omg the way hyunjin checks on seungmin at 8:06 because heās zoned out is so sweet, but it made me think about how there arenāt that many sickfics about him, weāre seungminnie fic deprived š
ok so ik this is really random and not about fics, but my bf has the same thing as yours and it made him cry the other day??
like idk if thatās normal but I was literally so worried. so thatās the question, does it get that bad??
and omg Iām treating you like a doctor, sorry for that, lots of love~
Hey! Ah no worries you can always come in and talk about this with me! š«¶
Sadly it is normal. Crohns can get really bad and sometimes it may be also out of frustration that you start crying.
Honestly I held my boyfriend often during very bad flare ups and he cried because it hurt him and he also was just really annoyed with the whole thing which didn't really help the situation.
The things is the flare up and symptoms can come out of nowhere even if he's strictly following his diet and takes his medication.
I can understand that you're worried too. I'm always worried too and to be honest a bit scared sometimes but what I did is that I talked with my boyfriend about this. I asked him if i can do something for him when it gets bad and it turned out it already helps him to stay calmer when I just being him tea and we cuddle whisk watching TV. Maybe just talk with your boyfriend about it and see what he would like to do when it gets bad
I feel like when he doesnāt feel good heās the type to want to watch a movie and not talk much, but he doesnāt complain
I see him arriving home, changing into comfy clothes and saying sth like āletās watch a movieā āwatch sth with me?ā trying to sound normal but thereās this tired and soft tone to it so you just know heās unwell
and then he may or may not let his guard down, if he does he probably sighs or whines softly, snuggling into you
and if he doesnāt then heāll just let you play with his hair and probably will fall asleep before the movie finishes
and omg, thatās almost a whole prompt right there, Iāll leave it like that
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Awww I can totally see that
He's like not the type to com0lwin immediately but also doesn't hide it or says he's fine when he isn't.
I can see him just taking your hand and placing it on his head or places your hand in the spot it hurts. If it's his stomach he would just place your hand there without saying anything and he would he so thankful if you would just give him a massage without saying anything.
and letās talk~ whatās your ult group lately?? and whoās your ult bias??
My ult group will always be Stray Kids & Ateez
And my Ult bias is Jeongin š„°
Very short story time about my bf:
Emeto mentioned
When we were in Korea for the stray kids fanmeeting he was SO excited for it that he just ended up with a really bad stomach ache. Like my boy couldn't even eat and he had to stay in bed the whole day. We even though he couldn't attend the fanmeeting as we were a bit worried that it was a flare up (luckily it wasn't).
So he was just in bed for two days straight while I tried to do something alone in Korea (was super hard for me) and the night before the fanmeeting he just threw up in the middle of the night (on my feet š„²) and he felt horrible, like his stomach didn't stop cramping so we cuddled for most of the night. To our surprise in the morning and for the fanmeeting he felt better
omg love that idea, if your bf is okay with it, ofc. but if you narrate it in 1st person you donāt really need to use a name, just refer to him as your bf, kinda like a story time rather than a fic??
He said yes š„³
Oh yeah that's an option too. Didn't think of that haha