There are so many different chapters in life. There is being born and depending on everyone around you. There is that middle school stage were you just want to know everything and be apart of everything but you cant. Then there is the 16 yes go go go stage. In this stage you never want to hear no, the rules don't apply anymore (even if they do)! Then there is that college stage where you now make the rules. And of course all the stages that come after that.
So with all of these different stages in life its harder to get along with someone who is at a totally different stage.
I'm 16, at that 16 stage. I'm in love with a college stage person. Happily dating for 11 months. That person I'm in love with now lives in a dorm. Now has other things to do and rules to make instead of hanging out with the person he or she loves. As different as the stages are there is one thing in common with them. Both stages are made of selfishness. I'm 16 and selfish. I'm in love with someone who is selfish also. We are selfish in different areas now. As a selfish 16 how do I see it fair that I no longer get to see the person I love as much as I use to? How am I suppose to be okay that I'm being left behind? Why should I be dating someone that I cant have fun with anymore? And why should the college person date me? As in love as I am and how happy I am with someone who is on a different planet... I can no longer assume love I want to feel loved. I do not feel loved and how can I now that my saver can no longer rescue me. My best friend can no longer celebrate with me. The already lonely is now lonelier. Who would hold on to something you cant have. But how do you have the strength to lie to someone and say you no longer love them when the truth is that you're to selfish to accept any less?