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signs of hypersexual disorder

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Tfw you know deep down you're hypersexual because of trauma but you refuse to admit it and cover it up like you're just super sex positive.

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Tfw when your fantasies scare you and make you feel dirty.

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God we have sex like maybe once or twice a week but it’s not enough I feel but also I still feel bad for his roommate who we constantly kick out of the dorm and shit but it’s like I want more I can’t not I constantly want sex I’m always thinking about it and I feel him get hard whenever we’re together and I want him so badly always and I sometimes try to get things to go further but he kinda discourages me and it’s fine it really is just because he’s hard doesn’t mean he wants sex but goddamn it

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That feeling when you don't know if your bf is abusing your hypersexuality and low self-esteem or if he disregards it since you are a consenting adult who is fully responsible for your own actions.

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tfw the only person who was as sexual as you but also had a good romantic relationship with you starts drifting off and you have to break up with them because you're getting no sexual validation but now you're getting even less and oh god I'm so scared I just need someone to tell me how much they love fucking me

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im hypersexual but ive never NEVER been able to orgasm and its killing me

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Tfw your husband (who you love more than life itself) has a low sex drive and so you constantly feel ugly and unwanted.

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Tfw your abuser still lives next door and you know you could call him and he would hurt you again and you want to because you're good for nothing but sex and being hurt and damaged and abused

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Wanting to be seen as helpless and sexualized because you just want to be used

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Tfw you have hypersexual tendencies but you also have vaginismus making penetrative sex living hell no matter how much you want it

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tfw u think you moved past hypersexual urges and have been repulsed and numb for a long time but are realizing it’s just another part of you you have to live with that you forgot

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That terrible fw you back out of a terrible toxic sexting-nude relationship with another minor and u realize ur hypersexual and repulsed unpredictably at the same time and u want to tear him apart because he used you for sex and die bc u feel stupid

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a few years ago i got out of a sex trafficking ring and ever since whenever i see a post staying to watch out for (blank) bc theyre kidnapping and trafficking people i get the urge to do what it advises against

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i told my bf i felt like i was pressuring him to sext and flirt yesterday and that i felt disgusting and he talked me out of that funk. he also told me he was glad to help me when i felt like i need relief and he understands. i didn't realise until yesterday how much he means to me.

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My boyfriend and I haven't had proper sex in over two weeks because stuff keeps coming up and he's been sick for the last few days and I feel like trash because I! WANT! SEX! and it's SELFISH and AWFUL because the boy doesn't FEEL WELL and I can't get rid of this gross horniness and I get genuinely upset when we don't have sex and fuck, I'm just an awful human, please help me

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I don't even know if i'm hypersexual or what, but sex is the only thing on my mind most of the time and my only reason for not giving up hope completely atm is the thought of sex. I dont think it's normal for me to think about and idealise sex this much, but I've not been through trauma and I'm pretty sure i'm not bp so I have no idea

hypersexuality can exist on its own. it doesn’t need to stem from trauma or another mental illness

(info that can b found in the faq)

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I wonder if its bad to be a lesbian but have intrusive thoughts + sexual desire for dick. Like, not guys, really, but just a dick. A huge dong. The bad thing about it is i feel realy disgusting after that. I feel dirty. Men disgust me but sometimes i crave dick a bit too much this is confusing.

dicks aren’t inherently related to guys, so just having a preference for certain genitalia doesn’t mean anything wrt to ur sexual orientation. however if ur craving dick bc u associate it w men, and as a lesbian u “desire” it bc of past trauma or a desire to hurt urself, that is something that can be dangerous for ur own wellbeing, and id advise u 2 seek help for this issue if its possible.