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Also one for the aros:
If you're aromantic, what are your attitudes towards romance/dating?
Aro and romance repulsed
Aro and romance neutral
Aro and romance positive
Secret fourth option (elaborate in tags?)
I'm alloromantic and I want a button to click
this pride, I’d like to remind everyone how thoroughly the aspec community was obliterated on here. I don’t think I’ll ever get over the whiplash of going from literally creating a tumblr to learn more about aspec identities and being so excited to finally have a place where I wasn’t broken—to watching the lgbt community and surrounding ‘allies’ utterly destroy what we had, watching blogs delete or quietly re-closet themselves, and being afraid to put anything regarding asexuality or aromanticism in my bio. I started blocking people once I started having nightmares
it’s still so hard to get people to take aphobia seriously, and ‘aphobe’ is constantly treated like a joke. I get anxious about mentioning my qpp in anything, I’ve seen how far people will go to tell someone their relationship is fake or ‘cringe’. sometimes it seems like noone remembers what it was like before, when we weren’t afraid. that we came looking for acceptance, and were thrown out on our asses for being largely neurodivergent.
I’m so glad we’re rebuilding, but I’ll never forget what that felt like. what it feels like
It's okay to be aromantic actually. Romantic love isn't a necessary prerequisite to be happy for everyone.
You can like romantic stuff without wanting those things for yourself. You can ship fictional characters, knowing that what they have (the romantic relationship) isn't what will make you happy.
It's fine, you're no less human for it. You're a complete and whole person already.
the way alloromantics talk about romance is so confusing lmao like what is a “talking stage” what is a “situationship” what do any of these words mean
Welcome (back) to #AggressivelyArospectacular!
#AggressivelyArospectacular is a week-long event promoting the creation of original content in arospec communities. It is brought to you by the same people behind #AggressivelyArospecWeek.
Are you arospec? Do you paint portraits, draw comics, write poetry, make music, invent stories? Do you make photo-edits or short films? Or maybe jewelry? Or sculptures? Or anything else?
In short, do you create?
Because if so, this event is here for you!
From the 7th to the 13th of November, submit any original creative content you want us to see by tagging it as #AggressivelyArospectacular (in the first five tags) or sending us a link through our submission box. Your work will then be shared on this blog for our community to enjoy.
Your work does not have to specifically focus on arospec experiences, although we always appreciate a content warning if your piece features romantic content.
Please submit as many pieces in as many different mediums as you like! We would love to be able to spam other people’s dash with art for a whole week.
Let’s show the world how diverse and creative the arospec community is!
(For more information, check out our about page and FAQ section, as well as our #AggressivelyArospectacular tag. Please, only submit original material for this event. You want to share your fanfic or fanart with us? Wait for #AggressivelyArospecWeek, which is held in June every year!)
Voidpunk aromantic culture is hearing "romantic attraction is what makes you human" and being like...
I'm not human in the first place.
-Fronter N/A
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Dark skinned aromantic folks are incredible and valid and deserve respect and happiness. Cherish your dark skin, cherish your aromanticism, love yourself, and if loving yourself is hard, remember we love you too, and we will be the love until you can conjure that love for yourself.
hmmm I think Robin Hood belongs to the aros now.
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wears green
uses bow and arrow
hates the rich
lives in the woods with his friends
