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26 * it/its * queer af nsfw blog * minors dni

[phanarchy]

Butches without visible biceps, I love you. Lesbians that're focused on other aspects of their life and not the gym, I love you. Fat, skinny, mid-sized, or otherwise, you're all strong and capable.

[randydotcom-deactivated20250628]

okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?

[roughribo]

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

[roughribo]

A little addendum I think bears mentioning since this post has been blowing up my notes lately:

It's easy for doms to understand that some subs are turned on by embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc. That is an easier concept to grasp. But I think that's a bit of a simplified way of putting it and a more accurate way to explain what's going on is that some subs experience embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc from their dom and are turned on by it.

I think putting the emphasis back on the painful emotion the submissive is putting themselves through is such an important distinction that needs to be made more often. Sometimes the fact that the sub is still experiencing these very powerful negative emotions during sex or scenes (for your benefit by the way, doms) gets lost in translation when someone says "it makes me horny when you humiliate me."

But they're NOT just horny when you humiliate them, they're still also humiliated. And for those of you saying "well duh, of course" please just trust me when I say, as a dom myself who went through learning this and has helped so many other doms learn this, that most doms are absolutely not making this connection at all and that's why my post above has been reblogged a bunch of times by both doms and subs.

As a dom, what we are incorrectly assuming is that the input is 'humiliation' and the output is 'horny' based on what we see and how our sub reacts when we play like this. We are not registering that they are also still humiliated because in the moment they're acting horny. It's an easy logical error to make due to faulty observations and this mistake isn't just limited to male doms in my experience. A lot of folks from all walks of life don't quite grasp this at first. And once you do grasp this you can give better aftercare.

The reality is that the output is both horny and humiliation and your aftercare as a dom better contain ways to treat the emotional pain you inflicted on your sub. In this case, reassurance (I'm so proud of you/of how much you took for me) and positive affirmations (you make me so happy, you're so beautiful/smart) are a hell of a drug for making sure their psyche stays intact and recovers properly.

[pro-fiction-jellicle]

It's ok to have rape fantasies/kinks where you're the aggressor.

It's ok to have teacher/student fantasies/kinks where you're the teacher.

It's ok to have power imbalance fantasies/kinks where you're the one with more power.

It's ok to have predator/prey fantasies/kinks where you're the predator.

It's ok to have pain/punishment fantasies/kinks where you're the one inflicting the pain/punishment.

Your fantasies and kinks don't make you a bad person.

Safely exploring your fantasies and kinks through fiction or through role playing (either online or in-person acts) with other consenting adults doesn't make you a bad person.

[uhhhhhhhh-might-go]

valid

[deepgoonette]

✵ This includes that fantasy and those kinks too. Kindly fucking deal with it.

[whiskeycowboy99]

Let me talk you through it.

“It’ll fit” “take it like the good girl you are for me” “my pretty girl”

[your-queer-gal-nikki-deactivate]

Kissing you while my fingers move in and out of your pretty pussy.

You know I fucking love it when you have to stop the kiss to whimper and moan, though you try your best to stop it and I just have to grab your jaw to kiss you again.

[couldntrelate]

[psychephrenic]

[blushedfemmes]

NO more art of butches and masculine lesbians with abs 😠 no more v-lines 😤🔪🔪 we’ve had enough. big soft tummies ONLY from now on. this is a threat

[fragile-dyke]

btw it is really really important to know your state’s laws regarding sexual assault and domestic abuse if you are engaging in any kink that could harm you enough to warrant an ER visit or even a neighbor calling in a wellness check. i’m not kidding, it’s really important. especially for queer people and POC who are more likely to be targeted by law enforcement.

there are many states, including my own, that do not need consent from the “victim” for the state/ town/ city/ whatever to prosecute the “abuser”. without going into too much detail, this has happened to me. it can happen to you.

if you live in a state that has laws like mine, if you try to explain to law enforcement that the injuries you have sustained at the hands of your partner were consensual, it will not matter. they may be legally required to prosecute anyway, and hospital staff may be mandated reporters who are legally required to contact law enforcement on your behalf.

know your state’s laws, and plan accordingly.

[holyshitimalesbian]

I love you lezboys. I love you lesbian boyfriends. I love you boydykes and dykefags and butchtwinks. I love you he/him lesbians. I love you butch/stud transbians. I love you femme transmascs. I love you trans women with beards. I love you trans people that don’t have dysphoria and don’t transition physically in any way. I love you lesbians on T. You are not a threat to my queerness. You are not ruining anything for anyone else. You ARE queerness. I love you.

[dearbisexual]

as above (hairy pits), so below (full bush)

[strawberry7femme]

butch lesbians are addictive. send post.

[blushedfemme]

thinking about ordering a butch to fuck a fleshlight to show off for me, to prove they’re skilled enough to be inside me. their gaze flicks to mine in search of my approval, tongue swiping hungry over their lower lip, breathing hard, staring as if to tell me with their eyes how badly they wish that fleshlight was me. i spread my legs and make sure they have a good view as i massage my clit, maybe even fuck myself with a dildo, lazily, and they’re forced to keep fucking the fleshlight as i taunt them with my cruel little show. but the whole time i’m cooing, praising them, “you can really give it to a femme, huh prettyboy. watching you makes me so wet. i just know your dick would feel like heaven. you’re a perfect fucktoy, aren’t you.” they’re blushing hard, by this point they’ve gotten themselves so worked up they’re begging, “yes, ma’am, i’m your perfect fucktoy, please can i fuck you, please, please-” so far gone they don’t even have the capacity to be embarrassed, and that’s when i curl my finger to beckon them over to me, and they almost fall over in their eagerness.

they hook my knees over their shoulders and sink into me. i’m so much tighter and firmer than the fleshlight, they can feel it in the resistance pressing back into them, my heat radiating into their inner thighs. their eyelids flutter and they moan, “fuck, you feel so good.”

[rottenfoolz]

If lesbians are so predatory where are they and why aren't they in my DMS.

[nighttimenothings]

thinking about slow saturdays. edging my girl all day—fleeting looks and lingering touches. in the morning, touching you gently over your panties while we're tangled up in bed, waiting till your hips are rolling and you're whimpering before stopping.

later during lunch, keeping my hand high up on your thigh, thumb stroking slowly, so close, yet nowhere near where you want me to be. you like that, baby?

in the afternoon, we're on the couch, a movie playing on the tv, but neither one of us is really paying attention because i've got two fingers thrusting slowly in your cunt and my other hand pinching you tugging at you nipples. you're soft little moans become more and more desperate as i bring you close to the edge. and right before you're about to come, i stop. that's my girl. just one more. can you hold on for me?

we're cooking dinner together, i'm stealing kisses, hands trailing over your stomach, waist, and hips. you giggle and tell me i'm distracting you, and i laugh because this is nowhere near distracting.

during dinner, i can see you squirm in your chair when i nudge my foot against your leg. i raise a brow and you flush. you're so easy to fluster, sweetheart. i adore how pink your cheeks and how shy you get.

cleaning up is simple. you wash and i dry, but today i can't help but stop, stepping up close behind you, pressing you against the counter and sneaking a hand down your panties again. your slick has already leaked all over your thighs and my fingers glide frictionlessly.

i'm touching and tasting, licking and leaving kisses all over your neck. you're so pretty, baby. i love seeing you like this. thank you for being so good for me. my hands are everywhere and i can't stop touching. soon enough, you've given up on the dishes and we're now facing each other.

fingers or mouth, baby? you're voice is breathy and high when you tell me you want both. greedy girl. but you've been so good for me, so i'll give you everything—i'll make sure you can't stand by the time i finish with you.

i get on my knees and i pull down your pants, panties coming off too. there's a string of slick that sticks to your panties and i groan at the sight of it. good god, you're dripping and making a mess everywhere. let me clean you up.

you taste so good. you're thrusting and gasping, fingers threaded in my hair. i have my hands wrapped around your thighs, keeping you up as your thighs start to shake and your slickness continues to drip. the sound is obscene, the steady squelch of my tongue in your cunt, my lips sucking your clit.

you beg for my fingers and i oblige, immediately giving you two. you're getting close—i can tell. your breaths come out strangled and your eyes are bleary and unfocused. can you wait, baby? hold on for just a little longer for me? you're so close to crying, i can see the tears clinging to your eyelashes and can hear the way your voice cracks. you tell me you can—that you wanna be good for me.

i add another finger—you whine, high and desperate—and i lick your folds gently. so perfect, so good. that's it. finally, when i know you've reached your limit, i curl my fingers and suck your clit. come for me, baby. you've been so good for me.

[kniiivesout-deactivated20240429]

catgirl femme and dogboy butch send post

[discount-supervillain]