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Im the woman Lizzo would want me to be. PSA: be nice to the little girl at the customer service counter. She’s just doing her job.

[kinternetbabe]

We had sex and when we were done, we were laying there cuddling. I look up at him and we stare at each other for a minute and he goes “your eyes are blue..” yes. yes they are. Thank you for noticing

[kinternetbabe]

To my ex who dumped me for another girl in December;

FUCK you oh my god fuck you. Look at me now motherfucker. I don’t need you!! Look at me! I’m fucking thriving!! I’ve got the entire male population of my gaming group chat simping for me, I fucked some guy I met at a party while we were dating, I’m doing on a date on Monday with someone else, I have plans for Valentine’s Day, and so on. I don’t fucking need you! I’m young, I’m HOT AS FUCK, and I have other people fucking lining up to fuckin be with me. You were lucky as fuck to have me, I’m the perfect partner, I’m a goddess, I’m a porn star, I’m kind, considerate, and everything else you could possibly want or need. I hope you think of me every time you fuck that other bitch. You traded gold for pebbles. I can have whoever I fucking want. Go to hell

[kinternetbabe]

I want to feel like a beautiful, powerful, sexy, intelligent, desired woman. Why can’t I just have that. What am I missing. How do you find that within yourself?

[kinternetbabe]

Why does no one ever notice when I need help. When I’m not doing well. When I’m not myself. I’m hurting. Closing in on myself. And it’s like no one can see it. I need help dammit. Someone please be there for me

[kinternetbabe]

Men ain’t shit. I’ve been on delivered for 30 hours and he’s active in discord rn. Go fuck yourself. If you don’t wanna talk to me anymore just say that

[kinternetbabe]

I keep grabbing your attention with my body, but if I looked different, would you still want me?

[kinternetbabe]

I haven’t had sex in almost a year now and that is a major issue

[kinternetbabe]

This post again but it’s been over a year and a half. Yikes.

[kinternetbabe]

Im happy to report that this drought ends today

[kinternetbabe]

I haven’t had sex in almost a year now and that is a major issue

[kinternetbabe]

This post again but it’s been over a year and a half. Yikes.

[kinternetbabe]

I saw my crush’s parents today getting groceries out of their car so I stopped and had a short chat with them (we’re neighbours, they know me dw).

It just so happens that last night I had a VERY nsfw dream about their son, and ALL I could think during our conversation was “I dreamt about sleeping with your son last night” someone PLEASE SHUT MY BRAIN OFF

[kinternetbabe]

I haven’t had sex in almost a year now and that is a major issue

[kinternetbabe]

Got stood up today. That shit hurted.

[kinternetbabe]

A word on fanfiction

Fanfiction fills a void.

I used to go to an all-girls high school, played an all-girls sport, and I didn’t have any (ANY) male friends. When I got to college, I had no clue what do do with myself.

The point is though, that I wanted male friendship. I wanted to frequent the opposite sex.

Fanfiction was my only way to be friends with boys. Y/N was living the life i wish I was living, and through her I had male friendships and imaginary lovers.

When I first arrived at college I read a lot of fanfiction. As the months passed, I read less and less. Then, I got a boyfriend; I stopped reading fanfiction all together.

I didn’t do it consciously. It was only months after that relationship ended that I went into Wattpad and went “I haven’t done this in forever”.

I had stopped because I didn’t need it at that time. I had a boy I was close to and didn’t need imaginary boy friends.

I recently started reading a lot of fanfiction again. I’m back to having no male friends, and on top of that, there’s quarantine....

Hello old friend. It’s me, y/n. I’m back.

[kinternetbabe]

I love getting my hopes up and then being disappointed. Life really thinks this is a game huh

[kinternetbabe]

I wish I could stop using self deprecation as a way to not seem conceited

Because I love myself and I don’t like saying mean things to myself in order to not seem vain.

[kinternetbabe]

Jeongguk with his long ass hair makes me want to absolutely just have him step on me

[kiss-my-piss]

Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone] (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: [phone]

National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone]

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: [phone]

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: [phone] (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: [phone]

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: [phone] (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

[mogai-watch]

This is so important. 

[everywitchway-deactivated201905]

SLAMS that reblog

[ireneadlercatwoman]

This is amazing @sexuallymonsterous you are a good person for putting this list together. 

[transitioning-nb]

Not all that related to this blog, but I wanted to share this anyway. To all survivors of abuse, please know that what happened to you was not your fault, you didn’t deserve what happened to you. You matter, you’re strong for still being here & putting up with what you’ve had to. Hold on. Know that you’re loved 💛💜🖤

[wilwheaton]

It took me 46 years to realize how consistently I had been emotionally abused as a child and adult, until I pulled away from my abuser and stopped letting him keep me in a toxic relationship. It’s never too late to reclaim your life from the people who hurt you, because you deserve to be happy and to live your best life.

[taesslut-deactivated20190118]

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