Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.
On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.
Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby
Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.
Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.
And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.
Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future
Incredible how a super full bladder turns the lower belly into a new erogenous zone. Best part of the body just got even better. Cute tummy is now swollen and hypersensitive and makes you squirt pee when you press it. Amazing.
if you're reading this, you can let out a little leak from your full, aching, bladder. but only just a little leak. it would be a shame if you wet yourself and i'm sure you can keep holding it just a little more~
bending a sub over so their full aching bladder is pressed against the edge of a table or counter, holding them there and feeling them squirm. grinding against them so they press against the counter more, moaning and shivering from the pressure on their bladder. teasing their parts from behind, feeling them leak and throb. knowing they can't hold themselves because they need their hands to hold onto the counter.
clicking a clicker every time i let my sub have an accident, them learning that sound means their relief.
clicker training a sub to the point where they piss on command no matter where or when if i click a clicker.
then taking to the training so well that i don’t even realize it until they have an accident when i didn’t even intend them too and i accidentally pressed the clicker
better hope i never take the clicker out in public, i may not be nice enough to wait to click until we’re in a private bathroom
When you're fucking someone that has to piss, hearing them whine about how they can't hold it, each thrust hitting right up against their poor aching bladder
But you don't stop, oh no, hearing the broken moans only spur you on, pounding into them harder and harder until you hear that final embarrassed squeak leave their lips as the first spurt comes out
They try so hard to stop, their muscles tightening and fluttering as much as they can but it's not enough when you're hammering into them mercilessly, small spurts turning into a stream, and a stream turning to a gush as they moan and finally relieve all that pent up pressure
They're so lost in the relief that they don't realize how close they are, their hips bucking back onto you further until suddenly they're cumming around you, the climax hitting them like a ton of bricks. You follow suit soon after, stilling your hips and burying yourself deep inside them, filling them up nice and full
Then, of course, there are lots of cuddles and aftercare as you fall asleep in each other's arms😩❤️
why does nobody ever talk about tickling someone until they pee. like the idea of tying them down and stretching their body out, spread eagle so they can't close their legs. they're already desperate to go, i haven't let them all day. they're jiggling around in their bindings before i've even touched them. and the second i run my fingers up their inner thighs they shudder because it's so much and they know what's going to happen. they try to hold it in for as long as possible, thrashing and clenching their muscles, laughing and begging me to stop. i start spidering my nails over their pussy lips or the head of their dick, and they go completely still and go, "oh god" because it's too sensitive, it's going to happen. the attention there is too much. it doesn't happen all at once, there are short bursts where they gasp and clench back up and their muscle memory refuses to let them go, but they slowly soak their underwear. they never stop trying to hold it back, but once they've started it's impossible to fully stop, especially with the tickling. when they're empty i lie next to them and press a vibrator against them, talk in their ear about how that was so fucking hot and they did such a good job for me until they cum for me.
Being given ultimatums/risky tasks while desperate asf 🤭
"you can let out a little leak to relieve the pressure but only with your legs spread in bed and nothing protecting the sheets.. Better not let out too much or you'll soak your bed"
Or
"you can let out a leak but only if it's in your jeans and it's just enough to be visible.. Better not leak too much or you'll soak your jeans and people will notice"
Orrr
"sure you can go to the bathroom, but you can only use the toilet fully clothed.. Would you rather relieve all that pressure and walk out of the bathroom with soaking trousers for everyone to see or keep your bladder bursting and desperate for a bit longer?"
Ughhhh I need someone to make me do stuff like this
you know how sometimes when ur holding for a really long time and are super desperate, you finally pee but then you're already desperate again 20 minutes later? okay so. this scenario but ROADTRIP OMO!
character a already is so embarrassed b saw them so desperate and it was such a close call, they can't ask to pull over AGAIN especially when they just went!
boy who is squirming and desperate but managed to survive the handjob without peeing is now spurting helplessly once his underwear is pulled back up. send tweet
controlling someone's bladder until they go from begging to be allowed to use the toilet to begging to be allowed to wet themself. they're so desperate and full of pee that they don't even care anymore they just wanna go, please, even if they have to make a mess, even if they have to go all over themself. or maybe they've been holding it in too long and they know they're not gonna be able to make it to the bathroom even if they start running right now, they're about to have an accident, so they become increasingly desperate in their pleas to be allowed to just let go in their clothes before they start pissing themself uncontrollably without permission in the next few seconds
excerpt from the book medical and dental hypnosis and its clinical applications under the read more
contains basic information on difficulties people might have being hypnotized and how to deal with that as a hypnotist. some of this might not be as relevant in a hypnokink context, because this book was meant for teaching doctors (and some parts are a little dated or weird - the part saying that businessmen are some of the easiest people to hypnotize because of their ability to focus is kind of funny to me), but i wanted to share it anyway.
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The Preparation of the Patient’s Mind
There are certain difficulties which occur from time to time, any one
of which can seriously interfere with the successful induction of hypnosis.
1.A complete misunderstanding of what is likely to happen during the hypnotic state.
2.Confusion of hypnotic sleep with ordinary sleep.
3.The expectation of amnesia following the trance.
4.The part played by ‘ will-power ’ in inducing the trance.
5.The fear of being dominated by the hypnotist.
One or more of these arise so frequently in patients’ minds that it is most important that every one of these points should be adequately dealt with in your preliminary talk, so that the patient knows exactly what to expect. Once this has been accomplished successfully, the induction of hypnosis will offer much less difficulty. Possibly the easiest way to explain them is to describe the procedure that I myself adopt when preparing a patient who has never been hypnotized before.
I begin by asking him what he knows or what he has heard about hypnosis, and what he expects to happen during and after the hypnotic state. I almost invariably find that, if he knows anything at all, his ideas have been derived from newspaper articles, sensational magazine stories, stage performances or television. More often than not I find that he expects to be completely unconscious during the period of the trance, and to remember nothing at all of what has happened once he is wide awake again. Consequently I explain to him that medical hypnosis is not at all like this, and that hardly any of the things that he expects will, in fact, occur.
I tell him that there is no real resemblance between hypnotic sleep and ordinary sleep. Although during the induction his eyes will begin to feel more and more tired and will close just as they do when he goes to sleep, yet all the while they are closed he will remain just as wide awake and alert as when they were open. I usually describe this to him in the following words.
When you go to sleep at night and put your head on the pillow, your eyes begin to feel more and more tired until eventually they close. And the moment you fall asleep, you become completely unconscious and unaware of your surroundings until you wake up.
If I were to come into your bedroom and speak quietly to you without waking you up, you would not know I was there and you would not hear a single word I said.
When you go into hypnotic sleep your eyes will begin to feel tired and will close exactly as they do when you go to bed at night. But there will be one important difference.
You will not lose consciousness for a single moment.
You will remain just as alert and wide awake as you were before your
eyes closed. You will still know that you are in this room with me. You
will be able to hear everything that I say to you. If I ask you a question, you will be able to answer me without waking up.
If you were to become unconscious as you do in ordinary sleep, you would not be able to hear me at all, and if you couldn’t hear what I said, how could I possibly help you?
Even if you go into the deepest possible trance, you will always hear
everything I say, and remain fully aware of everything that is going on.
I then drive this point home by telling the patient that I am going to
show him exactly how he can expect to feel when he is in the hypnotic
state.
I want you to lie back in the chair and close your eyes for a few moments.
Don’t open them until I tell you to. Just listen to what I am saying.
Now, you're lying back comfortably in the chair with your eyes closed, and if anyone came into the room they would think that you were fast asleep.
But you know that you're not asleep. You are just as wide awake as you were before you closed your eyes.
You can hear everything that I am saying to you.
If the telephone-bell rang, you would hear it. And if I answered it, you would not be able to help taking a mild interest in what I was saying.
I now tell the patient to open his eyes, and I explain the purpose of what he has just done.
No matter how deeply you go into the hypnotic state, you will always feel much the same as you did then. Except for one slight difference.
If you went into a very deep trance state, you would still remain fully aware of everything that was going on, but you would feel so remote from them that they wouldn’t seem to concern you at all. You would still hear the telephone-bell and what I said when I answered it, but it would seem so far away that you wouldn’t be the least bit interested in what I was saying.
You may possibly wonder why I consider it necessary to go into this
matter in so much detail. The reason is both simple and highly important.
Most people seem to start with the wrong impression in their minds.
When they are hypnotized they expect to experience a sort of ‘black-out’ during the trance, and after awakening to remember nothing of what has taken place. Although this may not be serious enough to prevent the induction of light hypnosis with spontaneous closure of the eyes, it will often be extremely difficult, if not impossible, to deepen the hypnosis any further. The patient’s eyes will close. He will enter the light hypnotic state and he will not try to open them until he is told to do so. But he will fail to respond to any deepening technique. Once he is awakened, he will very often say 'I don’t think I’ve been hypnotized. Nothing actually happened to me. I knew everything that was going on.’ And as long as the patient entertains a doubt in his mind as to whether he has actually been hypnotized or not, you will have the greatest difficulty in inducing him into any deeper stage. Indeed, when you try, and fail, he is quite likely to say, 'Just give me some proof that something has happened. If only you can convince me that I have really been hypnotized, I know I shall be able to go deeper.’
Unfortunately he is asking the impossible during these early stages, for
only when considerable depth has been achieved can satisfactory proof be afforded. So the awkward situation will probably arise when the
patient says, ‘ Give me some proof that I’ve been hypnotized, and I'll be
able to go deeper.’ To which you have to reply, 'You go deeply first,
and then I'll be able to give you plenty of proof.’ And the result will be
a complete deadlock. Indeed the odds are that you will never be able to
make much further headway with this particular patient.
If, before attempting induction, you have given the patient a full
explanation of what he must expect and what he is likely to feel, this
particular difficulty will not occur. Occasionally such a patient will still
find it hard to believe that he has really been hypnotized despite all your
explanations, but curiously enough if these have been made, his doubts
no longer seem to be strong enough to prevent further deepening.
3. I tell the patient that he need not necessarily expect to forget what has happened during the trance once he is wide awake again. Since the patient has probably seen demonstrations of hypnotic experiments on television, in which specially trained subjects are used, he will often get the idea that exactly the same things are going to happen to him if he allows himself to be hypnotized. Most important is the fact that he will certainly expect to have a complete loss of memory for what has occurred during the trance state, and when he finds that he remembers everything that has happened he will be convinced that he has never actually been hypnotized at all. Consequently if you fail to correct his views upon these points, particularly regarding his anticipated loss of memory, you will encounter exactly the same scepticism that we have just discussed and a similar result will be inevitable.
I usually tell the patient that few people are able to achieve such depth,
and that for ordinary medical purposes it is certainly not necessary and
very seldom desirable. I explain that the subjects he has seen have been specially trained to achieve great depth, in order to be able to take part in experimental work and research. I also point out that in routine medical hypnosis, 'loss of memory’ only rarely occurs, and that I seldom try to induce it since it is hardly ever essential for ordinary treatment purposes. If by chance, however, he should spontaneously forget what has happened during the trance there would still be nothing for him to worry about. It would simply mean that he was an exceptionally good subject, and he would still be able to recollect anything that he particularly wanted to.
4. I explain to the patient that whilst will-power is most important in the
induction of hypnosis, it is in fact his own will-power that plays a significant part and not that of the hypnotist. There is a widespread impression amongst the general public that if you allow yourself to be hypnotized, you have no choice but to obey implicitly all the hypnotist’s commands. That it is his greater will-power that causes you to surrender yours completely with the result that you are bound to carry out his orders quite automatically. This, of course, links up the next difficulty on our list—the fear of being dominated—with the fear of losing control which has already been mentioned.
I tell the patient that if we really believed this to be true, I don’t think
many of us would be willing to allow ourselves to be hypnotized. I
know that I shouldn’t.
If hypnosis could only be produced through the stronger will-power
of the hypnotist, it would naturally follow that the easiest people to
hypnotize would be very weak-willed people. This is certainly not the
case, for in actual fact the reverse happens to be true. It is always difficult and sometimes impossible to hypnotize very weak-willed individuals. This is because the weak-willed person cannot concentrate sufficiently and you cannot hold his attention long enough to permit him to enter the hypnotic state. On the other hand, amongst the easiest people in the world to hypnotize are the strong-willed, dogmatic, self-opinionated business men who tend to scare their secretaries and intimidate their executives, always provided that they are willing subjects and anxious to succeed. This is because they can use their will-power to force themselves to concentrate intently upon whatever you wish, thereby greatly increasing their susceptibility.
5. I assure the patient that he need have no fear whatever of being dominated by the hypnotist, and that he can never be compelled to do or say anything to which he strongly objects. I explain that if one were to try to compel him to do such a thing it would arouse so much mental conflict in his mind (I must, but I can’t), that he would either wake up spontaneously or would display so much mental distress and anxiety that there would be no alternative but to awaken him immediately.
I am quite honest with him, and tell him that if he allows me to induce
a really deep trance state, there is no doubt that he will feel impelled to
carry out my instructions implicitly, but only in so far as he is prepared
to do so and yield authority temporarily to me. I should still be unable
to compel him to do anything to which he had a rooted objection. I
also give him my assurances that apart from the usual steps necessary
to induce and deepen hypnosis, nothing further will be done and no
questioning undertaken without having previously obtained his consent.
It may seem to you that I have considered this subject of the preparation of the patient’s mind prior to induction, at unnecessary length. I can assure you that this is far from being the case. I have done so deliberately because I firmly believe that it is the main key to success, and that more failures result from too hasty and inadequate preparation than from any other cause. The time spent in removing misconceptions, doubts and fears is never wasted. It will not only ensure more rapid and successful inductions, but failure will become much less frequent.
When I have completed my explanations to the patient, I always
ask him whether he has any other questions he would like to put to me. If so, by answering them, I am usually able to dispel any last lingering
doubts and fears, and thus secure his full co-operation and trust.
I let him see quite clearly that hypnosis is essentially a matter of team-
work between doctor and patient. That the part he plays, however
passive it may be, is every bit as important as mine, and that without his co-operation and willingness nothing can be achieved.
Hypnosis induced wetting.. omg. It’s something I’ve always thought about when I see those videos of people getting told to do stupid things while hypnotized. Someone tells you to pee and immediately without a single thought your pants are soaked
@highlyholding i decided i'll just make this bladder schedule its own post, for the rest of the omo sluts who want a schedule
it includes 6 pee breaks only because you're bound to miss some. you only have the allotted window to pee, so if you miss it, tough luck.
1st, 7:50am - 7:55am. a whole 6 minute window. but this being your morning pee, i expect you to have a couple drinks before you take this. it's important to hydrate in the morning. preferably at least 16oz total, before you can pee this first time.
after that, make sure you have a drink to sip on. drink at least 10 oz more before your second opportunity to pee.
2nd, 10:45am - 10:50am, another generous 6 minute window to pee.
at noon, make 2 tall drinks, one has to be water but you can choose the other. make sure you're stretching and snacking. you'll also be drinking a tall glass (12 oz at least) with lunch whenever you take that.
3rd, 3:15pm - 3:19pm. i want you to start drinking a cup / 8oz of something every hour or so. slow and steady.
4th, 5:56pm - 5:59pm. your window is down to 3 minutes, so pay attention. whether you get to pee or not, have an extra tall drink with dinner. keep drinking about 8oz per hour on top of that.
5th, 6:45pm - 6:47pm. aren't i nice? a little relief to weaken your bladder muscles & let you relax at dinner. have another extra tall drink (12oz+) when the sun sets, and at 9pm. and keep sipping something every hour.
6th, 12:37am - 12:39am. i'm not even making you wait 6 hours, see, i'm so nice.
also, obviously, if anyone offers you a drink you have to accept. and the moment those specific minutes are up, you should be off the toilet and back to corking it up. if you miss your chance, too bad, you can wait until the next one. i'm not even making you drink that much.
Woke up at 7:25 to make coffee. Already needy for a toilet break, squirming and desperate by 7:30. Ran to the toilet, starting to pee slightly before getting sat down at 7:40, oops 😬.
Continued with my coffee while watching YouTube shorts. Desperation hit again at 8:40 and by 8:55 I had to run (literally) to the bathroom again.
Made another cup of coffee to sip on.
Starting to really feel it and get squirmy at 10:30- I wanted to make myself hold longer since I've already taken extra breaks- but I don't think I'm going to make it past the scheduled break at 10:45, I'll be lucky to even make it to then 😬.
I made it to 10:45, peed, and drank a can of water, drank a tall glass at noon. I are lunch late at 2:30 and had another cup of coffee.
@highlyholding i decided i'll just make this bladder schedule its own post, for the rest of the omo sluts who want a schedule
it includes 6 pee breaks only because you're bound to miss some. you only have the allotted window to pee, so if you miss it, tough luck.
1st, 7:50am - 7:55am. a whole 6 minute window. but this being your morning pee, i expect you to have a couple drinks before you take this. it's important to hydrate in the morning. preferably at least 16oz total, before you can pee this first time.
after that, make sure you have a drink to sip on. drink at least 10 oz more before your second opportunity to pee.
2nd, 10:45am - 10:50am, another generous 6 minute window to pee.
at noon, make 2 tall drinks, one has to be water but you can choose the other. make sure you're stretching and snacking. you'll also be drinking a tall glass (12 oz at least) with lunch whenever you take that.
3rd, 3:15pm - 3:19pm. i want you to start drinking a cup / 8oz of something every hour or so. slow and steady.
4th, 5:56pm - 5:59pm. your window is down to 3 minutes, so pay attention. whether you get to pee or not, have an extra tall drink with dinner. keep drinking about 8oz per hour on top of that.
5th, 6:45pm - 6:47pm. aren't i nice? a little relief to weaken your bladder muscles & let you relax at dinner. have another extra tall drink (12oz+) when the sun sets, and at 9pm. and keep sipping something every hour.
6th, 12:37am - 12:39am. i'm not even making you wait 6 hours, see, i'm so nice.
also, obviously, if anyone offers you a drink you have to accept. and the moment those specific minutes are up, you should be off the toilet and back to corking it up. if you miss your chance, too bad, you can wait until the next one. i'm not even making you drink that much.
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