Jikook & Secret Relationships
Disclaimer: This is just my opinion, but you know…I’m not blind. Lol. If you don’t agree then please unfollow. I’m here to support Jikook/Kookmin as I love them, just as they are.
I have been in a secret relationship before. When I noticed Jikook, I specifically looked for things that would show me that they were in a secret relationship. And I saw them.
I’ve seen people say that if they were a real couple, they would hide it completely as to not get any speculation. And I get that.
But have you seen Jimin and Jungkook? That’s just not how they roll.
I’m a Jimin stan…could I possibly be around Jimin and not give away that I think he’s the most perfect man ever?! No, lol. And that would be even without him flirting with me every 2 seconds! (Poor JK!)
I know that things are different in South Korea, and a lot of Idols manage to completely hide their relationships. The thing with BTS is that they share SO MUCH footage of themselves.
And for Jimin and Jungkook, we’ve seen them slowly falling for each other. That’s something you just can’t hide.
In my opinion, they have a once in a lifetime, very special, very rare love. It’s more intense than in a normal relationship.
They spend more time together than a normal couple would, as they work together, live together and travel the world together.
Every time they do something to improve themselves, the other one goes through the same. Every time they win an award, their partner has the exact same. They have the same goals, professionally. And they are achieving them - doing what no other group has done before. They are special.
So, secret relationships. You just can’t hide them. You can try as much as you want, but if you truly love that person, you can’t stay away.
The thing with JK and JM is that, they can get away with a lot if they want to, under the guise of fan service. And I believe that they do.
Something that they have to factor in however, is their reaction to that.
Look, it’s clear that Jimin finds Jungkook hella sexy, and Jungkook finds Jimin hella sexy. Just look at their faces when the other one does a sexy dance or something similar!
They have to be careful not to get too carried away with their fan service - not because it will show they’re a couple - but because they will forget their professionalism. They will get aroused or melt into a puddle of love. Lol.
And I can see this in their interactions. You should be able to see this too. They don’t go too far. They have slipped up with this though!
So when you’re in a secret relationship, you love that person and want to be near them at all times. You want to talk to them and listen to them specifically over anyone else that’s present.
You will find excuses to touch them, even if it’s a small touch like brushing the top of their head or touching fingers.
You will want to try and give a lot of your attention to the other people with you, but won’t be able to stop yourself staring a bit too long at the person you’re in a relationship with.
You’ll find any reason to tease them and maybe make fun of them/bully them a little bit (in a nice way!).
You’d find reasons to stay around them longer than you have to (e.g. if you have to leave, but don’t, lol).
You’d find any reason to spend time together, be that things like being the ones to go and get the drinks for everyone, or riding in the same car.
You’d try and get on the same team as them, without making it completely obvious.
You’d still try and spend time and love on your friends, and show them your love as well, trying not to leave them out or feel bad.
It would be likely that in the very beginning, one of your friends/co-workers would know about your secret relationship. They’d be someone very close to you, who has put two and two together. People aren’t blind! Lol.
Oh, and they will be more suspicious as one of you will have probably expressed an interest in the other (whether that just be physical attraction) before all of this started.
They will know, and they will have probably asked you about it, and you’ve told them the truth. They’d probably be exasperated - especially if it’s a relationship that prooobably will be difficult to keep quiet, but think you’re cute (if they love you!).
And you won’t be able to help but bust out with the biggest smile when you see them, especially if you see them smiling at you.
You would also get fed up with hiding it, and want to show everyone that you love them, and they love you.
