In light of that one post complaining about a female character in Red Rising being referred to as delicate, along with @darrowsrisingĀ ās response, I decided that since I have the entire series on my kindle app to make my timeline/lore research easier, Iād do some digging and count for myself ever time the word delicate was used to describe a character, as well as the context of when and how that word was used.Ā
Chapter 7:Ā āYet it is the unburned side of her face that startles. She is beautiful, more beautiful even than Eo. Skin soft, pale as milk, bones prominent and delicate.āĀ
Context: Darrow contrasting the burned vs unburned side of Harmonyās face.Ā
Chapter 12:Ā āYour skeleton is weak because Mars gravity is zero point three of Earthās my delicate little bird.ā
Context: Mickey talking to Darrow about the procedures necessary for the carving.
Chapter 17:Ā āNext goes a delicate girl with a mocking smile.āĀ
Context: Darrow observing the students selected ahead of him in the passage.Ā
Chapter 26:Ā āShe is small, delicate. Her smile is not. It mocks us.ā
Context: Darrow noting the contrast between Mustangās nonthreatening appearance and what her attitude indicates about the threat she poses. This also confirms for the audience that Mustang is the same girl mentioned in Chapter 17.Ā Ā
Chapter 43:Ā āāI thought you were dead,ā I tell him as I clutch his delicate frame.ā
Context: Darrow embracing Roque when he returns to House Mars and finds his friend malnourished but alive.Ā
Chapter 2:Ā āTheodoraās delicate old hands pull at me, like a bird pulling at a fallen statue.ā
Context: Darrow referring to Theodoraās age and her size compared to a Gold.
Chapter 11:Ā āHe bumps my shoulder with his fist and nods to Victra.Ā āYou understand. Had to watch out for the lady here.āĀ āShe is a delicate little flower,ā I say, pulling her away.Ā
Context: Darrow, Victra and Tactus discuss the latter launching the escape pod from the Quietus without Darrow at the Academy.Ā Ā
Chapter 12:Ā āThen a hand settles around my wrist. Not an iron grip. A soft one. Warm against my skin. Delicate.ā
Context: Darrow emphasizing how Mustang is being gentle with him as she interferes between his and Cassiusā duel.Ā
Chapter 4:Ā āShe leans against the metal beside a yawning male Gray with a delicate nose more like a Pinkās than a soldierās.ā
Context: Darrow describing Triggās appearance.Ā
Chapter 5: āHe has an incredible shock of white hair and a jaw you could carve granite with, but pathetically delicate hands for a man.ā
Context: Lyria describing the news anchor reporting on Darrowās triumph on Camp 121ā²s evening news broadcast.Ā
Chapter 8:Ā āI wish I did not look so delicate.ā
Context: Lysander talking about his own physical appearance.Ā
Chapter 13:Ā āHis nose is smashed flat and his eyes are small and ringed with delicate eyelashes.ā
Context: Lyria describing her first time seeing Kavax.Ā
Chapter 23:Ā āNear Godeater, Valdir has taken off his ridiculous helmet. The championās face is unusually delicate for an Obsidian. His nose is twice broken, his cheeks gaunt and freckled. But all the savagery canāt hide the avian structure of his bones, the motes of silver in his black eyes, his full, notched lips, and the haughty grandeur of the only human besides Darrow to survive a duel with the Minotaur. Gotta admit. Heās damn slick.ā
Context: Ephraim describing Valdirās physical appearance.Ā
Chapter 26:Ā āMy spymaster wears a long black citycloak. Her white hair is coiled atop her delicate head like a nesting albino snake.ā
Context: Mustang describing Theodoraās appearance with respect to her age.Ā
Chapter 53:Ā āAfter Zan departs, Publius dismisses his staff to the far wall and looks at me. I search his face for some sign of evil. Even now it is a pleasant face. A small chin and delicate facial bones, with only a long nose to add drama. But those eyes, for so long cold and distant, flicker with excitement.āĀ
Context: Mustang commenting on Caravalās appearance as she looks for any signs she may have missed regarding his true motives and allegiance.Ā
Every other use of the word delicate is used to describe an action or emotion rather than physical appearance, so I did not count them. But out of all the times a characterās physical traits have been described as delicate, this is the total count of my initial findings:Ā
Full series: 15 (7 W, 8 M)
The series average out to a 50/50 split in terms of the gender of which characters are being referred to as delicate. And when the word is used to describe women, it is always in a specific context that focuses on attributes other than their actual appearance, and one case of sarcasm in response to a sexist excuse.
So in conclusion, not once in the entire Red Rising saga has the word delicate ever been used to mean fragile/weak in relation to its female characters, and the fandom would appreciate if people would stop immediately looking for things to condemn author over because heās male.Ā