Blog post #10: Technicity of Intimacy (Joey Wong)
In this weekâs optional reading by Alex Lambert titled âBody, Mood and Excess. Relationship Tracking and the Technicity of Intimacyâ, the author writes about how there has been a range of commercial mobile technologies that are emerging, using psychophysiological sensors to monitor our bodies and behaviour to produce new forms of knowledge about social relationships.
The author also states the concern regarding how this form of relationship-tracking influences intimacy.
The author claims that relationship-tracking promises to take up the intensive social labours associated with contemporary intimacy yet the psychophysiological measurements that these technologies rely on can produce âpartial and ambiguous indicators of intimate life, gesturing toward an excess of intimate meaning that cannot be interrogatedâ.
The author claims that the meaning of tracking (self/relationships) lies within the journey and not the destination. I agree with this claim. In the reading, the author related self-tracking to a kind of project and relationship tracking as a shared project.
For self-tracking, i will be using an application that I use very often when I was younger, âPlant Nannyâ. This application reminds me to drink water and every time I log my drinking, i get to water my plant that i am nanny of. While the ultimate goal is to get my to drink more water, I am more invested in watering the plant that i have an emotional connection towards. This shows how the meaning of such tracking lies within the journey instead of the destination (goal).
The author claimed that relationship tracking can compromise and may cause more problems in an relationship. I agree and disagree with this claim. An example of a relationship tracking application would be âZenlyâ. âZenlyâ allows me to track all of my friends but most people like me started using Zenly to track our partners. While that might sound like I'm obsessed, this application allows me to make sure that my partner is safe and if anything were to happen, I could get hold of his last location. Furthermore, after a night out, I don't have to constantly check if he is home on text. I can just look at his location on Zenly and make sure that he is home safely. This is why i would disagree that such relationship tracking applications can compromise a relationship. However, I do understand how such applications can cause discomfort and arguments within couples. I have a friend whose boyfriend (now ex..) was in Thailand with his friends. While he was missing for a few hours online, my friend headed to Zenly to see the location of him. She googled the location name and found out that âheâ was âatâ a strip club. Till this day only he would know if he was really at the strip club or if technology has made a mistake of locating his location. This funny yet sad example shows how relationship tracking can ultimately cause discomfort and argument.






