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Happy GIRLY Father’s Day!

I simply wanted to say Happy Father’s Day to whole slew of guys right now who are reading this because they share with me in being girly boys while also being fathers.

If there is one thing that I have impressed upon my sons and daughter, it is that every person is valuable regardless of how they think, act, dress, look, etc. etc. My children understand that me being a father is not a role of asserting masculinity in the world or upon his children. They know this, not only because I teach them this and exemplify it, but because they see without me telling them how a man can be feminine and still be a good father and husband to their mother.

I don’t say this to toot my horn. I say this because I know it’s possible to be a father and also be girly. It’s not impossible. It’s not hard. It’s definitely not unnatural.

So, for all of you girly guys who are fathers, I want to say, Happy Father’s Day. But I also want to say, “Happy Being You” Day.

Slainte! (because we all know what my libation of choice for today will be)

CandieHart

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The Best of YOU

It might not seem like it, especially if you’re anything like me and surrounded by friends, employees, community leaders, church-folk, etc., but there are extremely wonderful people in this world who are ready for you to be YOU. And that’s not to say that the people who surround you are bad people. I like looking for the best in people and I choose to believe that most people are usually better than we give them credit. Yet, our circles of people are like fences on the toddler playground. They keep us “safe” and contained. The trouble is for us girly boys is that we want to play on the big girl swings. We’d like to expand our options beyond the Little Tyke slide. So, it might be that your circle will never accept your femininity. It might be that you need a new circle or an extension to your circle. And of course, it could be that your circle is not as restrictive as you think. Maybe someone else wants to join you outside the rubber mulch playground.

I have to believe that there are incredible people near me, somewhere close, somewhere out there with whom I can connect in all my girliness; that it’s not just me skipping down this road in a little skater skirt and keds; that there’s someone who claps for me in my pink yoga pants and adores my feminine gate as i work on my more feminine tones. That someone could be male or female. That someone could identify with traditional gender roles and life, or like me, understand that traditions deserve some better color and fragrance.

I hope you feel this way. I hope that you truly believe that there are indeed people, opportunities, and groups, who are ready for you to stop hiding, stop fretting, stop wallowing in guilt, and start being YOU. I completely understand if you have a hard time thinking that this could be true. But they’re out there, and the number is growing.

I can tell you this, “I believe in YOU and I’m ready for you to be a true girly YOU.”

CandieHart

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Love this Candie!!!!