my name’s Bash. I’m a they/he genderqueer butch lesbian from Australia and I use this NSFW blog to enjoy and explore being a submissive stone bottom.
I’ve always bottomed and subbed but when I first identified as butch, I had a hard time pushing back against the (incorrect) expectation that butches are all Dom tops. so I created this space to indulge in my subby bottom desires without shame 🧡
cis men, minors and TERFs can fuck right off
sapphics of all kinds are welcome to follow and interact
trans men are welcome to follow and interact if they’d like
NSFW asks are encouraged, anon is available but please check the inbox status and read the list of rules below before sending anything.
DMs are open. Behave.
I’m butch4all but I lean butch4butch
I post audios and pictures of myself in the #bash plays tag but do not ask or expect me to post or send pics.
I’m okay with receiving pics but check that I’m in the mood before sending anything.
I reserve the right to block anyone who makes me uncomfortable.
original posts will be tagged #bash wank
fantasies will be tagged #bash begs
answered asks will be tagged #bash chats
general questions about me will be tagged #bash facts
sometimes i write stuff, tagged #bash writes
Where Strangeness Lies - butch4butch prince/knight fantasy romance short story
Inbox Status: Open to anything
(updated October 3rd 2025)
NSFW Messaging Info
If you want to keep a conversation going, pick an emoji to identify yourself by that hasn’t already been claimed (list below).
Please introduce yourself before sending me anything nsfw. let me know your pronouns and what titles you’d like me to use for you along with your chosen emoji. the only title that I won’t use is “Master”.
Don’t forget about aftercare - please don’t spend hours/days sexting with me just to disappear. Check in with me afterwards to make sure I’m okay and so that I can make sure you’re okay, too. Aftercare matters online as well as face-to-face.
I’m a submissive stone bottom, meaning I prefer to only receive and will not top or take control.
Anatomy terms - chest, tits, boobs are all fine but be aware I have had top surgery and don’t have nipples anymore. clit is fine. dick or cock is okay but it’s great if it’s said teasingly. hole, pussy, boypussy, cunt and boycunt, puppy parts are all good.
Pet names - good girl/boy/butch, prince/princess/princeling, handsome, angel, sweetie, baby, honey, pretty boy, lover boy, beautiful boy, sweet boy, puppy, mutt. "slut” is okay in a playful way but not in a degrading way. feel free to make up your own but no other animal ones
Kinks - fingering, vaginal sex, strap-on sex (receiving or being used, not giving), guided masturbation, oral (receiving, not giving), biting/marking, discipline/punishments (within my hard limits), body writing, overstimulation, oral fixation, Mommy/Daddy kink (no ageplay), lactation/nursing kink, voice kink, praise, light degradation, light humiliation, light cumplay, light spit, moderate impact play, edging, light orgasm denial, dumbification, inspections, light objectification, bondage, collars, light choking, painplay, soft somno, medical kink, breeding (no preg), free use (within my hard limits), cnc (within my hard limits), vampire kink (bloodplay is okay with this but not in general), puppy play.
A note on puppy play - I looooove being called puppy and treated like I’m just a dumb lil mutt and I will happily bark for you if you treat me real nice but I’m not into tail plugs or pup hoods or being caged.
Hard limits - anal, r*peplay, hard cnc, ageplay, incest, pregnancy, knife or needle play, any bodily fluids not listed above, throat-fucking, food fetishes, feet fetishes, nipple play, punching or kicking.
Aftercare ideas - cuddles and kisses, stroking my hair, rubbing my back, making sure I’m warm, snacks and water, helping me clean up, reassurance that we’re done/I’m safe/you’re with me/I did well, being patient with me if i lose speech, letting me cry if i need to, using my name to bring me back from subspace and make sure I’m aware of my surroundings, affirming that it’s okay for me to want to be treated this way (especially with harder kinks).
If you have any questions about my kinks or limits, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification. Safety and comfort first, for both you and me.
I’ll update these rules as needed. (last updated 3rd October 2025).
I love sucking fingers as an act of dominance… you might feel like taking fingers down my throat is inherently submissive, but I can change your mind. When you’re under me—feeling my hands tight around your wrist, watching me take two fingers into my mouth—you’ll feel fear and lust curling in your stomach as you realize how helpless you are, a predator’s teeth against your skin, being devoured, consumed. My lips and tongue are velvety soft, wet, hot, and as my head bobs you struggle to keep eye contact with me, blush burning your cheeks, but you know you’d be punished for looking away. I’ll dig my nails into your wrist as I pull back, kissing the tips of your fingers and making you shiver before I open my mouth wider to take three, and the heat and softness surrounding your fingers makes you groan, makes your head spin, and you become more submissive, more desperate and pliant each time your fingertips touch the back of my throat as I take you deeper and deeper, emptying your mind of any thought but serving me.
I loooooove telling femmes “yes ma’am” and watching them get all flustered like yes of course you love the way I follow your orders without any hesitation like the good service dog I am, don’t you?
i really need to watch my girl humping a pillow desperately while she’s whimpering my name. thrusts starting out slow and shy before they become frantic, so needy and pathetic, leaking all over the pillow and whining because it’s not me.
god i need someone to whimper filthy praise into my ear about how perfect my pussy looks stretched around their strap, all wet and pink and desperate. i wanna hear how pretty i look taking it like a good girl between every thrust 🫠
I want a butch to fuck me like it's their special interest, learn every little place to touch me, every sound I make, the perfect way to make me cum quick, the perfect way to tease it out of me. I want them to do their research! Scrolling on tumblr to find new things to try out, buying new toys, folding me in new positions, looking up new kinks to test out.
little miss shy until she trusts you, feels completely safe and comfortable around you and then turns into the biggest slut on the planet. unlocking a feral side of her that no one else ever gets to see because she only belongs to you
