KD - Kink Dominus

30s Dominant. NYC/Chicago. Get my attention and write me in English, German, Danish, or even Latin if you are feeling particularly adventurous. #Me | #MyStories | #Answered| #Submissions

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Speechless

I'm not often at a loss for words, but having a new sub surprise me by putting her leg on my shoulder while we are standing next to each other.... Yup, that'll do it.

Dancers are dangerous.

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My dom/daddy is trying to teach me a lesson currently and he won’t let me play with myself or fuck me until I learn it and obey. I’m dying. What can I do? Seduce him,?

This all depends on the dynamic you have with your Dom.  I am quite good at resisting being seduced, but do quite enjoy it when my subs try.  In the event that they push me over the edge and make me give in and fuck them, it is always rather explosive.  That can be part of the fun.  If they do not succeed, I still get enjoy punishing them for trying.

From my perspective, it is always a win for my subs to try to seduce their way out of a punishment.

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How do you feel about plus size women?

I like feeling them.Size in and of itself is no more important to me than anything else about someone’s appearance. I’ve been with women who were 4′11″ 90lbs (150cm 41kg) and plus sized women who were taller than me.

From time to time, I find myself thinking about both the largest and the smallest women I’ve been with and getting hard. It all depends on the individual and the connection I have with them.  Physical appearance matters.  It can matter a lot, but size alone isn’t likely to be the determining factor.

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I have a hard time cumming from sex, like it feels great bit I don't get the real orgasm. Any suggestion?

This could be a million things from vaginal only stimulation not being enough to relaxation and trust with the partner. What do you do when you cum normally? Mostly stimulate the clit? Then try stimulating it during sex. Try to isolate what’s different from when you can cum and when you can't. Have you ever cum from sex? Yes, but not with this partner? Then ask what is different about him/her.

I have ton of advice here, but it will require a lot more information. There’s no good answer without understanding the problem first.

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You deleted your kik name. I’m curious as to why? Xx

I didn’t delete my kik. Message me off anon, and we can sort this out.

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Do you have subs if so how many?

Currently, I do not have any subs I would call mine. I’m not opposed to taking on one or more, and it’s only been within the last few weeks that I’ve been open to taking on a sub properly again.

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Friend: 'Space' Dad agrees with the multiverse theory, so I do too.

Me: Space Dad?

Friend: Yeah, because I don't have a Dad, I call authoritative men in my life 'Blank' Dad.

Me: So am I 'Life Decisions' Dad?

Friend: Don't ask me tough questions.

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I wish you were my Sir. 💋😘

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I'm at work but I need to cum. I've been good and waited hours so far. Can I be told to go touch my little parts and cum?

Well, since you asked so nicely.  I’ll be generous and indulge you.  

You may touch and cum, but only while it is possible for someone to see you.  No sneaking off to the bathroom.  You are to touch yourself and cum as quickly as possible.

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Need some good female blogs to follow they all seem to love yours.

You can start by looking at the blogs of the beautiful women I reblog from, but remember to be respectful if you reach out to any of them.

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Wie gut ist eigentlich dein Deutsch? 😀

Zwischen B1 und B2 (CEFR).  Es war C1, als ich in Deutschland gewohnt habe, aber jetzt rede ich fast nie auf deutsch.  Ohne Übung verkümmern Sprachen.  Dänisch hat auch mein deutsch verschlechtert, weil sie so ähnlich sind. Beide sind in meinem Kopf ein bisschen gemischt, z.B sage ich “ein” statt “en” auf dänisch. Ich kann meine Akzente auf beide Sprachen nicht teilen, deswegen klinge ich wie eine Mischung von Münster, Kopenhagen, und eine wenige US.  

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And just like that, the weekend is over. There is no just god.

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Just got a text from a friend saying I bruised her lip so badly from biting it this weekend that she had to make up an excuse at work.

Now, I can’t help the smile on my face.

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Dominus, I can never tell whether you're back, though I only rarely come on tumblr myself any more. I just occasionally check your blog and new posts at the top always get me a little excited. Still, I hope it's all good things that have been keeping you busy. Sincerely, a fan of your work

Thank you for your kind words.  There have been a lot of changes in my life over the past several months, which has left little time for tumblr, but I’d like to get back into the swing of things.  Send me a message off anon.

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When I get a message from a follower...

If you know this movie, you’ve instantly become more attractive in my eyes.

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Partied with a gorgeous Norwegian girl tonight.  We left each other with a smile as she returned to her boyfriend’s.  I even had to smoke a cigarette tonight, months after I quit.  I couldn’t help myself.

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Quote from a Domme friend

Someone asked me today if I knew any psychopaths, and I paused and thought of you before saying, “No.”