jcat support ♥

Have something nice to say about a fellow Union J fan? Let's spread the love! Message us (anon or not) and we will share all your nice thoughts. No hate allowed. And if you ever need someone to talk to, this blog is always open. :)

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whenever I see new "fandom confession" accounts on Twitter, I'm going to remind you all of this blog 😇 remember, nice/supportive messages only! Lift people up instead of dragging them down. ❤️

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Friendly reminder this ask box is open for business! Send a nice message to a fellow UJ fan and put a smile on their face! ☺️

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Hello friends!

So… since there are so many “confession” accounts on Twitter popping up, which seem to be encouraging hateful messages/negative behavior, I thought it’d be a good time to start doing Jcat Support posts again to try and counteract them.

Positive posts only! If you have something nice to say about a fan but might be too shy to tell them, or just wanna send them some anonymous love, send me a message and I’ll post it for them here! 💌

I’m tired of seeing hate being spread among this fandom… it’s time for that to stop. Tumblr is a place where nobody should have to feel alone, or like they aren’t loved, and I hope this helps remind you guys how special you all are. 💟

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" jaymihensley (Tumblr) so so so so lovely 💕 "

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" Katie - imjustasillyteenager (tumblr) / UnionJHensley (Twitter) is such a lovely girl and so underrated, more people should go and talk to her!! "

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I can't do this anymore. (Same Anon as last time) it's not just the violence, it's the emotional pain. Constantly being put down, everything I say or do is wrong, I'm tears every 5 minutes. No one cares. No one will ever care. This has always been bad but the past year has been absolute hell for me, I can't do this anymore, I have to give up. I can't fucking do this.

I'm so sorry that I didn't see this earlier. I hope you're okay. Don't say that no one cares... I care. I care a lot. I'm not really at a good place right now either, I'm sure my place isn't nearly as bad as your place but it's not a competition... anyway the point is: I know it fucking sucks. It's heartbreaking. It's painful. It's the worst thing in the entire world but you can't give up. You can't do that. You deserve better and you gotta keep trying. I'm sorry I'm not good at this but please just keep trying.

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Tell her, please, that the threat of being kicked out is nothing more than manipulation. Have her try to find a women’s shelter in her area and go there. If she can’t get to a shelter, she should go to the hospital emergency room to be checked out, and they should be able to assist her in finding a safe place to go. They can also provide her with a written medical assessment of her condition, which she will need when she reports him to the police.

She can file the police report and any charges after she’s safe in a shelter. It would be helpful if she could document the abuse either on cell-phone video, or at the very least audio, and if at all possible, take photos of any injuries including bruises. In the meantime, ask her to please be sure to stay in contact with someone she can trust. Again, if she’s in the US or the UK, there are abuse hotlines that she can call for assistance as well.

She should be able to google them pretty easily.

Something to consider, anon. Really hoping things will get better for you 

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I just wish I could escape, I'm tired of being treated this way and I don't know what to do, I'm told that if I tell the police that'll be kicked out, and I have no where to go, if I did I wouldn't still be here, I would have gone by now. I'm so scared to be in my own home, constantly in fear that I'll be thrown across a room or strangled.

babe :( I understand your dilemma, I know it's not that simple to just tell somebody but please, if it's gotten to the point where you feel unsafe you need to do what's best for your safety and for your life. I wish I knew what to say or what to do to make you feel better and safer, all I can say is please stay strong and know that you're not alone. I promise. 

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Everyone I trust knows... No one cares. They want him to be happy, not me. He's the golden boy, I'm just the stupid little girl.

Well, I care. I care a lot. You are not the stupid little girl, I'm sure you are strong, brave, intelligent, beautiful, and more incredible than you know. He can't be golden if he treats you that way, and they're just blind to it, and that's not fair at all. If you ever want to talk about anything, I'm always here, even if you want to talk off anon and in private. Whatever I can do to help, I'm here for you. ♥

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No, I mean literally beaten. I'm a human punch bag. Someone that he can take his anger out on and I can't get away. I can never get away. Without Union j I wouldn't be here today. I would have given up a long time ago.

:( I'm so sorry. I don't know who 'he' is but if there's any possible way, please tell someone that you trust about this so that they can help you get somewhere safe. I wish there was something more that I could do but just know that I'm here for you. ♥ Please stay strong. You deserve so much better and you are worth so much more.

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Beaten. Emotionally drained. Ready to give up. Union J are the only thing keeping me alive. I have nothing else to live for.

My love, there are so many things for you to live for, I promise you that. Please please don't give up! ❤️ I know that you're tired and I know that it hurts but you have to keep fighting. I am so glad that you have the boys to help get you through the tough times but please know that all of the bad things will pass in time. You WILL get through it all, because you are much stronger than you think. Hang in there darling it will get better, but until then you have the boys and all of us by your side to help you through it.

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Guess who...

Since the year is coming to an end and nobody really sends me messages anymore, I think I'm going to reveal the person behind the blog. Drumroll, please... 🎶 (there's no drum emoji 😑) SURPRISE it meeee unionjadore ✨ Just wanted to thank you all for submitting such lovely messages and for helping to spread kindness & positivity on Tumblr. Like I said, I don't really get too many messages on here at all (I'll admit I had to submit a bunch myself at first to get it started 🙊) but I'm not closing it down or anything like that so if you guys still wanna send messages to your friends feel free to do so! Love you guys. ❤️

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" steph unionjadore​ deserves all the love she could possibly get! she's wonderful and so so lovely ♥ George dreams of finding a girl like her tbh "

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Send us a nice message for a friend :)

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Send us something nice! ❤️

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Send us something! 😄

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" I hate seeing that carphonewarehouse gets so much hate. Dayna seems like such a nice person and people just hate on her for no reason just because she sees the boys often. I bet if people got to know her they would realise how lovely she is. "