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a lot of the contents of this blog are really cringe and gross me out and i have long moved past them but i’ll be keeping it here for transparency purposes. thanks !

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i’ve never been in da4 and we never knew each other that’s all ok bye

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damn.......... younger me really a prophet on the 8th of february 2016...........

i’ve never been in da4 and we never knew each other that’s all ok bye

#but uh thank u

chinhi-deactivated20160211

#death/ptsd m Communist kids love talking over people lmao every time I tell them to stop uncritically idolizing something that got half my family murdered they try to spin it like i don't understand or I just secretly hate poor people?? My grandma has PTSD and had to escape China in the middle of the night and raise her kids in a broken down shack in Taiwan because the revolution was so violent and terrifying but I guess these white American kids know more about communism than I do /sarcasm

yea like a lot of the quirky #communist kids completely ignore historical context + war crimes committed and I’m like….uh

#violence

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i hope this is okay to reblog (if not i’ll delete it) but yeah to my followers if you talk about communism lightly or support it or think it’s the miracle solution to everything do not do that. it’s been bothering me a whole lot, esp. when white kids see it as the “hip new things” b/c it ”””” defeats capitalism””” like communism has so much brutal history behind it ppl have starved and been dragged away to the middle of nowhere and lost their families and their possessions and their lives if u think that’s cool then no. no.

#ptsd -#death ment -#implied violence -

breathtakingdestinations

Once the site of glory, they’re now the site of ruin. They are abandoned Olympic cities and some aren’t even that old.

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i log onto my dash again to find fucking 么么公主 on my dash what a time to be alive in this year of 2015

#this is fucking surreal i'm hollering

glitchedpuppet

I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.

People are not just “good” or “bad”.

People are not a list of labels.

People are complex, situations are complex.

I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.

I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.

I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.

I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.

Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.

Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.

Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.

Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up.

Be sincere. Use your best judgment.

#ah man the fear thing hits home a lot #i'm just gonna #leave this as the last post on my blog #long post -

Hi, just a little update for people. Despite losing communication, I still exist, and thus there’s a bit of a change in me.

I’ve recently come to identify as apagender, instead of genderfluid, meaning that I basically don’t care what gender I am/people perceive me as anymore. This means that you can use any pronouns for me, unless it’s a kin-related nounself pronoun that isn’t related to technology (techy kin-related pronouns are still good to go).

So, if you ever think of me from time to time, need not worry about my pronouns/gender anymore! I feel more comfortable when other people decide those things for me anyways.

Thanks!

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I’ve recently realised something important and that something is I can have the world at my fingertips if I just work hard enough at it.

So! Without further ado, I will be abandoning this blog.

I know, moving accounts is a drag, urrrgh.

If I know you IRL, you can message me and ask for my new URL if you want.

But, that’s all, I s’pose!

#Whew! I think I'm on an adrenaline rush.