Renne niemanden hinterher. Entweder wirst du wert geschätzt oder nicht, aber verkaufe dich niemals unter deinem Wert.
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Renne niemanden hinterher. Entweder wirst du wert geschätzt oder nicht, aber verkaufe dich niemals unter deinem Wert.
-l.a.y.
Another rant about the RW&RB casting, and I'm sorry I'm doing this again but really wanted to. Is again about the ages, but this time people saying that they should be younger because early 20s is the age when you discover yourself and I'm like: No!!
Who told you that? Who make you believe that you should have yourself figured out by you mid-20s? That's a huge lie!
People can discover themselves at any point in their lives and you are never too old for that. You can kiss your first girl at 50, you can have your first boyfriend at 60... There aren't rules for this and is one of the beauty things about it.
Just because the media use the discovering yourself storyline only for teenagers and young people, it doesn't mean that it exclusively belongs to that part of your life.
Is Monogamy right for you? PAC
I wrote a stream of unconsciousness. Some parts may or may not make sense. Use your preferred method of finding the answer and also ask yourself if this P.A.C should be read at all from you.
Certain people have the right answer, but it is not always for you. For soul tribe reasons, right time right day etc etc.
Trust your self first.
There are three piles
Pile 1:
there are answers that fall into this category. I understand that you are looking for yours here. I have answer for you is that it is true. You don’t wants monogamy. It is awful for you. You hate the idea of being with one person all of the time. You want to explore all that there is to explore. To love all of those that wish to enter your life. To discover the ways of people as if it was the universes. Being with someone may feel like a leash around your neck it does not work for you. Never has and never will. Your leash belongs to yourself as a way to give it to those that may matter. Comfort yourself until you feel comfortable asking for what you want and it is not monogamy. Be true to you.
Please leave some thoughts on what you think of this.
Pile 2:
There is an answer here and you discovered that monogamy is for you. Yo want one person to aid you in life. To be there as a residual a reminder of love that you put out into the universe. You can’t stand the thought of being alone forever. You want more out of life than just walking alone. You shall ache for the life to share with another. Being who you are is not the problem. It is that you make up an ideal scenario in your head and it caught up in the schematics rather ordering what you want. For it shall look as how you imagined it but the taste will not feed your palate. What do you want for your monogamous union? Be honest that you are monogamous.
Please leave some thoughts on what you think of this.
Pile 3:
You want the best of both world. To share the intimacy of one person yet taste the lips of another. Is it in a clear way. It might be for you yet the other person does not know what you are doing .You like to appear as a team but you like you hidden details. The hidden life that you lead. The beautiful lies that you spin to your partner. Are you this way for a reason? Was there a childhood activity that you engaged in and it has been calling you ever sense? Before you think of wandering off again, think of yourself first and be honest. Why does this danger call to you? Be honest. Love is not your ideal way of living. Love to you is pain and hurtful tears in the night time. Collecting jars of hearts, tearing love apart. Your gonna catch a cold from the eyes inside your soul. Don’t come back for me. Who do you think you are?
Song: Jar of hearts-Christina Perri
Focus on healing others rather than hurting them because of the way you’ve been hurt before. Does it make sense? It will in time. You just focus on you. You will provide your own answers.
Please leave some thoughts on what you think of this.
First lesson in learning about yourself... is not everything is about you.
from Star Wars: Last Shot by Daniel José Older
5 Boundaries to start with in 2021
1. Speak up if you feel uncomfortable with how someone is treating you or your needs are being infringed upon.
2. Share personal information gradually and in a mutual way (give and take).
3. Drop the guilt and responsibility for others
4. Honor what is important to you by choosing to put yourself first.
5. Stop being available for smone who isn’t treating u the same.
Different ways to help you say NO:
- “I am not comfortable with this..”
- “I’d prefer to do something else”
-“Could we not do this?”
-“I don’t feel like doing this “
Winter Wonders
Winter has finally set in!!!!
Snow covers the grounds, while you fall in.
Next day, ice sets in!
It crunches under your heals, as you're thrown in
The icy weather that blankets the ground to win.
The icy wonderland whites and crystals reign
As we tobogan, having fun, again.
And as always, on your way home, you watch the plane
Flying passengers to the warmth of the sun.
My heart says: 'Never again!'
'Shall I pass this road without the wonder
Of flight and drizzle following my thunder.
I reach for its boisterous boom, all aflutter,
Hoping that with each step i learn about myself and the other.
The best knowledge to impart is to always be kinder.
Kind towards others,
Loving to family,
Respectful to colleagues and strangers,
Honest with yourself, fully
Understanding yourself and the need for your piety.
🚫Stay on Code🚫
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