“jasper”

do not follow if you are an anti-recovery blog, a ddlg blog, or a terf!! mostly a trauma blog lol

[ojibwa]

[leftgender]

hey cis, we know what youre doing when you ask us our birth/dead name. we know that if we ever told you your first thought would be “oh so she’s really bethany huh?” we know that you’ll be thinking about us, imagining our parents calling us micheal growing up, hearing jeremey during role call, drivers licences and birthday cakes that say heather on them, and then you’ll look at us and say “wow you dont seem like a brianna,” or “i cant imagine you ever being a hugo,” to make yourself seem accepting, but then every time you talk to us you’ll be thinking of our dead names in the back of your minds. and we know. we know that if we ever told you, you’d never forget

dont ask trans people for their dead names, there is no reason for you to know. 

[katiebear716]

if someone comes out to you as trans and tells you their name, forget the old one. don’t joke about it, don’t think about it. forget it. delete it. it’s not trivia.

[poinelamiai]

[klazomaniiac]

i dont have many friends anymore and ive already missed 8 days of school whats wrong with me

[dizzytrauma]

[catchymemes]

Reblog this last

[my-abuse-is-valid]

"It hides beneath my poker face."

[flambyie]

[klazomaniiac]

masterpost of nicknames

bee

bear

kitten

puppy

uchiha

vodka

purple

yoongi

strawberry

destructive

marvel

maui

nirvana

(ill update this as time goes on)

[8ball-wizard]

hey, fun fact:

if you were making fun of Etika's cry for help

You're a terrible person

[klazomaniiac]

havent updated anyone in awhile. here it goes!! i have a handsome ass boyfriend now. we’ve been dating for a month and some change uwu. ive been struggling with my eating disorder but whatever. things are going a little but good for me and im kinda ¿happy?

[goingfeo-deactivated20190621]

not to be a person of color, but white people really got me feeling like i somehow can’t be a poc and lgbt at the same time. like there is SOOOOO much racism in the lgbt community (antiblackness especially) and erasure of lgbt poc that my brain literally slips sometimes and associates being gay with whiteness because you pea-brained motherfuckers never fucking show us anything else. i’m friends with someone who, before figuring out who they were, literally didn’t think they could actually be part of the community because “only white people could be gay.” that was his thought process. i sometimes feel “white” for wanting to wear pride merch or writing about being gay/trans rather than about being a poc as if those two things can’t coexist. at this point, i feel seriously alienated from the community in general… and that infuriates me! this community was literally formed by people of color! US! how the fuck were you all able to whitewash this?

[goingfeo-deactivated20190621]

if white people want to reblog this just to like spread awareness or whatever i guess that’s alright, but seriously, don’t even think about commenting. this post doesn’t need your input.

[leftgender]

hey cis, we know what youre doing when you ask us our birth/dead name. we know that if we ever told you your first thought would be “oh so she’s really bethany huh?” we know that you’ll be thinking about us, imagining our parents calling us micheal growing up, hearing jeremey during role call, drivers licences and birthday cakes that say heather on them, and then you’ll look at us and say “wow you dont seem like a brianna,” or “i cant imagine you ever being a hugo,” to make yourself seem accepting, but then every time you talk to us you’ll be thinking of our dead names in the back of your minds. and we know. we know that if we ever told you, you’d never forget

dont ask trans people for their dead names, there is no reason for you to know. 

[katiebear716]

if someone comes out to you as trans and tells you their name, forget the old one. don’t joke about it, don’t think about it. forget it. delete it. it’s not trivia.

[heavensghost]

hate to point it out like this but i am so unloved

[a-z-lyrics]

millstone // brand new

[a-z-lyrics]

suicide // teen suicide

[kissedbythevoid]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BN2pOH5gQa1/