What happened with Deadcat? I'm just curious. I got blocked forever ago, back in 2017, and I'm interested in the change of your own opinion of them. It's interesting to me because I remember how DC portrayed themselves very specifically and I just want to understand the change in dynamics with DC and others like yourself. You're under no obligation to respond, however.
I lived with Deadcatwithaflamethrower and her family for almost 2 1/2 years, from July 11 2016 until October 27th 2018. Weād been talking online for almost a year before that, and she was very supportive and helped me recognize that Iād spent most of my life being abused by family members, and offered to let me move in with her and her family.
She was very nice and welcoming at first, but became progressively more emotionally, physically, and spiritually abusive as time went on (and, honestly, I think as I was healing more, and not just deferring to her opinion on everything).
During that time she also went from like . . .Ā āmaybe a little weird, but okayā alternative spiritual beliefs and ramped up pretty quickly to what I can only describe as ācult shitā (she claimed she could channel gods and angels and if you were disagreeing with them, you were āarguing with the angelicā and should be punished for it. She claimed she and her family are the royalty from another planet/plane called Swanhame, where she and her husband apparently have a starcrossed lovers situation going on, because sheās from Phoenixhame and swans and phoenixes are at war. She says sheās really, spiritually, a phoenix named Alexandria*, and the Library of Alexandria is named after her.Ā Her husband is actually a swan crown prince named Peter, whoās actually the reincarnation of one of the apostles* (first she said Peter, then she said āNo, wait, it was actually Johnā, but seemed to think the apostle John and John the Baptist were the same person. And Iām not Christian and donāt go here, but there was a lot going on.), and their kids are spritually a dragon and I think a phoenix.**), and used them to hurt people.
*To be clear, not remotely their legal names. Iām not doxxing them or anything.
**The āloreā on that one changed a couple times.
They had told me that we would always be family, and I was their adopted cousin now. When we moved to Florida in 2018 and it didnāt magically fix all of her problems, it became āmyā fault, and she ramped up the abuse. It was pretty bad. She made death threats. She told me I was possessed and wasnāt trying hard enough to not be possessed, and it would be like. Three hour long āletās yell at JabberwockyPie and tell her everything sheās doing wrongā sessions. (Weirdly, yelling at mentally ill people doesnāt make them less mentally ill. I was having a depressive episode - largely because I was being abused.)
She blamed me for causing Hurricane Michael, and said it was because I was dissociating too much, and the storm was trying to get rid of me. They kicked me out in 2018, promised weād still talk, and then . . . totally cut me off. And told a bunch of our mutual friends and acquaintances that I was this horrible, abusive person. So, I was living in a strange state, where I didnāt know anybody else, and was cut off from most of my support system. When I broke my ankle the day after I moved out (which was just bad luck - I didnāt have groceries, so I was walking to the grocery store on a road without a sidewalk, and my ankles roll.) she claimed Iād done it on purpose).
She claims that she never ever lies, because lying is wrong, but that āGiftedā people can learn to Word Around things, so youāre not TECHNICALLY lying.
Anyway, sheās spent the last four years publicly alluding vaguely to shadowy, evil people plotting against her every time something goes wrong in her life, and privately claiming that Iām an abusive evil stalker, etc.
When she got suspended from Ao3 in late July - for breaking their āNo Monetizationā policy for like the fifth time or something - she decided it was my fault again, and that Iāve used my āconnectionsā at Ao3 and with other BNFs to hurt her. (I do not have connections at Ao3.)
Iāve talked about it a lot in my Flamethrower Fuckery tag here, and youāre probably better off checking their for details, because I just woke up and I need breakfast, and Iāve got some other shit to do today.Ā https://www.tumblr.com/jabberwockypie/tagged/Flamethrower%20Fuckery
I hope that helps. Let me know if you have follow-up questions.
But yeah, I donāt like her.
I'm glad you're out of that situation then. Good luck to you and fuck her indeed.
