because i don’t think enough people have heard neotheater. some background, their previous album, the click, is a masterpiece in its own right, it came out when i was in college and it captured all of my college feels, not to mention the song about the office (yes, the tv show) which had me genuinely laughing aloud. but this post will focus on neotheater, because i’ve only just recently finished college and this album perfectly captures new-to-the-real-world feels.
like this album has made me cry so much and in the best ways, it’s been the biggest reassurance because i’ve been on my own for a month and a half now and hearing people that i respect articulating everything surround the fears and pain and sadness of growing up is as heartbreaking as it is comforting. i’m not the only one who is filled with doubts and uncertainty and having those feelings doesn’t make me a failure, thank goodness. thank goodness someone put that into music because now i can hear it whenever i need it.
and let me just say, this album has an odd sound. even for ajr, it’s odd. it’s extremely theatrical sounding, and that’s not so much my style of music, so at first i was iffy on it, but… it directly ties in to the meaning of the songs and the story that the album as a whole is telling. the idea of feeling as though you’re being judged and watched and that everyone has expectations for you whether you want an audience or not. it was a brave move and adds to the authenticity of the album.
so, let’s get on to more specifics!
“i wanna be next up forever, find a way to never hit my peak” - next up forever (these made me cry on the first listen, because like, i know they’re talking about music, but that’s such a big mood post-college)
“you’ll sail the ocean finding where you should be. and if you’re broken, you’ll find your own thing” - next up forever. there’s??? so much in these two lines??? like the idea that life is just one big search is huge, its releases so much stress surrounding the feeling that you should know where you should be as soon as you graduate. and the second part? that reassurance that you’ll figure it out, even if you don’t fit, it’s so good
“i wanna move out, i don’t wanna move on” + “i’ll come by when i’m grown, it won’t be the same though, i can’t even go home” - don’t throw out my legos. honestly the whole song just hits me hard if i’m in the mood. the profound sadness that comes with growing up and going out on your own is so well articulated in this song, and the metaphor of like. wanting to keep insignificant things around because if you do, then maybe your younger self can still stick around too. and then this idea of not having a home, i didn’t even realize it until i heard this but that’s maybe the most painful thing that i’m dealing with right now. because it takes time to make a home
“you say that i’m better, why don’t i feel better? the universe works in mysterious ways, but I’m starting to think it ain’t working for me. doctor, should I be good, should I be good this year?” - karma. i have so much to say about this song and i could’ve included a much longer quote here but this gets the point across. i think anyone who’s struggled with mental health can probably relate to this. and i love that it’s (imo) very clearly not dismissing counseling- they’re being honest in that counseling is not a magic solution, it takes work and sometimes it doesn’t seem to be working as well as we want it to, even if we do still see value in it. and the transition right here, at the end of the song, from the “i’ve been so good this year” to the question - should i even be good this year if it’s not making me feel better? that’s what really got me.
“dear winter, don’t move too far away.” + “will we still hang out and talk when i’m no longer in charge?” - dear winter. this song makes me cry every time i hear it no lie. apparently when ryan (the lyricist) played it for his brother for the first time, his brother also sobbed so i guess it only makes sense. but yeah this specific verse kills me a lot because this is exactly where i’m at right now. i moved too far away. i hate how painful that is for my parents. i had to do it but it still hurts every time i hear this.
“they wanted heaven from me, i gave ‘em hell. now they want something bigger, i’m overwhelmed” - finale. this lyric is preceded by 4 repetitions of the line “they wanted,” and the first two times it’s sung in a deep tone, but the third and fourth times it’s sung in a higher tone, and the singer sounds more energetic and maybe even high-strung, it’s like he’s rejecting “their” opinion. and then you get this lyric about heaven and hell and you see that he did something unexpected, he’s decided not to be “their” version of perfect and done something that “they” didn’t want, and maybe he thought he’d be free from “them” after that, but it turns out just the opposite happened.
“just don’t forget about me when you get out of college” - finale. it’s such a good double meaning. it’s playing off of them being scared that they’re music will lose popularity when their audience graduates, but it’s also like… talking to college friends. don’t forget about me. and also the world? and this is where things get complex with the idea of having an audience. on one hand the expectations are oppressive and confining, but at least someone’s watching as we grow up, but when we graduate it does feel a bit like society no longer cares about us so much. at least, it did for me. so i guess this line could have a triple meaning?
lyrics that make me laugh:
“thank you for coming to my birthday party, i am one minute old today” - birthday party. honestly, every lyric in this song makes me laugh, it’s just such a fucking hilarious song, and like, dark humor all the way??? but this specific lyric is said in such a funny way i love it. i actually can’t think of any other song that’s made me laugh so hard.
“what doesn’t kill you makes you ugly, life gives you lemons, at least it gave you something” - break my face. there’s a whole aspect of this song that’s really tongue-in-cheek. like it’s funny because they’re taking an idiom and really looking it in the eyes and being candid, like okay let’s stop sugarcoating things, what doesn’t kill you might not make you stronger but it’ll make you ugly! but then the song as a whole can totally be read as a satire on people who are so critical of anyone who complains, or those people who are always like “look on the bright side” and “why can’t you just be happy!” and anyway it’s so genius
100 bad days hasn’t made me laugh or cry aloud but it’s still such an important song imo. “a hundred bad days made a hundred good stories, a hundred bad days made me interesting at parties, no i ain’t scared of you, no i ain’t scared of you no more” it’s such a powerful mantra to keep in mind when things get rough. idk if that last part was meant for this, but as someone with social anxiety and probably agoraphobia, it’s just been really empowering
turning out pt. ii… i don’t personally relate to this song as much as most of the others, and yet it still makes me profoundly sad. honestly i don’t like listening to it because of that? but also it kind of… doesn’t feel as clever to me as the other songs. like i could’ve written those lyrics. which is something i rarely feel about ajr songs. idk, maybe it’s better if you relate more! and i’m biased probably because of how much i loved and related tot turning out pt. i and this wasn’t what i expected.
the entertainment’s here articulates something that scares me a lot? how easy technology makes it to ignore real life, how tempting it is to just watch netflix or youtube videos or whatever. so i avoid this song a bit as well. i think it’s clever as hell, but it scares me and i’m a coward
beats: i’m just gonna say it, it’s my least favorite song on the album. the idea is funny but to me the implementation isn’t the best? it’s not that clever imo? it’s very repetitive and i think that was supposed to like, go along with the meaning of the song, of echoing and doing what others are doing for success, but for me it’s just ultimately kinda… meh.
wow, i’m not crazy: kinda like 100 bad days, hasn’t made me laugh or cry aloud but this song is really important to me. it makes me happy. the idea of finding people who are crazy in the same way you are, and how that can make you love yourself so much more. i love that.
okay yep we stop here! honestly there are more lyrics that i love but this is an essay already sooooo. yeah. i love this album.
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