I must admit that at times, the things my dear dear husband regards as rewards, both amazes me and amuses me.
Yet it is so easy, ready and flattering....by all means, I want him to enjoy and be happy, so when reward is warranted.....easy.
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I must admit that at times, the things my dear dear husband regards as rewards, both amazes me and amuses me.
Yet it is so easy, ready and flattering....by all means, I want him to enjoy and be happy, so when reward is warranted.....easy.
Once our power dynamics became clear for the both of us and became a routine and a way of life, check ins became consistent, in our case once weekly.
We both agree they are important for a better understanding and for enhancing evolvment.
I added the idea, of the check ins serving as a prolog for the evening.
If dearest behavior was all and all satisfactory and above we head up to a loving intimate date night.
If however his behavior summarized as needed improvement, still lovingly, but we cleared the evening to implement a session to help dearest modifying his behavior and step up to meet my expectations, once plans and goals were set, I executed them, making sure my darling husband was properly motivated and eager to excel with his improvement curve.
Crossing the line bare consequences.....
Just as good behavior gets rewarded.
I would have never believed, before my darling husband introduced WLM and cock control to me, that his helplessness and or sexual desperation would serve as an aphrodisiac to me.
A sweet combination of power, Control and desire.
OMG I don't want my fantasy become true but I can't say no.
When the game becomes reality, the whole power dynamics in the marriage shifts.....
Panic mistress
My darling husband rejoiced during the first few months of our developing power dynamics, the phase I call the game phase, mainly because at that stage, he was in a sense leading, because he mastered the material ( pun intended) and I was a newbie.
It was also because of the fact I was rejoicing myself, being genuinely happy, pampered and empowered by my loving husband.
At the same time, I was exploring my confidence, growing my self worth and expanding my assertiveness.
Soon, I ended that game phase, taking the reins, evolving our marriage to the WLM and cock control phase, replacing the master of the material with a strict loving mistress.
Dearest didn't panic, but he is at times more concerned and usually way more horny and desperate to cum.
Well, that's a given, it goes without saying.
What's more, when dearest misbehaves or becomes defiant the restrictions intensify and he is not allowed to even touch himself without permission, which is torture for him, knowing his intimate relations with his cock.....but the ultimate punishment for him in that sense, is when he is not allowed to touch me.....
This is probably one of the main deferences between man's thinking and woman's way of thinking.
My darling husband basic state is horny, it was true before WLM anx cock control was introduced into our marriage and it's tenfold truer now, whenI relentlessly tease him and control his releases.
As for myself, horniness used to be compartmentalized to the times sex and intimacy were aparent, I would have never out of the blue send him a sexual remark or mem in the middle of the day.....things changed though, I can readily find myself spaced out thinking about I would make my dearest do to me weather service oriented or sexual, or things I might do to my darling desperate to cum husband, pushing his limits or boundaries.....
Returning home horny, eager to be pleasured by my husband upon arrival became a common occurrence.
A lesson all women should learn
Yes, indeed, a horny man is an obedient man.
He is also a pliable man
Easy to push his limits man and so much more.
A chastity cage helps with this unhallowed behavior
Say no more.....dearest would say....
The beauty of worshipping me and bringing me to yet another orgasm, is that it gets my darling husband's mind off of his frustration and the deep ache in his loins.....only to worsen them once it's done.
diabolical
I saw it, I bought it.
Dearest defied me, I used it, he was sorry, it wasn't enough, after a while, he was very sorry....I forgave him.
It proved very useful, so is the humble.
Balls are great.
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So close, yet so far....
One thing I have learned with time, is that my darling husband can guess, what I don't say or explain and it's true regarding the proper way to please or pleasure me, the way he should behave or respond etc'.
Chastity among others, is a great tool for explaining and modifying him.
One confession my darling husband once admitted to and saddened me deeply, was that he was using the times, either of us were on a convention or a long trip to repeatedly masturbate.
What saddened me the most was, that he said that all along he was fantasizing about me teasing and edging him so he didn't cum throughout the days of the convention and he only allowed himself to cum on the last day to have a mind blowing release, knowing that once back home nothing will happen or best case scenario I will give him an extra fast duty orgasm.
The last nail was that he said that with time he stops fantasizing about me doing it because he knew it just won't happen and it frustrated him, so he started fantasizing and masturbating to a random model while scrolling.
I belive, that confession shook me enough, to be more receptive to my dear dear husband's suggestions towards a WLM and cock control lifestyle.
Nowadays, I make sure that me , the desire for me and only me is deeply etched in my dearest husband's mind and makes a relentless itch in his cock and balls.
He was the one claiming that his desire and ultimate goal is to make me happy pleased and satisfied.
I just help him achieving his goal, by teaching him what I want , what I like and how I like it, it is not my fault that I am striving for high standards.