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[jillags]

Chastity and denial plays with dearest conscious and subconscious.

Relentless teasing is a whole influence campaign.

I am the handler.

....and the assets? hanging loose or locked are always targeted.

[lovemydominatewife]

[jillags]

Well, my darling husband didn't have an answer to that one.

He would never cheat on me, that's I know, because he loves me and because he is a honorable man.

....and he will not masturbate because I don't want him to, and he understands that, though he can't really control it, so I just lending a hand, helping where he is lacking the discipline.

[dusdatdanweerwel-v2]

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[jillags]

Honey, so simple, so restrictive....

[clubrivas]

[jillags]

That seems restrictive and escape proof.....

[shadesoflions]

New Quinn!

This is the cool energy I think my husband craves.

It's so weird, I have demons in my head. Some say, he must not love me if he needs a stupid cage to be nice to me. Or, something is wrong with me if he doesn't want to stick his penis in me or wants his cock caged. And who wants a demanding bitchy wife? I don't want to be that. And who wants to be in charge, I married a MAN, to take care of me and be in charge, I don't want some sissy boy who needs his mommie's approval.

Just sharing some of the thoughts that prevent me from enjoying his loving love.

[jillags]

I must admit that I shared quite similar thoughts and dilemmas, some a little different, from the above stated.

1. I want a strong leading man ( He is strong but I'm not to be led).

2. If he doesn't cum, it implies on my femininity(How stupid is that?).

3. Submitting is weakness.

4. He will not teach me how I should show I will do it the way I want to(and miraculously it will suit him, or would I want it the other way around?)

5. Last but probably the main demon in my head, being dominated and in control equal being aggressive and bad( I don't want to be bad....being pushed to the wall aka he will not tell me what to do made me aggressive).

I believe that the main reasons for these thoughts were on the one hand, because of the different point of view my dearest and myself have ( Regarding what is strength, how to show love, is submission a weakness, is orgasm a goal? And many more), based on our gender and beliefs.

And on the other hand it was, I have to admit, secondary to my selfishness and need to be the one saying the last word (that paradoxically substantially undermined my arguments).

Thank g-d he was persistent, repeatedly offering me, showing me different ways to look at things.....

[lovemydominatewife]

[jillags]

Both my darling husband and myself are self employed and have occasional business trips and conferences.

In the past, I know that he was spending a lot of his time at these occasions, scrolling on porn and masturbating.

Depriving him accessibility to my cock, made those times apart amazingly arousing for him (at the end of the day, as I say, the brain is the biggest sex organ) on the one hand and unbearably frustrating on the other hand.

One thing I make sure of, is making his last release furthest from that apart times and teasing him as much as possible.....

Our reunions are always grand.....for me, as for him? He is always guessing.

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[jillags]

Never before, I felt so horny and mischievous as often I feel now.

I believe that power rush and control actually inspire it.

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[jillags]

Honey, you know the drill.

You want your cage off and me all over you?

First , secure your hands to the bolt at the headboard.....

[quinnklaxon777]

[jillags]

For my darling husband it's a love/hate phenomenon, I'm sure he would love to cum every time I tease him, but since he has no say in that matter, being constantly aroused and horny and getting mind blowing orgasms when I allow it, is the best option for him.

For me, the power and control is a new found aphrodisiac and at the same time I know my responsibilities, show my dearest appreciation for his efforts and sacrifice, keep him repeatedly thoroughly teased and sense when he gets to the point that he needs an orgasm ("needs" in my standards, not want/ need in his).

[shadesoflions]

I like this image because while I don't look like this woman, I'm getting older and it reflects a more honest experience that me and my hubby have. As for the statement, that's a keeper. I'll remember that!

[jillags]

My darling husband knows for sure, that he always has a say, especially in the major and important things.

He also knows that I respect his opinion and value it greatly, however it is clear for the both of us, that I have the final say.

It is also crystal clear to him that in all aspects of the bedroom matters especially my cock, he has absolutely no say.

The above caption is a winner, every time he even start to say something in this domain.

[shadesoflions]

High Standards.

One of the games I'm playing and exploring is to have higher standards in my relationship with my husband, as I keep him locked.

He communicated to me how important it is for him to meet my high standards, not for me, but for himself.

That pleased me because he doing it for himself.

But it opens the conversation with myself. What ARE my standards? In this way I'm growing by learning what I really want in this relationship and in this chastity game.

[jillags]

That's a heavy one and a very important one.

I just reblog it, I need sometime to sleep on it, it stirs up a lot of things in my mind and emotionally....

[shadesoflions]

We can testify that this is true. We have great sex, and he doesn't cum.

[jillags]

Contrary to the doubts I first had, regarding the new combination of dearest in chastity and my growing authority and control, it very soon appeared to greatly improved our sex lives, both in frequency and in quality.

I must admit that the major change initially was a significant change in my desire for sex.

Quite fast it became clear to me, that there is an inverse proportion between the length of time I keep my darling husband locked and thoroughly teased and the desire and need I have for sex with him......we both concluded we are happier and more content than ever.

[lady-peyton]

If there is, please let me know

[jillags]

I agree, there isn't.

That's why I try to employ both when I relentlessly keep my darling husband, both aroused and frustrated, perpetually on his toes, sometimes literally.

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[jillags]

Well, I can't deny that testicle have some added advantages for a decisive, assertive keyholder.

They are great motivators, both in a pleasant manner and through some level of discomfort/pain.

They are great to fixation and anchoring, etc'.

[lady-peyton]

It's only logical

[jillags]

I see it exactly the opposite, because I appreciate so much my darling husband's devotion and respect deeply his sacrifice, I think it is only natural that I will readily tease and edge him senseless frequently and will give him mind blowing orgasms occasionally.

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[jillags]

I make my darling husband thank me for ridding him from his masturbaing habit.

A change that enabled him to fulfill his desire to focus on me and my pleasure.

A change thay bought him so much free time, that was gone to waist in porn and masturbation.