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[instaexposed]

So your girl reveals that she is gay but the gag is that y’all have that in common..

[luvtwo2-deactivated20220912]

“BIISSSH U THOUGHT U HAD ME"😂😂😂😂

[igotyourfav]

Gagging 😂

[blacknbougiee]

never,

befriend, talk, date, fuck with any man that you’re doing better then. Whether it’s financially, education and/or your career. I’ve learned that men can be envious and jealous of what you have. And to be honest it doesn’t matter if you were blessed and privileged or you worked for everything you got. He will manipulate and use you because that’s the only way he can get one up on you.

He doesn’t care about you nor does he love you. He has deep seeded issues and frail masculinity that you aren’t obligated to fix. He is not your brother, he is not your man and he damn sure ain’t your husband. That man doesn’t deserve your sympathy and compassion.

He’s one of the worst kind of men you can come across. Watching your every move while he sits home and does nothing with himself. He lacks motivation and drive and it’s not your job to be his cheerleader.Don’t let your loneliness attract this type of man, he feeds off of it. He will try to sweep you off your feet, whisper sweet nothings and use your love as a weapon against you. He will make you feel bad about yourself, suck you dry, blame you for his short comings and make you feel guilty. He will fuck with your confidence and rob you of your independence and replace with with dependence for his love. He will steal from you because you clearly have the means take care of him right?

Don’t be that girl, if that man don’t got his shit together you are not his mother and it’s not your job to raise him. If he can’t uplift you, motivate and upgrade you then he’s not the one. Take pride in your independence and being single. Love yourself and that is one love that nobody can take from you!

[abusiveparenting101]

One day it hits you, though. You’re definitely not a kid anymore.

You were always more mature than your peers, it was partly, perhaps mostly, due to the fact that you needed that to survive in the abusive household. You needed the emotional maturity of an adult at a very young age to process and survive the damage.

You’ve known you’re an adult for a while and before that you knew you were a teenager, just on a rational level.

But the realization still hits hard.

Things that were when you were a kid are no more. Kids are different now, you don’t recognize your own adolescence in what they have today. Things are ending, other things, beginning, it’s terrifying, exhilarating, everything at once.

You never got a proper childhood and that’s bittersweet. Because you missed out on a lot you wish you’d had. And even now, you’ll never not be traumatized, you’ll just heal and get better at coping. But you also have all these years ahead and endless opportunities.

So, what comes next?

[the-courage-to-heal]

[its-so-traumatizing]

They’re not your family.

If they abuse you they’re not your family.

If they neglect your needs they’re not your family.

If they make you feel worthless they’re not your family.

If they hit you they’re not your family.

If they don’t show you love, care and affection they’re not your family.

If they hurt you in anyway they’re not your family.

Don’t let anyone tell you “but they’re your family!”

You have the right to be angry and cut them off, to hate them and to never forgive them. You have the right to fight them. You have the right to defend yourself.

You aren’t obligated to love someone you never chose to be a part of your life.

[thisisthesadplace]

Abused kid things #11

Either touch starved or touch repulsed. No inbetween.

[salty-inc]

Yikes. Here’s another.

(I love when you all reblog these with filled out versions. 💕)

[brightstarsystem]

“He doesn’t understand yet that guilt comes to you not from the things you’ve done, but from the things others have done to you”

— Margaret Atwood, Alias Grace

[brightstarsystem]

I want to be angry,

I want to be violent,

I want to be vengeful…

But mostly I feel shame. 

Mostly I feel guilt and sorrow. 

I feel so empty. 

[kingmondreaded-blog]

How I feel on all in one! 😞😕😒😐

[victorious]

Reblog this and money will be entering your life this week

[alwayzhardd]

If you’re my bro and we are chilling, either talking about sex or looking at ish on each others phones and your dick gets hard nigga pull that shit out and beat til you skeet my dude. I have no issue with that, shit, might join you. #BroCode

[str8slangin9]

Mos def 💯💪🏾

[skeetskeetdet]

Skeet

[duhwaynecollection-deactivated2]

Broooo code

[houstoncruisinglinks]

Asf ! No might To it !

[moonemojii]

[kingmondreaded-blog]

BIG FACTS 👌🏿🖕🏿💵😑😬😡🦆

[rosyting]

[litbahamaboy]

[niggazinmoscow]

LISTEN TO HIM!

[twitblr]

Just a little leak

[kingjaffejoffer]

Somebody please tell me they saw this movie trailer with the pretty nigga that got an ultra perm thats supposed to be a male-model looking ass drug dealer

I cant do it

[kingjaffejoffer]

[vincentvanleggo-deactivated2018]

I saw that shit 😂😂

Who in the black community allowed this to transpire???

[laurdlannister-kingslayer]

what movie is this

[ttbngaming-deactivated20190917]

Diary of a Mad Black Man