JULIUS CEZAR

peace. love. rock and roll.

[mssingothrside]

“i was never lonely because of you, dear. not a day. it was a wonderful life.”

episode 16.

[sosuperawesome]

Banzisu on Instagram

[feral-ballad]

three favourite excerpts/lines?

“Why is the measure of love loss?” (Jeanette Winterson)

“I have lots of heart... I have more heart than anybody, and for all that, I have more bitterness, too.” (Miguel Hernández)

“Not that I want to be a god or a hero. Just to change into a tree , grow for ages, not hurt anyone.” (Czesław Miłosz)

[feral-ballad]

Caitlyn Siehl, from What We Buried; “For the dinner table”

[feral-ballad]

Caitlyn Siehl, from What We Buried; “Haunting”

[nevver]

Paul Davis

[thenordroom]

Jotun LADY Color Palette 2025: Nuances

[feral-ballad]

Grief is a cruel kind of education. You learn how ungentle mourning can be, how full of anger. You learn how glib condolences can feel. You learn how much grief is about language, the failure of language and the grasping for language.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, from Notes on Grief

[virginiewoolf]

Fortesa Latifi, from The Truth About Grief.

[positivity-in-recovery]

[arinashitabun]

Art by Hector aka shitty watercolor

[skylowalker]

[moki-dokie]

😭😭😭😭

[siritheripper-deactivated202505]

[lustingupon]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Developing a Positive Mental Attitude

1. Remind yourself that you are NOT your feelings.

2. Don’t sweat the small stuff; choose to focus on what matters. Ignore or overlook the petty slights and grievances.

3. Feel the power as you learn to take control of your reactions. You’re not just a puppet where someone pulls your strings.

4. Don’t agree with other peoples’ opinions of your value, or the way they rate your actions, your motives or achievements. Don’t let them be your judge, or the one who sets your worth.

5. Don’t compare yourself to others as we’re different and unique. Set yourself some person goals then celebrate when you succeed.

6. Accept that life’s a journey, and we grow and change with time. We don’t start off being perfect – so expect to get things wrong.

7. Love yourself completely. See your value and worth.

[laughoutloud-club]

this is fine

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Please kill the part of you that believes that your happiness is dependent on another person or another thing. That your dreams won’t come true. That you will never be enough. That you don’t deserve love. There is a power deep inside you that can rise above all these false beliefs. Find it. Nurture it.”

— @loveaprilgreen

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“If you have been brutally broken but still have the courage to be gentle to other living beings, then you’re a badass with the heart of an angel.”

— Keanu Reeves

[thewordfortheday]

Acts 6:8

‘And Stephen, full of faith and power, did great wonders and miracles among the people.’

- When we are enabled by God’s power, great things can happen.

- Faith and power leads to miracles and breakthrough.

- Fear robs us of our confidence in God.

- Take hold of your faith and the strength He gives you and be courageous.

Prayer: Lord, I choose faith over fear, strength over weakness, and hope over despair and doubt. I will trust in You and Your strength in my life. In the process, I pray that I will be an encouragement to those around me. Amen.

[dictionaryofobscuresorrows]

sonder

n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

video: sonder: everyone has a story