How to Speak With Someone Who Wears
These are just a few general suggestions to help you randoms figure out the appropriate way to interact with someone you don’t know who makes posts online that you feel personally obligated to ask questions of.
1. Do not ask if they are currently wearing.
This is essentially asking some stranger if they’re wearing underwear. Gross. If you don’t ask people you don’t know something like this in public, don’t ask it online, you creepo.
♡ Do ask how they got into wearing ♡
2. Do not ask if they use or wet their diapers.
To most AB/DLs this is highly personal, okay? Highly! And yes, some people may post pictures of used diapers or even of their accidents, but that does not mean that *all* who wear are comfortable sharing that kind of personal information with you, a stranger.
♡ Do ask why they wear, in general ♡
3. Do not ask if they need to be changed.
♡ Do ask if they have a significant other ♡
4. Do not call them “fussy” or a “baby” if they don’t put up with your shit.
This one personally happened to me even though I’m not in AB/DL so I imagine actual ABs hate it as well and it’s not just me, but if it is then … Yeah.
♡ Do ask if wearing affects their day-to-day life ♡
5. Do not ask if you can change their diaper or see them change it or any other variant of your somehow being involved.
This one seems kind of … I don’t know, obvious? Don’t ask a random submissive to submit to you; don’t ask a random AB/DL to share their highly intimate activities with you.
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