https://www.tumblr.com/thorny-typology/812067987517521920
I'm curious to find out if you've realized your mistake since this interaction. This isn't meant to be an attack or anything, I'm just genuinely curious to hear your thoughts on this interaction here.
That person and I spoke in private when the post blew up and I told them what happened in my mindpace and they told me they realized they understood and that they didnât mean for it to get out of hand like this and Iâm so sick of it catching up with me, I was not paying attention, it was a quick glance at the art and I wasnât thinking, I was totally head empty, I was stupid and that was it, I wasnât familiar with the person, I was just saying something I thought was cute at the time and clearly wasnât. I love gay and lesbian and queer relationships, and aro/ace people (as I have identified as before discovering demisexuality) everything under the fucking spectrum of people, I support it all, and I hate the misunderstandings people have about me because of that stupid fucking post. It was a stupid fuckup that I didnât mean to happen
Having considered it further, obviously I made a stupid misunderstanding, but I wonder if people took the chance to shit on me so hard because I am nonbinary. Maybe if I had never shared my identity to begin with I would have never garnered as much hate. It was still a stupid fuckup but I think itâs worth noting












