The Hand That Leads

35 M Dominant Bi. I am in a poly relationship with two submissives. I make posts on the themes of imbalanced power dynamics in a variety of forms, but nothing on this blog should be practiced without prior consent.

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Let's try this again

I'm back again to give this Tumblr thing a try. For those who are new or unfamiliar with me, I am a dominant Male who enjoys control and manipulation. I get most excited when I am taking things from a girl, preferably because they are so desperate for my attention and approval they can't help themselves.

For me this is all more than a kink, it is a lifestyle. I really do have two female submissives that live with me. You can find their blogs at @thehandthatfollows and @softgirl7 I welcome questions about what that looks like or how it works, or on my views on what dominance should look like, or anything else you might be curious about.

This blog has depictions of unequal relationships, as well as blatant sexualization of the female body. Please note that some of what I post is fantasy, but anything tagged with "lifestyle" will be factual posts about my life with my girls.

If you want to message me, some things to keep in mind:

Low effort responses will be ignored. If you just say "Hi" that is not interesting, tells me nothing about why you deserve my attention, and gives me nothing to work with. I suggest you tell me something about yourself and what you are hoping to get from our conversation.

If you want to HOLD my interest, I expect you to bring something to the table. I enjoy playing with taboo subjects and training girls to accept the dirty, shameful, lustful thoughts. Give me something to work with beyond "I'm so horny pls tell me what to do!" If that is the extent of your personality I'm not interested.

Are you a lifelong feminist that finds herself rubbing her needy hole to degrading and misogynistic porn? Are you a devoted lesbian who can't tell her little girlfriend that she dreams of being raped by an asshole fratboy? Are you a pathetic sissy who is slowly discovering they aren't a Man? Are you a good little christian girl that only feels alive when she is sinning? Are you the smartest girl in your class but you only feel happy when you rotting your brain with porn? Great! let's talk about that, or whatever other dirty secret you are hiding.

Also, until you know me better you do not have the right to call me "Master" or "Daddy" or anything like that. If you want to show me respect "Sir" will suffice. If you call me something else I will assume you haven't read this post.

I love chatting with interesting people, but I have been doing this for a while and I have two girls of my own. Don't be boring and maybe you will have a chance to learn from the kind of Man that deserves that kind of attention.

If you want to see my non-kink related content, I stream on twitch and post playthroughs on YouTube. My tiktok is mostly about my love of the Japanese language. Follows and likes on these platforms help a lot with my long-term goals

twitch.tv/verrik_inc

Youtube @verrikinc

Tiktok @tobblebocsolo

[need444speed]

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The lips were too big. She knew it, he knew it, it was impossible to ignore. They were big, garish, cartoonish. Obscene pillows ringing her mouth and drawing the attention of anyone who looked at her. And they stared. They couldn't help themselves, she could feel their eyes drift down to her lips, and each time they did her thighs clenched. She knew what they must think of her. It didn't help but she couldn't even close her mouth properly anymore, unless she really focused there was always that Gap. Stood as an invitation, a promise of what her mouth could do to any man who decided to take advantage of it. It marked her as the kind of girl. No one would take serious. The kind of girl. No one would expect to know things or make decisions. It marked her as the kind of girl who was really only good at one thing, and who had shaped her body to be better at it. Or, more likely, that some guy had shaped into his perfect little toy.

It was humiliating to think about, embarrassing the way people treated her now. Even people she had known for a long time, she could see the looks on their face. She could see what they must be thinking of her. And with each look of pity, her thighs would clench again, dripping just a little bit of moisture, because of course they were all RIGHT.

But that wasn't the worst of it. That wasn't the thing that truly ruined her. No, the absolute worst part was how much she enjoyed it. How much? She really loved sinking to her knees and taking a fat, juicy cock between those pillowy lips. She loved the satisfaction of that glug glug glug, That simple rhythmic pleasure of that stick of man flesh pumping in and out of her, using her body for exactly what it had been designed for. She even loved the strange, salty taste of cum filling her mouth. She couldn't explain it, but she also couldn't escape. She was born to be a cocksucker, and now there wasn't a single person who would look at her and not know that instantly.

She reached down and began to rub again at the thought, already dreaming of her next cock

[juliavargasworld]

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This June, remember that good dykes only make out for the pleasure of Men. No matter what they tell themselves deep inside them is the desire to be seen and wanted by men. It's perfectly natural, so remember to make sure the guys are watching. Pay attention to their gays, feel their eyes on your body, turn to make sure they get a good view. And if you get them hard? Well, that's your responsibility to deal with as well.

[rudemax]

damn right, dumb cunt

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It's a big, scary, stressful world out there. I know how exhausting it must be to navigate it with everything going on right now. It's too much for a girl to handle all on her own, but that's ok! You don't have to!

All you have to do Is stop fighting so hard to be something you're not. You don't Need to be strong, independent, and responsible. All you need to be is obedient. HE will take care of the rest

[yachtclubbimbo]

Sonia Alxis Milam

👩‍❤️‍👩

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Life is easier when you stop thinking so hard and just jiggle your tits for Men

[into-me-sexy-shots]

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"You have been unfaithful. I have heard your confession, the dirty, filthy things you have done. The profane thoughts clouding your thoughts... You must be cleaned. Come, pour that filth into me. All that corruption, that sin, allow me to carry that burden so that you can be purified. Leave nothing behind, I am ready"

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When you are going out with a Man your outfit should be shiny and cheap, like wrapping paper. Designed to be torn away to get at the prize underneath

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Some day I would still like to make myself believe that the world turns slowly

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Pride Content?

With pride month coming up quickly I am of two minds. My neverending interest in corruption makes me want to post about dykebreaking, detrans, femboys, all kinds of orientation play.

On the other hand? In the current political climate I hesitate to encourage that as a bi poly member of the community.

So I put it to my readers, should I lean into these kinks for pride month or not? Vote now and comment if you have more thoughts

orientation play for pride month?

Yes! I find this hot!

Please no, I don't want to see this

I don't care either way

Voting ended onJun 1

[ceren2]

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"Oh, don't mind me. Keep studying. You said studying was important to you, right? You wouldn't let something like this distract you, would you? I thought you were a strong, confident, independent woman?"

[tmf1998]

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Why overcomplicate your life? Focus on what really matters

[softgirll7]

Men are sick, don’t be gross and sexualize me, I’m asexual, how many times do I have to say it.

Here let me show you some slutty pictures of me. I’m so hot. Typical tease

Ever hear of art? Im hot, doesnt mean i wanna receive nudes, or have sexual conversations. Thats like asking what a rape victim was wearing, your ignorance is showing babes 🖤.

If you dont like my blog, just block me and move on.

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So like a man to sexualize everything without considering about what other people think. Do all men just think they have the right to do everything they want?

Yeah, I know I'm a man but I also happen to hate most men. They're just... the worst and I hate dealing with them too. Gross.

[cvrvy]

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Good girls are constantly aware of their own cleavage, and work to make it visible to Men at all times. Remember girls the approval of Men is what gives you value.

[desireddracula]

Deleting lines from you CV to erase your past achievements and make you less employable.

[elevated-whorer]

Spiking her food and drinks with drugs that lower her IQ✨️

[elevated-whorer]

Updating her resume with your phone number as her reference and giving her negative reviews✨️

[semi-spicey-raf-deactivated2026]

Getting her password and adding those photos... she knows the ones.. to her linked in profile.

[elevated-whorer]

Update her portfolio with humiliating nudes she doesn't know you took✨️

[humiliationxbreeding]

Add a link on her resume to the PornHub account you created with videos you took of her.

[lcfr666-]

Make her resume just a link to her pornhub account because making porn is the only job you can apply for anyway

[mrknightlystrophychambers]

Hypnotize her to say slutty thing when getting interviewed.

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Training her to get wet at her own humiliation so every shocked look in her interviews and every rejection letter just makes her hornier

[gentlemanwithadungeon2-deactiva]

Good girls never cum.

Good girls edge until their brain is mush.

Good girls goon til they are a dripping slobbery mess.

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You will be so much happier once you abandon your pride. Let go of all the expectations people put on you, on the expectations you put on yourself. Free yourself from all that stress and become a mindless, obedient, drooling slut.

[daddyvikiing-deactivated2025051]

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You wanted attention, didn't you? You wanted someone to notice you, to want you, to obsess over you...

Well what do you think training is? It is an act of devotion and obsession, making you into something perfect and impossible to ignore. The more you lean into it, the more you become what He wants you to be, the more his obsession and lust for you will grow. The more he will want you.

That's exactly the kind of love I am interested in. Obsessive, driven, posessive.

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My view while waiting on lunch with @thehandthatfollows

mercy is a good girl

[thehandthatfollows]

mercy loves when Master makes her porn especially when she didnt know he was doing it 🥰🥰🥰

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mercy REALLY does love being porn, and I love seeing my slut getting shared around, so I would encourage you to reblog her so more people can see what good porn mercy is becoming