be the center of your own universe

[invisionedaspiration]

[billtaughtyou]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

days don’t have to be great to be good days. good days can be calm and relatively uneventful, a small rest from seemingly longer days. those are the ones i find myself overlooking and then missing. there were days when i tasted really good fresh fruit or bought a happy little bee plant or took a nice nap or had lunch outside under the sun. those were good days i should have given more credit.

[04k96]

Here

[wetheurban]

A calming truth: Not everything you planted this month was meant to bloom this month. Keep going. Trust your process.

[wetheurban]

Close May gently.

You did enough.

You showed up enough.

You are enough.

Allow that to be true.

[billtaughtyou]

[mllxo]

Sometimes you gotta sit and really think how blessed you are seriously

[miamlsunshine]

[her-written-thoughts]

and then suddenly everything worked out in your favor.

[kevc]

[isl-equ-ay]

[gothluv]

It had to happen for growth purposes

[aidashakur]

[aetas-aurea]

How do I become the woman I have always dreamed of becoming?

Write down exactly who she is in specific measurable terms.

Set a deadline.

Break it into monthly goals.

Break those into weekly tasks.

Break those into daily non negotiables.

Execute without waiting to feel ready.

Track everything.

Audit. What worked, what didn't, why, what changes.

Eliminate what is not producing results immediately and without sentiment.

Build systems not motivation because motivation is unreliable and systems are not.

Identify the three highest leverage actions and do those first every single day.

Remove every habit, person, and environment that is incongruent with where you are going.

Replace them deliberately and specifically with ones that are.

Do the hardest thing on your list first before your brain has had time to negotiate.

Stop consuming content about doing the thing and go do the thing.

Create accountability that has real consequences attached to it.

Give yourself a non negotiable timeline and treat it like an external deadline.

Review your written vision every single morning before the day gets access to you.

Raise your standards and then raise them again.

The plan is nothing without execution. Execute.

[joli--coeur]

never underestimate the power of:

• eating fruits and veggies

• going outside

• opening your windows and letting the fresh air in

• cuddling with your pet

• catching up with your sibling or parent

• complimenting someone you don’t know

• exercising

• journaling

• cleaning out your fridge and cabinets

• listening to happy music

• putting yourself first

• making and eating a home cooked meal

• washing the dishes/putting the dishes away

• washing/brushing your hair

[wetheurban]

You have life. You have music. You have nature. You have your lungs. You have your heartbeat. You have your smile. You have a roof over your head. You have people who love you. You have hard-earned wisdom. You have people you inspire. You have growth to be proud of. You have sunlight. You have the chance to try again. You have a beautiful future. You have time.