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5 Boundaries to start with in 2021

1. Speak up if you feel uncomfortable with how someone is treating you or your needs are being infringed upon.

2. Share personal information gradually and in a mutual way (give and take).

3. Drop the guilt and responsibility for others

4. Honor what is important to you by choosing to put yourself first.

5. Stop being available for smone who isn’t treating u the same.

Different ways to help you say NO:

- “I am not comfortable with this..”

- “I’d prefer to do something else”

-“Could we not do this?”

-“I don’t feel like doing this “

#self love #self care #boundaries #healthy boundaries #dating struggle #learn about yourself #emotional boundaries

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tcocksleeve

I’m a sucker for shy kind tops who are quiet during sex cause they’re worried they’ll say something dumb, only talking to ask “are you ok? is this ok?” if they think they’re hurting you or if it doesn’t feel good. When they do try to talk during sex they’re just kinda overcome with how hot you look so they’re like “you look so good” with the sweetest look in their eyes. I’d honestly moan and shake my hips and talk about how good they are and how much I love it, all on complete purpose just to see the look on their face when they get so overwhelmed by watching me.

just-call-me-natt

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magicinwords

I knew I had to set you free. To put my feelings aside and let love slip through my fingers. It wasn’t easy. But if you try to keep hold of a butterfly—you run the risk of crushing it.

Micheal Faudet, from Cult of Two

My dearest,

I hate to admit this but I am scared, I fear the day when I lose you I will no longer be able to feel this way again. I fear that this day will come too soon, even though I tell myself how many times that I will be fine with whatever happens. I’m really not sure if i will be.

God please, oh please don’t let her leave me. I fear I will no longer know how to love again.

Indeed I am obsessed, I love and I crave all of you. Your soul connected to mine. When the day comes, when physically we may be pulled apart by the laws and the systems defined by humans in this world. I wish my love for you can defy against all odds, even we may be thousand miles away. However, I wish you to be happy. Even if it’s not with me I wish you to be happy, because I feel for you so deeply that I cannot forgive myself from keeping you this way.

I’m sorry that I am not strong enough to fight this thinking. Whenever I imagine the day you leaving, the emotions wouldn’t stop flooding in. My heart sank and it hurts, as if rocks were tide to my heart and thrown into a river. And my tears wouldn’t stop even though I wanted it to, because I feel so deeply about you.

For now, I will try and hold back my tears for when the day comes. As I wish to take each day as it go by, and take every opportunity I have with you.

Love passionately,

Nat

eliminated

I learnt a new word today......

- Altruism -

/ˈaltruːɪz(ə)m/

disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others.

28th May 2021 - 1850

I want to be romantic.

In an era where people in their 20s no longer write letters and bring bouquets of flowers for people they care and love. I want to book them romantic dinners by the sea under the stars of our galaxy and kiss under the colour sunset like that is the last moment of my life.

I want to make them happy, so happy and feel so loved. To shower them with my immense love and kindness, and not a game to show who care the least.

Because either I love or I don’t. Either I’m yours or I’m nobody’s. I may be intense, I may be too much, but I am myself.

And I want to do all of this to you. No matter how long the universe gives me, I will take that chance with you. Life is too short and I don’t believe in perfect people or perfect couple. I believe in vulnerability and authenticity.

#I want to love #to love hard

Isabella Plantation | Richmond Park

22nd May 2021

#the baby ducks are so cute i'm gonna die #pink #pink aesthetics #nature #calmness

honeygrandpa

LOVE IS STORED IN THE KITCHEN PT 1/?

our beautiful life when it’s filled with shrieks by christopher citro, perhaps the world ends here by joy harjo, kerrylockwood on instagram, the egg-eaters by hilde goossens, @3000s on tumblr, art by tomoko hara @tomokohara, a pot of red lentils by peter pereira, bread and soup by diane fraser, @grebcomics, from a letter to donald windham by tennessee williams