sex with dolls/mannequins

• pyromania: creating fires for sexual gratification

• pyrophilia: desire to watch fires for sexual gratification

• sadism: inflicting pain for sexual gratification

• scatophilia: desire to make obscene phone calls as a way of exerting dominance over a victim

[mogai-edits-icons]

Did i also mention im pro-paraphilia?

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Tucutes clean up your trash

[jadore-softness]

You know most of us have already called this person out and blocked them right? like you say take out the trash but it’s all done and dusted

[jadore-softness]

I haven’t seen any terms like stag/doe for aromantics so I decided to come up with a few, and they’re based on flowers!

Poppy aro - aromantic person that presents femininely, regardless of gender

Dietes aro - aromantic person that present androgynously, regardless of gender

Scilla aro - aromantic person that presents as masculine, regardless of gender

I hope everybody like these 💙

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Um why do we need

[sinsemillanoma-deactivated20181]

im taking these colours and making piss kink flags lmao, thanks ouma

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Oh god

[dkekekdndndnd-deactivated202604]

How EdGy

[enterreur-de-cadavres]

Truscum prove AGAIN that they’re trash

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Piss kink flag nostalgia.. I miss those old days

[jadore-softness]

Don’t you have something better to do than this

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Bruh calm down I’m talking about remembering before I got backstabbed by my friend

[jadore-softness]

You think I’m anything other calm?

Insulting my flags is a pretty weird to remember The Good Ol’ Days

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Wow it’s a flag damn you dont own it

[jadore-softness]

Calm down mate

[yehudah]

hey btw, as a binary trans guy, i just want to say that yall need to stop making fun of MOGAI/enby genders that use neopronouns. i know you think its funny to say “uwu im ecksdeegender and i use lol/lols/lolself pronouns” or whatever but its not even hilarious anymore and frankly its transphobic

[official-loka]

It was never hilarious and it was always transphobia and it always made cis people think it’s okay to make fun of trans people, we’ve been saying this for a while and nobody has listened

[yehudah]

exactly! it stems from transphobic cis-centric ideals that revolve around the idea that trans people and their identities are jokes and dont deserve to be treated normally. its just repackaging the whole “i identify as an apache attack helicopter ecks dee!!1!!” thing as something helpful for trans people and the community, even though its only harming peoples identities

[yehudah]

hey btw, as a binary trans guy, i just want to say that yall need to stop making fun of MOGAI/enby genders that use neopronouns. i know you think its funny to say “uwu im ecksdeegender and i use lol/lols/lolself pronouns” or whatever but its not even hilarious anymore and frankly its transphobic

[official-loka]

It was never hilarious and it was always transphobia and it always made cis people think it’s okay to make fun of trans people, we’ve been saying this for a while and nobody has listened

[silverhawk]

i didnt know this until rn but apparently theres things called sundogs & moondogs that are basically the halo that sometimes appears around the sun & moon

this is a sundog

and this is a moondog

this is so cool & such cute names omg?????? i love space

[mursejesse]

That’s updog

[jadore-softness]

I’ve seen moondog before! I always wondered what it was ( ◠‿◠ )

[jadore-softness]

I haven’t seen any terms like stag/doe for aromantics so I decided to come up with a few, and they’re based on flowers!

Poppy aro - aromantic person that presents femininely, regardless of gender

Dietes aro - aromantic person that present androgynously, regardless of gender

Scilla aro - aromantic person that presents as masculine, regardless of gender

I hope everybody like these 💙

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Um why do we need

[sinsemillanoma-deactivated20181]

im taking these colours and making piss kink flags lmao, thanks ouma

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Oh god

[dkekekdndndnd-deactivated202604]

How EdGy

[enterreur-de-cadavres]

Truscum prove AGAIN that they’re trash

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Piss kink flag nostalgia.. I miss those old days

[jadore-softness]

Don’t you have something better to do than this

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Bruh calm down I’m talking about remembering before I got backstabbed by my friend

[jadore-softness]

You think I’m anything other calm?

Insulting my flags is a pretty weird to remember The Good Ol’ Days

[jadore-softness]

I haven’t seen any terms like stag/doe for aromantics so I decided to come up with a few, and they’re based on flowers!

Poppy aro - aromantic person that presents femininely, regardless of gender

Dietes aro - aromantic person that present androgynously, regardless of gender

Scilla aro - aromantic person that presents as masculine, regardless of gender

I hope everybody like these 💙

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Um why do we need

[sinsemillanoma-deactivated20181]

im taking these colours and making piss kink flags lmao, thanks ouma

[ouma-against-dickheads]

Oh god

[dkekekdndndnd-deactivated202604]

How EdGy

[enterreur-de-cadavres]

Truscum prove AGAIN that they’re trash

[kokichi-ouma-ad]

Piss kink flag nostalgia.. I miss those old days

[jadore-softness]

Don’t you have something better to do than this

[jadore-softness]

@onthebirdroads sorry this took so long!!

Disaster aro flag 💚

[jadore-softness]

im sorry that your aro flags about gender presentation are getting hated on by gross people. i think they're really nice and i'm glad you made them!!!!

I don’t know when I got this, but thank you!

[nonbinaryperspectve]

lesbian:  i don’t like dick

queers:  uhhhhh there’s no way that’s an actual thing, no one could ever not like dick this is obviously just a dumb flimsy excuse to be transphobic, there’s literally no reason a woman in this world could ever get angry about being expected and forced to like dick this is all very reactionary

[queercoded-villain]

No one is forcing you to like dick. You just can’t invalidate other people based on having a dick or dating ppl with dicks

[nonbinaryperspectve]

after taking a hard look at 2000+ years of human history, some people really do think that logging onto tumblr dot com and adding “no one is forcing you to like dick” onto a lesbian’s post was a genuinely good idea

[queercoded-villain]

ah yes the queers have been oppressing lesbians for centuries now. cishets could never get to their level of hatred of lesbianism

[adhd-anti]

Honestly op how are you gonna scream about homophobia and then deliberately use queer as a slur towards other lgbt+ people lmao

[grungegoths]

THE LGBT COMMUNITY IS ONLY FOR PEOPLE WHO EXPERIENCE HOMOPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA . LG PEOPLE EXPERIENCE HOMOPHOBIA . TRANS PEOPLE EXPERIENCE TRANSPHOBIA AND BI PEOPLE MIGHT EXPERIENCE HOMOPHOBIA WHEN THEY ARE INTERESTED/DATING SAME GENDER PEOPLE. NOONE ELSE IS ALLOWED

Good thing then that im part of the lgbtqa community where biphobia and aphobia etc are recognized too as marginalizations faced by bi and ace people and non cis straight people come together to stand against cis straight normative institutional and societial structures instead of just considering a particular forms of oppressions as the sole factor determining ones inclusion in the community or not :)

[lancer-blaster-deactivated20191]

Imagine being anon and not knowing what “heterosexism” is

[yorksilk]

I hate this idea that you’re only oppressed when you’re dating the same gender. Obviously it’s only being used to target bi people here but wouldn’t it apply to any single lgb person? Are you only part of the lgbt community when you’re in a relationship with someone of the same gender? Do I have to give back my gay card when I’m single now? Whatever, I guess we’ll sacrifice anything for biphobia now.

[kuromi-course]

“bi people might experience homophobia” so might a gnc straight man are they all lgbt now??? is that how it works?????

[leahwillett]

call out post :)

here’s a list of the valid pronouns:

he / him

she / her

they / them

have a great day

[glimmer-lied]

sorry non-english speakers, your pronouns aren’t valid. y’all frenchies need to get real—elle and il are just a product of mogai bullshit