Jikook & Secret Relationships
Disclaimer: This is just my opinion, but you knowā¦Iām not blind. Lol. If you donāt agree then please unfollow. Iām here to support Jikook/Kookmin as I love them, just as they are.
I have been in a secret relationship before. When I noticed Jikook, I specifically looked for things that would show me that they were in a secret relationship. And I saw them.
Iāve seen people say that if they were a real couple, they would hide it completely as to not get any speculation. And I get that.
But have you seen Jimin and Jungkook? Thatās just not how they roll.
Iām a Jimin stanā¦could I possibly be around Jimin and not give away that I think heās the most perfect man ever?! No, lol. And that would be even without him flirting with me every 2 seconds! (Poor JK!)
I know that things are different in South Korea, and a lot of Idols manage to completely hide their relationships. The thing with BTS is that they share SO MUCH footage of themselves.
And for Jimin and Jungkook, weāve seen them slowly falling for each other. Thatās something you just canāt hide.
In my opinion, they have a once in a lifetime, very special, very rare love. Itās more intense than in a normal relationship.
They spend more time together than a normal couple would, as they work together, live together and travel the world together.
Every time they do something to improve themselves, the other one goes through the same. Every time they win an award, their partner has the exact same. They have the same goals, professionally. And they are achieving them - doing what no other group has done before. They are special.
So, secret relationships. You just canāt hide them. You can try as much as you want, but if you truly love that person, you canāt stay away.
The thing with JK and JM is that, they can get away with a lot if they want to, under the guise of fan service. And I believe that they do.
Something that they have to factor in however, is their reaction to that.
Look, itās clear that Jimin finds Jungkook hella sexy, and Jungkook finds Jimin hella sexy. Just look at their faces when the other one does a sexy dance or something similar!
They have to be careful not to get too carried away with their fan service - not because it will show theyāre a couple - but because they will forget their professionalism. They will get aroused or melt into a puddle of love. Lol.Ā
And I can see this in their interactions. You should be able to see this too. They donāt go too far. They have slipped up with this though!
So when youāre in a secret relationship, you love that person and want to be near them at all times. You want to talk to them and listen to them specifically over anyone else thatās present.
You will find excuses to touch them, even if itās a small touch like brushing the top of their head or touching fingers.
You will want to try and give a lot of your attention to the other people with you, but wonāt be able to stop yourself staring a bit too long at the person youāre in a relationship with.
Youāll find any reason to tease them and maybe make fun of them/bully them a little bit (in a nice way!).
Youād find reasons to stay around them longer than you have to (e.g. if you have to leave, but donāt, lol).
Youād find any reason to spend time together, be that things like being the ones to go and get the drinks for everyone, or riding in the same car.
Youād try and get on the same team as them, without making it completely obvious.
Youād still try and spend time and love on your friends, and show them your love as well, trying not to leave them out or feel bad.
It would be likely that in the very beginning, one of your friends/co-workers would know about your secret relationship. Theyād be someone very close to you, who has put two and two together. People arenāt blind! Lol.
Oh, and they will be more suspicious as one of you will have probably expressed an interest in the other (whether that just be physical attraction) before all of this started.
They will know, and they will have probably asked you about it, and youāve told them the truth. Theyād probably be exasperated - especially if itās a relationship that prooobably will be difficult to keep quiet, but think youāre cute (if they love you!).
And you wonāt be able to help but bust out with the biggest smile when you see them, especially if you see them smiling at you.
You would also get fed up with hiding it, and want to show everyone that you love them, and they love you.
