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him grinding his bulge on me while we’re cuddling, wrapping his arms around me to keep me in place, letting me feel how hard he is, leaving soft kisses on my shoulder

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i wish more people talked about the subs who struggle to cum and how much patient gentleness they need. the ones who get tears in their eyes from frustration, who start believing something’s fundamentally wrong with them. i love pulling them into my arms immediately, wrapping them up completely. “you’re okay, baby. you’re perfect. nothing is wrong.” the way they shake their head against me. “but i can’t—” “shh, sweetheart. your body isn’t broken. you’re not failing at anything.” holding them tighter, letting them feel how secure they are. “sometimes our bodies just don’t cooperate and that’s completely normal and okay.” stroking their hair gently, kissing their forehead. how they need specific reassurance about how i’m feeling. “are you getting tired?” and i pull back to look at them. “no, baby. i’m not tired at all.” cupping their face in both hands. “i’m not bored. i’m not frustrated. i’m enjoying every single moment of being close to you like this.” the way they search my eyes, looking for any sign i’m lying. “i mean it, sweetheart. truly.” how they need constant physical comfort… my hand in theirs, my arm around them, my forehead touching theirs. “what would feel good right now, baby? do you want to keep trying? do you want to stop? do you want to just be held?” giving them complete control, and the reassurance they need if they want to continue, going slower this time, gentler than before. “we’re going to go at your pace, okay sweetheart? you tell me what feels good.” checking in constantly with softer touches and softer words. “this okay, baby?” “still comfortable, sweetheart?” how they need reassurance that isn’t conditional on finishing. “you being here with me is enough, baby. you trusting me with your body is enough. whether you cum or not doesn’t change how much i love this, how much i love you.”

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lesbiciousbeginnings

Got asked why I keep picnic supplies in my car, as if I’m not a fucking lesbian 🙄

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I post selfies in the hopes that tumblr dykes think, “I would eat her pussy. I would take her strap.”

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I get disabled positivity but how can a disability that needs special accommodations during or after sex not be a bad thing?

Disabilities per se don't tend to be fun, but the post you're presumably referring to was talking about it not making anyone less desirable.

Ultimately, disabled or not, we all have our needs and just for some people, some of those needs are particularly critical, particularly important that the needs be met, more serious consequences if they're not met, etc.

Disabilities can be minor or major and if they affect sex they're just something to work around like any other factor.

Someone with no disabilities at all might need a pillow placed under part of their body in some position, in order to be comfortable enough to enjoy themself. That's an accommodation, but does it make them less desirable? I shouldn't think so.

I'm a little hard of hearing and if I'm using a vibe I usually can't hear/understand what my beloved is saying. I have to turn it off, say "say again?", hopefully catch it this time, if not we try again, and then I turn the vibe back on. It's a mild inconvenience and yes it gets in the way—walkie talkie sex is silly and we shouldn't need radio protocol to do bedroom talk—but I would hope it doesn't make me less desirable.

My beloved is Type 1 Diabetic, and that doesn't usually affect us sexually but if her blood sugars are out of wack, that needs fixing first. If her catheter gets accidentally pulled out (happened once), that needs fixing first. For her own sake I'd obviously rather she have a working pancreas, but as it is, she doesn't, and if she occasionally needs a little extra care in some way, that's my beloved and I love her and am glad to run to the fridge at 3am for more insulin. Don't get me wrong, she can and does look after herself, but what kind of partner would I be if I weren't quick to want to care for her? And again anyway the bottom line is I know I'm super lucky to have her, and it'd be weird for me to want her any less because of the stuff that keeps her alive.