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road trip recap!
well, we made it safe and sound! no issues, mexican banditos, not even a flat tire, can you believe it? as per tradition from the last road trip, here are my final totals:
days on the road = 20
miles driven = 4,230
flat tires = 0
mexican checkpoints stopped at = at least 6
mexican protests stuck in = 2
mexican tolls paid = $119
gas money spent = $380
lodging money spent = $316
difference between driving and flying = + $200 to drive (i think this is astonishing, by the way)
10# bag of gummy bears lacking on the trip = 1
i will try not to rant, but i do want to make a comment about how AWFUL the perception of mexico we have as americans is. the information we are given is highly specific to areas that most american tourists would probably never go. the highways in mexico were super safe, straight, well-maintained and well-monitored. there were emergency phones about every half mile. every single checkpoint i was stopped at was a very professional and efficient experience. i even felt like mexican officials were overly worried about making a good impression on me, as an american, that they went out of their way to be friendly and helpful. i understand completely that if i had had the bad luck of by chance running across the “bad cop” i’m sure this rant would have a totally different slant - however, i’m just relating my personal experience, which was a super pleasant one.
back to real life, folks!
texas, new orleans
from mexico to the US
crossing over.
so after guanajuato, i headed to monterrey, or basically as close to the border as i felt comfortable sleeping. i ended up at an absolutely stunning campground where very serious rock climbers come from all over the world as a base camp to climb the massive rock faces in this region of mexico (clearly i know none of their names). anyways, driving back to this place was through the ghetto, and (as usual) i was regretting my decision and cursing myself for arriving with less than an hour before sundown. however, as i was turning onto the property i was beyond relieved- it was gorgeous and well-kept and the mountains and rock faces as a background were almost unbelievable. i set up camp, chatted to some american guys who climbed that day with not enough water and thought it was hilarious, cooked some noodles, and headed to bed. oh, and watched a huge, hairy monster-like tarantula crawl across the parking area...
the next morning i prepared myself for battle (aka, border crossing). i was nervous about this one. i had no reason to be, i just didn’t want to get trouble for the car and the dogs and whatever paperwork i was sure i didn’t have (i have a lot). it was only 3 hours to the border, and went so smoothly i couldn’t believe it. i was definitely “red-flagged” because i got pulled over into the “this is gonna take awhile” lanes and searched. the officers were friendly, kept asking me the same questions over and over again to see if i had my story straight, and searched my car like no other. we took out every single item piece by piece and they even removed the casings that go around the body of the car to search for drugs. i was surprised they didn’t remove the hub caps. after about 45 minutes of searching and talking, they said i was free to go. they BARELY checked my car’s registration and they didn’t even glance at the dog’s health certificates. i was thankful, but a tad frustrated at all i had gone through (and all the money i had paid) to get them!
anyways, i thought it was smooth sailing till i was about 5 minutes away and went “SHIT!!!” (sorry mom) and realized i hadn’t redeemed my $400 deposit for my temporary mexican auto import sticker. SO i turned all the way around, went back through mexican customs, waited in an hour line to get my deposit back, and then went back through US customs, with $400 more dollars this time. ridiculous, i know. the custom guy laughed (it was the same one who had searched me) and waved me on through. THEN i was really on my way.
that night i camped outside of corpus christi, texas in a park called goose neck island. the texas gulf coast is pretty beautiful - i did not expect it to be so nice. camping that night was not at all peaceful - kahlua saw a rabbit at one point and literally broke her metal chain and got free while trying to chase it. i searched for her for about 20 minutes in the pitch black and found nothing, so headed back to the campsite. then ten minutes later she comes running up, out of breath and thinking she is so brilliant and awesome. finally we went to sleep, waking up every hour to bark at something new.
the next day i drove to houston to see my beloved friend jessica from CIA! we had a good laugh recognizing that the last time i had visited her was 3 years ago on my way to guatemala, instead of the other way around. how much life has changed in that time! we got to hang out with her husband and two baby boys (well, gibson is not so baby-like anymore). we went to the five guys, chipotle, and target... for the sole reasons that they were so american and i was so craving them. it was a solid day.
that night i went to camp again, this time at a park called sea rim. now this area was really beautiful - the sea was right there just a few feet away from the camp sites, the beach was open and clean and gorgeous. i fell asleep to the sound of crashing waves, and if it wasn’t for a random 4-minute-long downpour at 4am, it would have been a pretty great night. still, in the morning i woke up super early and let the dogs run free on the beach. and boy did they run like maniacs, they were SO happy.
from there, i drove to new orleans and stayed in slidell with ashley and her parents. on saturday night we went out on the lake front, i had to have a po-boy and drink some abitas, of course. the next day ashley and i went to downtown new orleans and met up with ross. we said we were only going to stay for a few hours and ended up having a heck of a day. we practically bar-hopped all of new orleans - stopping at pat o’brien’s, the dungeon (!!!), much of frenchmen st, lafitte’s, bourbon cowboy, etc etc etc. i’m sure i’m forgetting some. way later than planned, we headed back to slidell and fell fast asleep. on monday i went to the metarie to hang out with my dearest colleen. i got to meet her significant other and then we had a fabulous taco lunch at the rum house on magazine st. highly recommended for future new orleans goers! we talked and talked and talked and talked and later that afternoon i headed back to slidell.
i left the next morning, even though i wanted to stay another week - at this point i am just READY to be home. traveling with the dogs really has stressed me out a bit, and i think they are sick of traveling as well. last night i camped outside of greenville, SC. this morning i spent exploring asheville and i am staying at an airbnb house in the west side.
tomorrow i will head to the cabin and that will be all she wrote for this road trip, ladies and gentlemen! until the next bout of wanderlust comes on....!
thoughts on traveling with dogs
this post has been marinating in my head pretty much since just a couple of days into this trip. traveling with dogs is a lot like what i imagine it is to have kids. normally, my dogs have acres of open land to run around, no other dogs in sight, with a beautiful clean river flowing by, loads of chicken bones each night for dinner, and a range of activities to partake, or not partake, in. they are, essentially, no-maintenance. while living in guatemala, they did their thing all day, i did mine, they always accompanied me on my hikes, and cuddled in bed at night. that’s it.
traveling with them, however, has been an entirely different story. i literally find myself exhausted from nothing other than taking care of them. i imagine it is a bit like having a child: they always eat before i get to eat, i find myself closely monitoring their pees and poos - i know which one has done which and with what frequency and when the next one should be ready to go. maneuvering them through a crowd of people is a nightmare - markets, forget it. they will sniff at, pee on, bark at, and lick just about anything and everything - and especially things you think they won’t. i find myself spending my non-driving days thinking of brilliant ways to wear them out so that they take long naps so that i can get things done like planning our next route or finding a hotel.
some people come running up to them giving hugs and asking all kinds of questions, others run away in horror as if they are wild beasts. which bears the question: if you are afraid of dogs, maybe had a bad experience or something, the correct reaction to seeing a dog (a calm dog, well-kept, with his or her owner with a leash and harness, mind you) is not to yell bloody murder and throw your hands up and down in the air. this is sure to make the dog think you want to play with him or her and therefore have the reaction that you initially feared- lots of licking and jumping. dogs do not go around looking for timid people to terrorize- if you don’t like dogs, don’t acknowledge them, they probably won’t even notice you.
i have cleaned up vomit, dressed wounds, clipped nails, and swept away hair more in the last week than in my whole life combined i’m sure. i find myself savoring “my time” -- just like i’ve heard every new mother say -- when the dogs are sleeping and i can actually take a shower without two heads poking in, playing with the water, and then tracking wet footprints all over the place. or having time just to read a book without hearing their pathetically adorable little whines at the door to go out and explore.
i have also felt a strong sense of security traveling with them. i know that they will bark their heads off if anyone was to, god forbid, attack me, sneak up on me, etc etc. even in the sketchiest of hotels, in the middle of nowhere kind of places, i know that anyone looking for trouble probably decides to skip this gringo because of her two dogs.
and lastly, the trust that these two dogs have in me is a truly special thing. they look to me for acceptance, for permission, or sometimes just to see if i am okay and happy. they definitely know when i am lonely or sad and know how to be there for me. when they are scared, they run to me. the trust they have that i will take care of them is really beautiful.
sorry for the mediumly cheesy post. overall, traveling with these two goofballs has been ultimately rewarding and extremely challenging, and i am beyond grateful for them.... but i digress....
more guanajuato
beautiful guanajuato!
onwards... to guanajuato!
so, yesterday i never intended to drive as far as i did. however, the dogs were sleeping peacefully and i was full of energy (maybe from being so elated to finally have a full tank of gas!), so i pushed onwards and ended up driving 10 hours all the way from oaxaca to guanajuato! i am glad that i did, because guanajuato is incredibly beautiful and i’m loving spending time here already.
the drive here was super expensive, i paid somewhere around 1000 pesos in tolls! that’s something like $80! however, it was worth it- because taking the toll roads means that the roads are straight and fast, well-maintained, and your insurance is valid on them! plus, there’s access to emergency phones, bathroom stops, etc. you get the idea.
another bonus was, while approaching and passing the city of puebla, getting to watch the volcano (i believe volcano popocatepetl) erupting! and also the snow-capped mountains in the background, wasn’t too harsh on the eyes while driving.
anyways... i’m here! luckily i got lost on the way in and ended up on a panoramic city view street where the views of guanajuato were just stunning. the colorful houses just pile upon each other, up and down and in-between mountains and valleys, not wasting an inch of space, so it seems. driving in the city was a bit of an experience- the streets are so narrow, there are pedestrians everywhere, and it’s literally a maze of cobblestone streets and creepy underground tunnels. i was initially looking for a place i had found a few days ago, but quickly gave up on that idea and just pulled over and went to the first hostel i saw. besides the fact that there’s a huge group of elementary school age kids here, it’s a nice place.
today the dogs and i walked all over the city, quite literally. they are passed out next to me as i’m typing this. the plazas and churches and little alleyways are just so amazing here in guanajuato. i can’t stop pausing to take pictures of just about everything. it really is a charming city, with lots going on all over the place, i could easily see how someone could get stuck here.
here’s some photos!
mazunte & oaxaca!
always an adventure...
update time. here i am writing from oaxaca city, mexico, and boy has it been an adventure to make it here. upon leaving san cristobal de las casas, the girls and i stopped at the arcotete on our way out. it’s a natural arch formed out of rock with caves at the top and a tranquil river flowing through it. it was worth the little detour, even though it took only 10 minutes to explore the place... it was isolated and very peaceful.
from there, my goal was to head towards tuxtla and get as close to mazunte (beach!!!) as possible, although i knew i probably wouldn’t make it that night due to the distance. well, upon arrival in tuxtla, i quickly found myself amidst huge protests and road blocks. a trip that should have been no more than 2 hours took me 6 hours to get through, mostly because i kept thinking i was lost, when really the road blocks were just throwing everything off. at one point, i was in a line of cars who-knows-how-many-hours-long and the protesters were letting people through one-by-one, inspecting each car and it’s passengers. although i’m not 100% clear what was going on or what they were looking for, some people they let pass with a smile and a nod and others got their windows bashed in with huge rocks (yes, while the people were still inside!!) and bright red spray paint sprayed all over their vehicle. luckily, gringos were no problem and i was let right through with a smile and lots of comments about my guatemalan license plates. it was terrifying, but ended up being okay.
when i finally got out of tuxtla i was frustrated and exhausted beyond belief, so i didn’t make it very far. i drove another 2 hours, just to cut down on the morning’s drive a bit, and pulled over at the first hotel i found. it was a dump, but at least i felt that the car was safe and the room was safe, so i slept as long as possible and packed up early to go. i don’t even know what town i was in.
the next morning, i drove straight to mazunte. the girls who owned the place i stayed in in san cristobal recommended that i stay here instead of puerto escondido because of the million reasons why it is better: less commercial, more authentically mexican, more beautiful beach, great food, etc. they ended up being right about everything. i really thought mazunte was a little-known slice of heaven. this day was my birthday, so i treated myself to a nice fish dinner, 2 x 1 mojitos, and an ice cream. that was the extent of my celebration- hah! much to my disappointment, the dogs hated the ocean. the waves (admittedly huge ones) terrified them and they kept trying to lick the sand off themselves. very different from the romantic vision i had in my head of them running free in the surf and playing in the water. oh well, we tried. i had planned to stay 2 nights, but only ended up staying one, mostly because i thought that it was just too hot for the dogs. even after the sun had set, they were panting and seemed really uncomfortable. so, we did as much walking around as we could and then set out early the next morning.
on the way to oaxaca, we stopped in puerto escondido (i had to at least see it!) for a coffee and some souvenirs (aka, a hammock for ME!) the girls were right again- puerto escondido was too big, busy and with high rise hotels and a dirtier beach. i much preferred mazunte - everything there seemed family-owned, locally-made, etc etc.
now is where disaster strikes in the lovely road-trip story thus far. i left puerto escondido with a 90% full tank of gas as i headed north towards oaxaca. always on road trips like this when i get below half of a tank, i start looking for gas stations... which is exactly what i did. i couldn't understand why each and every one i passed was closed. i was very confused, but kept thinking there would be another one close by. my gas got dangerously low and i started to get worried. usually, guys sell big plastic bottles of gas on the sides of the roads throughout guatemala and mexico, and i even started looking for that, but found nothing. when my gas light had been on for at least 20 miles, i pulled into the next (closed) gas station and asked around with the locals what the heck was going on. they told me that the protesters were blocking the distribution of gas throughout the country. yes, the same protesters in tuxtla! UGH, ok, i thought... but i didn’t quite process how serious that situation was for me. i was close to oaxaca, but i thought for sure, 100%, that my car would run out of gas before arriving. i assessed my options- wait in the gas station until there’s gas (who knows how long that would be), stop at the next hotel (in the middle of nowhere), try to make it to oaxaca with fingers crossed. i did a little bit of two options in the end- i drove to the entrance of oaxaca and stopped at the gas station there (it was about 5:15pm at this point). after talking to the attendants, they told me gas would arrive that night, although they had no idea at what time. i said okay, i have no choice... at that point, i had driven 65 miles with the gas light on, i was convinced i couldn’t push it any further. so i waited. 10pm rolls around and police officers come to my car to tell me i am not allowed to sleep in the gas station and that i need to move on. i explained my situation, they were very polite and understanding, but held strong that i needed to leave. he also told me that there would be no gas until monday. MONDAY?!! it was only FRIDAY! AHHH! so at that point, my only option was to go as far as i could, literally. i don’t know what kind of miracle brought me all the way into oaxaca (it only ended up being an additional 3 miles, but that was how little gas i had... i was just WAITING for the sputtering and dying of my engine).
anyways, i made it to oaxaca. another miracle was that somehow i found an awesome hostel right around the corner of where i randomly parked. i thanked my lucky stars about 25 times yesterday. and now i am here until monday, or whenever there is gas.
so today, we woke up and walked all around the city. oaxaca is a UNESCO world heritage site, so it really is not a horrible place to be stuck. the protests are continuing in the central square (i’m only 2 blocks away). there is so much good food to be eaten here, i am trying it all. today i had quesadillas de flor (huge toasted corn tortilla filled with cheese and roasted zucchini flowers) and a memelita (toasted corn tortilla with amazing secret tomato and onion sauce topped with dried cheese). the cheese here is out of this world... it’s so thick and salty and they use it in everything. i also had a leche quemada nieve (snow cone the flavor of burnt milk) ... so yummy! the girls and i hiked up to a look-out point over the city, saw some great street art, saw a live performance of traditional oaxacan dance and dress, walked through the markets, and enjoyed the food. there’s a lot going on here. tomorrow are the elections, people say it will be a lively day.
so come monday i will be buying myself some gas and heading to puebla. until next time!
we spent our last day together at semuc champey, of course. <3
day 1 on the road back home
day 1 - major success! after a frenzied rush of goodbye’s and the last minute items being packed, i left lanquin around 8am. josue rode with me and the dogs, fito followed us in josues’ truck all the way to uspantan. we had head horror stories about the road to uspantan, which is why josue was so worried and insisted to accompany me. indeed, the road wasn’t great, but it was nothing compared to the one to hun nal ye- and we ended up passing through just fine. there was one stretch that was narrow and along a pretty serious cliff, and we could definitely tell how washed away the roads would become if there were heavy rains, but on this particular sunny, dusty, and hot day, they were just fine.
when we arrived to uspantan, we shuffled the boxes around a bit, i tried my best not to cry while saying goodbye to josue, and then we parted ways. it’s always a scary, in-your-gut kinda feeling when you ACTUALLY set out on your own. i don’t think that feeling will ever NOT be there. i think it’s normal.
anyways, the rest of the ride to huehuetenango was smooth going- incredible views the entire way, super curvy roads winding through the mountains, and for the most part very well maintained! i drove through the city not having any idea where i was going, just in search of a hotel. my luck was incredible as the first hotel i stumbled upon is not only ridiculously nice (for my standards), and accepts dogs! when we entered the rooms, the pups ran around excited just like little kids, checking everything out. they can’t figure out the full-size mirror and i think they are afraid of it.
tomorrow i will head straight for the border at la mesilla, with the ultimate destination goal being san cristobal de las casas!
good night for now.
and then we finished the weekend by heading to coban to cheer on the marathon runners and see los miseria cumbia band live! solid!