Katherine

29. UK. Mam to RG born 02.12.16. Have a wild pup called Ralph. Miserable bitch. Navigating the wonderful world of motherhood and the not so wonderful world of grief.

[thoughtkick]

“I have never known who or what I am supposed to be. The only thing I know for sure, is that I am supposed to be more than I have been.”

— William Chapman

[katherine26]

Mother's day when you're missing a mother sucks.

And when you're missing a baby too.

[katherine26]

It's my 12 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

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“Your absolute best won’t be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you’ll still be worth it to the right person. Remember that.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“But no matter how mad I’ve been, I never for one second stopped wanting you here with me.”

— Colleen Hoover, Hopeless

[thoughtkick]

“When you talk you are only repeating what you already know. But when you listen you may learn something new.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“Please stop destroying what is left of your heart by constantly thinking about things that have broken you.”

— Unknown

[katherine26]

It's a fine line between thinking about the things often enough that I don't want to go back.

And not thinking about them too much that I'm broken by them over and over.

[thoughtkick]

“The worst mistake that you can make, is to walk away from the person who actually stood there and waited for you.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“Stop trying to change someone who doesn’t want to change. Stop giving chances to someone who abuses your forgiveness. Stop running back to the place where your heart ran from. Stop trusting their words and ignoring their actions. Stop breaking your own heart.”

— Unknown

[katherine26]

This spoke to me tonight.

[thoughtkick]

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”

— Maya Angelou

[another-worthless-fuckup]

So that’s where it all started.

[thoughtkick]

“It’s like the people who believe they’ll be happy if they go and live somewhere else, but who learn it doesn’t work that way. Wherever you go, you take yourself with you. If you see what I mean.”

— Neil Gaiman, The Graveyard Book

[thoughtkick]

“Having a soft heart in a cruel world is courage, not weakness.”

— Katherine Henson

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“The past should be left in the past because it can destroy your future. Live your life for what tomorrow has to offer, not for what yesterday has taken away.”

— Unknown

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“Sensitive people should be treasured. They love deeply and think deeply about life. They are loyal, honest and true. The simple things often mean the most to them. They don’t need to change or harden. Their purity makes them who they are.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged or given an ultimatum.”

— Mandy Hale

[katherine26]

I really, really need to remember this.