The first rule of fandom is have fun. The second rule of fandom is find an enabler and become an enabler. Yes you should write that fic. What if it was even hornier? What if it was angstier? What if you wrote it just for me?

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Sweet Seals For You, Always

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❣ Chile in a Photography ❣
almost home
noise dept.
$LAYYYTER
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PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
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Peter Solarz
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open

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JBB: An Artblog!
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The first rule of fandom is have fun. The second rule of fandom is find an enabler and become an enabler. Yes you should write that fic. What if it was even hornier? What if it was angstier? What if you wrote it just for me?
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D/s and Emotional Needs
This post is basically a transcript of a speech I give to newbies to the D/s scene all the time IRL. I figured it might be useful not only to people curious about kink IRL but also to smut writers here on the smut writing website.
For the purposes of this post, I am sending specific physical acts out of the room. Right now they don't matter, because you can meet an emotional need through any number of physical acts. So when I say that there are many ways to dom and many ways to sub, I am not referring to many kinds of physical acts. I mean that there are many emotional needs that doms and subs bring to scenes, and those can change the scene more than the choice of physical acts that will occur in that scene.
I say this to newbies to the scene because they tend to have a narrow view of the motivations and needs that bring people to D/s, biased by both the newbie's own preferences and the depictions of D/s they've seen in media. The same is true of people who write kink fic. Kink fic is very biased to a narrow subset of the wide range of emotional needs that people might bring to this kind of play.
It's really important to understand this in D/s IRL because a mismatch or miscommunication about these needs can lead to a bad scene. For example, let's take the approaches of sub-as-beloved-pet and sub-as-object. If a dom treats a sub as a beloved pet when what they really want is to be treated like an object, then a sub who went into a scene needing to be ignored, or at the very least the illusion of being ignored and disregarded, is suddenly in the spotlight of a lot of intense attention and affection. Again, I will note that both of these scenes could potentially involve the same physical acts, just approached differently. Let's say it's a service submission scene where the sub is naked and cleaning the room for the dom. Sub-as-beloved-pet would get frequent praise and lots of patiently repeated instructions, while sub-as-object would get one detailed instruction at the beginning and no reinforcement except a punishment if they get part of the instruction wrong.
I'm going to go through a bunch of different styles of dom and sub, with the emotional needs that underlie them. This list is not exhaustive. I'm sure there's more I haven't thought of or encountered, so feel free to reblog with additions. It may also be a bit dom-biased because I'm a dom, but I think that might be for the best, because the emotional needs of doms are generally less understood than those of subs.
Various consensual kinks discussed below. Kinkshamers in the notes will be blocked with extreme prejudice.
Every social media site expands until it contains screenshots of Tumblr
#they should make a social media website that's exclusively tumblr posts
Not tumblr then. 🤣
I highly recommend joining Cara right now!
It’s a new portfolio/social media hybrid website made by artists, for artists, as a way to network, find jobs, and see art. Born from ArtStation, Behance, DeviantArt, Instagram, and countless other websites’ implementing predatory AI policies, it aims to fill a gap left in the community for those who don’t wish to support that stuff.
To me at least, it really captures the better parts of being on DA in the early 2010’s. Account setup is very streamlined, your feed is all art and no ads, and the community is very active (Due to a huge exodus of users moving there from Instagram due to Meta’s new AI policy).
The app has all the same functionality as the main site too! You’re able to customize your timeline, mark your work availability, and even toggle your profile between just being a regular timeline and exclusively a portfolio of your strongest works (I have nothing up though bc I just made my acc lol).
A lot of new websites have popped up in the past couple years due to how awful and predatory tech giants have become, and personally I’m all for it. I don’t want an internet where everyone uses the same 5 websites to get all their content. Anyway yeah I highly recommend Cara.
You can see the official explanation of their features and stuff here.
Obligatory plug to own acc
Trying out Cara right now, I had almost more interactions on my two first posts than on the whole of my inktober on instagram. 👌
I highly recommend joining Cara right now!
It’s a new portfolio/social media hybrid website made by artists, for artists, as a way to network, find jobs, and see art. Born from ArtStation, Behance, DeviantArt, Instagram, and countless other websites’ implementing predatory AI policies, it aims to fill a gap left in the community for those who don’t wish to support that stuff.
To me at least, it really captures the better parts of being on DA in the early 2010’s. Account setup is very streamlined, your feed is all art and no ads, and the community is very active (Due to a huge exodus of users moving there from Instagram due to Meta’s new AI policy).
The app has all the same functionality as the main site too! You’re able to customize your timeline, mark your work availability, and even toggle your profile between just being a regular timeline and exclusively a portfolio of your strongest works (I have nothing up though bc I just made my acc lol).
A lot of new websites have popped up in the past couple years due to how awful and predatory tech giants have become, and personally I’m all for it. I don’t want an internet where everyone uses the same 5 websites to get all their content. Anyway yeah I highly recommend Cara.
You can see the official explanation of their features and stuff here.
Obligatory plug to own acc
That scene made me feral.
INKTOBER 25 - Button (Doesn't that manga have the most incredible clothes?)
So feral in fact that the fanart inspired a ficlet:
Trust fall
Qifrey, Olruggio
At first Olly doesn't fight him, not as much as he could have.
That scene made me feral.
INKTOBER 25 - Button (Doesn't that manga have the most incredible clothes?)
Didn't you hear? They were rivals.
Inktober 2025 - Rivals
INKROBER '25 - Blunder
🌹 Shouldn't have picked that rose...
Aaaaaaand I accidentally incepted myself with a new pairing. Why am I like that? 😅
🌌 Spacewalk.
#drawingoftheday #inktober52planet #inktober2021planet #inktober2021 #space #drawing #dessinnoiretblanc #dessin #dessindujour #espace #spacedrawing #astronaut #spacewalk #stars #dessin #artstagram #frenchartist #artistofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CO-sZmvjrdc/?igshid=1a4yo8t19w7mz
🕊J'ai finalement encadré “Mindless” ! Il s'agit d'une de mes illustrations favorites de 2019 et le thème actuel d’#inktober52 m'a motivé pour enfin m'en occuper ! 😗
Et sinon, lancement imminent de mon site ! 👉 link in bio
#birds #fly #drawing #blackandwhite #ink #black #line #light #flying #artwort #art #noiretblanc #dessin #inktober52bird #artistofinstagram #oiseau #Inktober2019 #mindless #inktober https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ1E_aHDVS8/?utm_medium=tumblr
🐯🐱 Purring intensifie!
Mon tigre et chat sur fond d'or… 💛 Voilà un tirage dont je suis extrêmement fière.
👀 Comme le reste de mes gravures récentes il va être mis en vente. En attendant que je mette à jour la boutique de mon site (un jour, peut-être… 🤣) vous pouvez me contacter par mp si vous êtes intéressé par une oeuvre. ;)
Tiré à l’ @atelierdusinge ! 🥰
#tiger #cat #printing #impression #linocut #art #artstagram #gold #goldink #or #artistefrancaise #tigre #stripes #artistofinstagram #frenchartist #felins #dessin #drawing #print #artforsales #illustration #smallsize #fauve #catstagram #animaldrawings #traditionalart #chat #artprint https://www.instagram.com/p/CfwAwDFK_M6/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
The binding of Fenrir, work in progress.
Je continue mes explorations aquatiques avec ce cormoran inspiré par l'un des prompts #inktober52 de ce début d'année : #reflection.
#inktober52reflection #inktober #waterfowl #cormorant #blackbird #wings #water #animaldrawings #blackandblue #dessinanimalier #illustration #birddrawing https://www.instagram.com/p/CKq1AEzjGin/?igshid=1u5pmujq2fotb
Ocean.
#inktober2020day11 #alternativelist #seaturtle #inktober2020 #naturedrawing #coloredinks https://www.instagram.com/p/CGOBXaxhSH5/?igshid=50oqwwt8qojr