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Kara | 29

[secondbeatsongs]

[adhd-vibes]

[aspiringwarriorlibrarian]

You know, it's kinda funny how much of high fantasy centers around kings and nobility and courtly intrigue considering that the archetypal high fantasy, Lord of the Rings, had the rather explicit moral of "saving the world is up to this backwater hick and his gardener because no politician, least of all inherited nobility, would have the ability to see past their own ambition and throw away a weapon". Oh sure, Aragorn is a great king and all, but there's a reason he's over there running a distraction ring while the hobbits do the real work. Sauron loses because he gets distracted by kings and armies and great battles (i.e. typical high fantasy stuff) letting Frodo and Sam sneak through his back door and blow it all to hell.

Just saying, maybe old Jirt knew what he was saying when he said that the small folk doing their best and holding to each other was more powerful than a dozen alliances and superweapons and we should respect him for it.

[hamletthedane]

(No but seriously OP you’re exactly right)

[sugarmint-dreams]

Happy 31st anniversary to Sailor Moon ☽

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my shop

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[annie-maria12]

So true

[the-worm-man]

call that a skill issue. i have all 5 😎

[the-worm-man]

ok you’re not gonna believe this. but my advisor

[miiilowo]

there needs to be more content specifically aimed at people who grew up in the middle of rural bumfuck nowhere who love the shitty worn down rusty pickup truck unclean gas station bigfoot sighting 200 degree weather dirt-eating redneck vibe of it all without the whole homophobic white christianity thing

[miiilowo]

fellow GAY TRANS MEN. will GO FISHING together and ENJOY IT UNIRONICALLY

[miiilowo]

im posting these tags because this is poetry actually

[evaughn]

[glasspostings]

while you were attending therapy i was studying the blade

[glasspostings]

what do you mean i need better coping mechanisms

[dancinbutterfly]

>a wild therapist has entered the chat you need an additional coping mechanism studying the blade is a DBT principle called Building Mastery - wherein you engage in anything that is practical during which you gain skill and can actively see yourself progress - which is resilience building technique by which you shore yourself against vulnerability factors that make it harder to regulate emotions and manage activities of daily life and interpersonal interactions effectively. if you continue to study the blade while engaging in therapy, it will in fact make your therapeutic session more effective because having a skill that you pursue builds self-esteem and is a foundation upon which other coping skills can be built. so not better coping skills, blademaster, additional ones. you are already heading in the right direction and you have proven you have the tenacity to apply yourself to one discipline. now show us what you can do when applying yourself to your healing.

[thenordroom]

A Playful Maximalist Home in London (click for the full tour)

[memewhore]

[danndesigns]

Once I’ve finished pondering my orb I begin orbiting my pond

[honeylavendermilktea]

the fact that we need 8 hours of sleep is ridiculous we should only need 4 and the other 4 should be used to be cozy in your bed and rub your legs together like a cricket and listen to music and think about your little scenarios

[gums]

i highly recommend for women and girls to be intellectually curious and difficult to shame

[45percenterthen]

babygirl this long distance mutualship has me yearning for pangaea

[theories-of]

Rafaël Rozendaal

[mangomonet]

anne hathaway at the valentino fall 2022 couture show

[ursulaklegay]

actually i love growing older and learning how i work as a person like realizing what kinds of fabrics feel best on my skin or what brand of yogurt i like best or how I want to be touched. watching myself change, enjoying brussel sprouts when I used to hate them as a child, understanding why I got angry in that one conversation 10 years ago… there are so many mysteries inside me that i have yet to unravel and there will always be more and sometimes i think maybe its all worth it