What’s the synastry of someone seeing you before you see them? Like when a guy sees a girl and admires her from afar for a while, and she doesn’t even notice at first ?
💌 8th/12th house synastry: This can show secret crushes and secret admirers that dont want to come forward.
💌 Asteroid Fan(151590): This asteroid in synastry can show an admirer but might not be in a romantic way.
💌 Venus: Men tend to have a crush on a woman when his Venus is in her 1st or 2nd house from what Ive seen but can be too intimidated to do something about it.
💌 10th house synastry: We tend to admire those we have 10th house synastry with, especially Venus 10th house. It can even make us see them as a little celebrity and behave like a fan to them. Everytime i had this with a man he knew who i was before we met.
These natives pay close attention to the relationships they form and, throughout their lives, learn the lesson of determining who is or is not worth having in their lives. These natives, although open to meeting people, are prone to having closed or small circles, because they know that they are capable of giving everything for those they love or appreciate. The future spouse of this native stands out for their impetus, their spirit of strength and their ease in taking the right risks. They will be a very decisive person, one who does not hesitate once they decide something and someone who perseveres until they get what they want. They will not be afraid to compete in any field, especially in the professional field, which can lead them to be a person who quickly climbs to the top. Future spouse may be someone very oriented toward personal growth and will ultimately put a lot of energy and focus into the marriage. Both will be a source of strength and motivation for the other, with the presence of their loved one being what they need to recharge their batteries or feel ready to take some important step. The native's partner can be someone who, although strong and empowering in appearance, hides a romantic essence, a charming personality who loves to pamper and be very verbal with the love they feel for the native. Passion will abound in this relationship, from that strong romantic and sexual attraction between the couple to the desire to be able to consolidate a stable relationship that works in the long term. The native's partner will be very present in their process of self-discovery and self-appreciation, they will play a very important role in the native's life and will lead them to know many sides of themselves that they did not know about. In their relationships, these natives bring enthusiasm, a lot of love, dedication and a willingness to commit. In addition, they make their partner get in touch with their romantic and loving side.
Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd
These natives highly prioritize stability when it comes to their relationships, which can lead them to be very selective when it comes to forming serious and long-lasting relationships. They are people who provide a lot of commitment, support, and perseverance in their relationships, as they seek to reassure their partners and give them the security they obtain in an equitable way. Your future spouse is a person who is already at a very good point in their lives, they have many resources and everything they need to live a life full of calm and zero worries. They stand out for their patience, perseverance and business vision. They can be people who start their own business, or who have a position with a very good salary. Their future spouse may have had a significant inheritance or be heir to a large sum of money and/or assets. They are someone romantic, with a serene and fancy appearance, but with an intense emotional world. In this relationship there will be a strong sense of support, the natives will feel that they will not be alone and that they can rely on their partner in every way, because they will see in this person someone sensible, who loves them and has shown them with actions that they are protected and loved. Their partner will show them what it means to have something stable in their lives and they will be able to face difficulties without the relationship weakening. Their future spouse will have great satisfaction providing for the native and will always try to fill them with pleasures and comforts. There is a strong attraction between them and they can be perceived as very attractive. They both value each other strongly and feel that the other is the best they have ever had in their lives. During their marriage, the native can obtain many assets from their partner, these being very often tangible and movable assets. Your partner will be charming, kind, spoiling and constant with you, loyalty and honesty will be two of the many values that both will share and see in the same way. The relationship will develop progressively and both will take each other seriously from minute one.
Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd
For these natives, communication is one of the most necessary tools in a relationship, especially if it is projected for the long term. They are people who will always try to be open with what they think and feel to avoid misunderstandings. The marriage of the natives will be like a song to the wind that finds an echo in the corners of life. The couple will not only be a fun and witty lover, but a confidant, an eternal dialogue partner and someone with whom there will be an excellent intellectual connection. Their future spouse will be someone very intelligent, with a lot of knowledge in different areas and will likely be able to understand the native like no one else has ever been able to. Both will have a similar vision of marriage and will see in their loved one someone who wants the same as them when it comes to this commitment, someone who understands their values, who shares their opinions and with whom daily living is enjoyable and pleasant. They will be someone with whom the native can discuss and learn, someone whom the native will deeply admire and look up to. There will be laughter, debate and promises drawn between the lines, a connection that transcends the physical and entangles the mind and spirit. They will meet on casual paths, perhaps through a short trip, thanks to a mutual acquaintance or at a social event. There is a strong closeness between them, even before taking that big step towards marriage, both enjoy sharing their experiences, their ideas and any other aspect of their lives with each other. In this relationship, communication is fair, they seek to talk and share, but also accompany and listen. It is likely that during your relationship, both of you will go on trips together, wanting to see the places that the other considers special or significant.
Ruler of the 7th in the 4th
Natives that have this overlay long for an emotional connection when looking for or forming stable relationships, those kisses that cover their wounds, flooding them with peace and a feeling of security. They are looking for something long-term and someone who, like them, prioritizes the well-being of the one they love the most, their safety and comfort. A pair of arms to take refuge in when the darkness is overwhelming, someone to finally rely on, someone to let your guard down with, and you will find it in them, your future spouse. A warm person, who although reserved, will reassure the native with support, delicacy and a love so pure as to give meaning to the deepest longings of the native. In this marriage, warmth and affection will abound, and they will be overwhelmed by that feeling of being adored and loved for being who they are. Their future partner will be someone in touch with their emotions, someone who knows what they want and need to be happy, someone who pictures themselves next to the native, caring for them, providing gentleness, understanding and even everything that is tangible. The natives will feel that their heart is exposed and appreciated by their partner. There will be a lot of fluidity between both, a strong sense of familiarity and they will awaken in each other the strongest, intense but strangely comforting emotions. Being together will feel like having returned home after the chaos and whirlwind that others left behind, you can become very close and there is this constant desire to be close and together in all kinds of circumstances. Your future partner may be reserved, with high emotional intelligence and the ability to understand other people's emotions without judging or mocking them. Someone respectful, understanding. They have strong ambition and long to achieve great things in all areas of their life that they consider special.
Ruler of the 7th in the 5th
For these natives it is important that both parties know that they are loved and that their efforts and gestures are appreciated by the other. They want a partner who loves them just the way they are and with whom they feel they can be themselves. Marriage will be a stage where both will shine, supporting each other to express the best of themselves. The partner will be someone who motivates, who celebrates your achievements as if they were theirs and who always reminds you of the importance of following the call of the heart. The union will be marked by spontaneity, warmth and the ability to turn the everyday into the extraordinary. They will feel like excited young people, sharing secrets and dreams under the starry sky, and together, hand in hand with each other, they will create a relationship, a life full of passion and meaning. Your future spouse will be someone with a lot of self-confidence, someone who believes in their potential and yours, and above all, someone who dares to go after what they want. They will love to show you to the world, show you off and shout from the rooftops that you are what they love most, their demonstrations will go beyond verbal, it will be through their actions that they will shout to your heart how special you are to them. This marriage will bring joy to your life and can give you a boost of energy, confidence and self-love. You bring appreciation and affection to your partner, they will be that force that reminds them why life can be precious, that glimmer of hope in the nights of heaviness, and that loving kiss that makes their hearts beat like crazy. Your married life will be full of love, emotion, passion and joy, it will not be a quiet and routine romance, it will be one full of loud laughs, adventures together and the warmest desire.
Ruler of the 7th in the 6th
These natives have a realistic vision of marriage, they are not looking for a fantasy utopia, rather something that is positive, effective, healthy and beneficial for both in the long term. They know that there is nothing more valuable than a person who is really there by your side, who does not sweeten your ears with promises, but who is able to tangibly demonstrate the commitment they have and the love they say they have for the native. Their future spouse will be a person with a strong devotion to the native and the relationship, someone who is hardworking, devoted and who no matter how long they are together, will notice the details of the native that could go unnoticed by others, will have those romantic and small gestures that will reaffirm the love and affection that seems to strengthen with the years. Lovers who trust each other, not only will there be romance, but there will be trust, reliability in moments of tension, meaningful conversations and emotional support when stress consumes them in their personal lives. In this marriage, both will be the classic couple that adopts each other's behaviors, habits and small details. The coexistence between the native and their future spouse will be fluid and harmonious, since their practical approach to the relationship will make them patient, understanding and supportive with each other, a great team, strong and giving. Your future spouse may not be the most verbal person, but you will feel their love. They will look for a way to express to you, in your language or in your ways, how much they love you and how much you mean to them. They will be a person who seeks to support you, from a massage after a hard day, a delicious dinner whether made by themselves or from your favorite restaurant, or even something that seems as simple as asking you if you are okay or need something. With your future spouse you will learn what it truly means when someone makes an effort to understand you and make you feel loved, someone who isn’t afraid to make changes and who includes you in their lives.
Ruler of the 7th in the 7th
This overlay makes it clear to us that the native WILL get married this lifetime. The native, regardless of any other aspect of their chart, is committed and very focused on their relationships, they hold a special place for their partner and will seek to give their all to make the relationship work, this of course, knowing that their partner also will do it. These natives will meet the type of person they have always dreamed of, something like a blessing of destiny, a connection in which they mutually feel that they are the one for the other, as if the union was written in the stars from the beginning. Their partner will be the perfect mirror, someone who reflects your desires, your desires, and sometimes even your shadows, helping you get to know yourself more deeply through the relationship. Their future spouse will be someone who values equality & justice, who seeks to build a union based on mutual respect and understanding. It will be someone romantic who will fill the native with love in all its forms, tangible or intangible, actions and words. The wedding will be a beautiful event, full of love and warmth not only of each other, but of family and friends. Each interaction will be an act of harmony, a dance between two souls who find in each other a lover, a companion and a home. The relationship will be marked by commitment and connection, by a mutual dedication that is not afraid of challenges. They will be companions in every sense of the word, a team that works together to overcome the tests and enjoy the triumphs. It will be a love that finds its strength in unity, that flourishes through reciprocity and that leaves a deep mark on the heart. They will experience a harmonious romance, a mixture of love and commitment that will make people outside believe in love.
Ruler of the 7th in the 8th
When we find this overlay, the natives are people who look for something deeper and more meaningful in relationships, they do not like superficial things, just one night or empty words. They long for a total surrender of mind, body and soul in which both feel the devotion of the other. Their partner will arrive as a mystery to be discovered, a bond that transcends the superficial and takes root in the depths of your being, someone who comes to give meaning to what love had been for you. They will be someone who inspires the native to face their fears, who accompanies them in moments of change and who, in their presence, allows them to take refuge and feel safe. The partner will be someone with whom they will share not only the material, but also the spiritual and emotional, building a love that is fueled by trust and mutual dedication. Both of them may have had tense or difficult experiences in love, from loneliness due to fear of being hurt to betrayal, traits of resilience that will make them feel love and respect for the other. The union will be marked by an intense and burning passion, by the ability to share not only the joys and high, but also the shadows and lows. The relationship will be a space of authentic intimacy, where both will dare to be vulnerable and discover themselves and their multiple facets. Between them there will be a palpable desire, an enormous attraction, that obsession with the other's body and that fascination with the one you call your spouse. Both will meet after a moment of great change, some tense situation that they will experience or after the departure of someone important. When they meet they will feel a pull towards each other, an indescribable attraction and they will feel that they were both destined to meet. They will bring significant changes in the life of the other, whether in their lifestyle or their way of seeing things.
Ruler of the 7th in the 9th
For these natives, it is not enough to just feel those butterflies in their stomach to define if someone is the one they want to marry, they look for something deeper before taking this step. They long to find someone who will show them a new side of love, someone who has something to say, many things to teach and show them, a person to love, admire and feel fascinated by. We can define this marriage as a team that is willing to explore the unknown together, a constant exploration of the outside world and the interior of both hearts. Their future spouse will be more than a life partner, they will be a teacher, someone from whom the native will learn and, to whom the native will teach a lot in return. It will be someone who awakens the native’s curiosity, who ignites their passion for the vast and the deep, and who walks by their side toward endless horizons. Both will be very curious about each other, they would like to know each other completely and give a deeper meaning to the word marriage, something beyond two signatures on a piece of paper. A fulfilling union, in which both fulfill their dreams and desires together. They will have different backgrounds, they will have experienced really different things, different family situations, even opposites, and it is also likely that this person will be from a different country or continent. Both will have this beautiful effect on the other in which they will teach themselves to see life in a different way, they will feel that next to each other it is easy to appreciate those beautiful and luminous things about love, about themselves and about life itself. They will bring mutual joy, a lot of motivation and endless anecdotes that, when lived and remembered, will fill them with warmth. In this relationship, both will be able to visit new places, travel a lot and experience everything that they thought would only be a dream.
Ruler of the 7th in the 10th
Here we find people who take the idea of marriage very seriously, they think very carefully before committing themselves and not only to someone, but in any area of their lives. They are people with a preference for long, lasting and less sporadic relationships, which can lead them to spend long periods of time single. Their future husband will be someone of high status, older than them in age and/or experience, and is likely to be an important figure at both work and family levels. Their spouse will be someone responsible in marriage, as they will seek to provide for their partner, give time and effort to both the relationship and the native, seeking to always progress together. With a hard-working, professional personality and with this touch of calm and control, the native's partner will lead a calm and successful life in which they seem to be at their best by the time they meet. And not only that, but it will teach the native not to be afraid to rely on someone, it will show them unconditional support and show them that they should not carry all their sorrows on their own, that they will be there for the native, lending a shoulder to lean on, a person who does not complain with them, but who resolves and finds solutions to preserve the peace of mind and well-being of the native. Their partner will seek to form a home with the native, so that both form stability together, not only in the material sphere, but also emotionally. Their future spouse will be someone who will bring clarity to the native's life, as well as empower them to discover the path they want to take, this of course, always hand in hand and with their partner encouraging them. Natives may take a while to get married compared to the people around them such as family or friends, but this overlay guarantees them a lasting relationship, since they will not do it because of the impulsiveness of the moment or a spontaneous emotion, rather because of the conviction that the other It's what they want and who they want to spend their days with.
Ruler of the 7th in the 11th
These natives seek to have a long-term relationship in which not only their personal space and independence are respected, but also their partner and they support each other in pursuing goals and dreams, without judgments or critical views. They are not people who are afraid of being on their own, so they don't mind letting go of people who they know are not what they are looking for or need in their lives. These people can form very lasting bonds with their friends and can attract friends who become their partners. Their future spouse is an independent person who does things their own way and, despite having a strong sense of individuality, knows how to interact harmoniously with other people, becoming perceived as charming, sociable and very intelligent in any social field. They will be someone ambitious and a dreamer at the same time, someone who visualizes the future alongside the native with hope, plans together and many new experiences. Marriage becomes a journey toward broader horizons, an encounter with someone who inspires shared dreams and fuels the vision of a better future. The partner will not only be a life partner, but an ally, a friend who walks with you towards common goals. Love will come like a fresh breeze, in a space where friendship and mutual understanding are the pillar. It will be someone who shares the ideals of the native, who respects their individuality and values their hopes as if they were their own. They will be able to meet each other when they least expected it, at that moment when they are deeply comfortable on their own. Both can help the other make or meet new friends and can feel that they mutually motivate each other to meet more people and/or feel proud of the person who they are. They will mutually teach each other to never put aside their essence in order to fit in.
Ruler of the 7th in the 12th
These natives may have felt a difficulty in not only finding lasting love, but also difficulty connecting with other people in general on a deeper level. They are people who long for this strong emotional connection where affection and love is unconditional, a desire that is constantly in struggle with their rational side and the fears of previous betrayals. After bad experiences, they will meet their future spouse, a person who will give them that love that they felt they would never experience. There is a very deep emotional devotion quality in their relationship, as they will understand each other better than anyone else and will always be willing to do many things for the other without needing to recriminate them. Your future partner will be someone who is reserved, very in touch with their emotions and with a tendency not to trust just anyone with their heart and emotions. They are intuitive, observant, prudent and dual, because although they are romantic and warm with the native, they can be independent and closed. Their future spouse will be a dreamer, who will love to imagine a future alongside the natives, someone who will fulfill them and can put them on a certain pedestal. In your marriage, there is a feeling of being seen, that the other deeply understands you and strives to understand you. They will have no problem making changes necessary for the relationship to progress [such as learning to open up more emotionally], they will be secretive about the relationship, and they will not let others have a say in what you as a couple decide. You will feel this strong emotional bond with your partner, it is very likely that it will give you the feeling of having already met them before. Between you there is a lot of sensitivity, empathy, and you can help the other to heal or feel better. There is an addictive quality to their relationship that seems to attract them more and more. You will bring out the poetic, sensitive and fanciful side of your partner.
Matrix Destiny Compatibility: Why the Couple Came Together
In the Matrix of Destiny Compatibility chart, we determine why the couple came together by looking at the number in the position marked X.
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2 - Learning not to bottle up emotions, to communicate, and to express feelings, and resolving conflicts peacefully.
3 - Teaching each other to create material/financial wealth, manage daily tasks, and learn to be practical.
4 - Starting a family, having children, achieving financial stability, ensuring everything progresses according to rules, which could be a challenging relationship.
5 - Sharing knowledge (spiritual, daily life, material matters, etc.), preserving traditions and values, and building a family/business through joint efforts.
6 - Learning to communicate with the opposite sex, where one partner teaches the other to love and respect themselves.
7 - Moving away from their place of birth, enhancing personal development, setting goals together, and starting a business.
8 - Understanding the laws of the universe, karma, and cause/effect relationships, where one partner can save the other from negative outcomes/actions and positively change their life.
9 - Learning to build relationships and show respect, interact with people, and set personal boundaries.
10 - Learning to let go of control, relax together, and understand that everything happens in the best way for them.
11 - Empowering each other, uncovering their entrepreneurial potential, and starting/developing their own business.
12 - Getting out of toxic relationships, stepping out of the victim role, learning to build healthy relationships, and not repeating negative experiences from the past.
13 - Transforming their lives, embracing newness, undergoing changes, renewing themselves, and starting a new life together.
14 - Teaching each other to feel emotions, talk about feelings, and express emotions.
15 - One partner acting as a guide to help the other achieve their dreams and desires, and becoming stronger together in facing challenges.
16 - Building harmonious, long-lasting family relationships, spiritual growth, and meeting during a difficult and uncertain time in their lives.
17 - Being visible in society, spending time together, and bringing out each other's talents/potential.
18 - Learning to think positively, understanding that our thoughts attract our reality, and becoming open with each other and unafraid to share fears.
19 - Learning not to pressure each other or overwhelm one another with excessive attention, and creating joint capital/property.
20 - Building a strong family, uniting two lineages, reliving and working on special moments from past lives.
21 - Accepting the partner as they are and not trying to change them, traveling and expanding opportunities, and moving abroad.
22 - Learning to be free from external factors, starting over (resetting from previous difficult relationships and challenges), and experiencing lightness in relationships.
Vertex in partners 1st house makes the vertex partner get an unlikely ally, vertex will feel like they have met 1st house person before. Cuz they have. Your anti-vertex is in their 7th house!! Vertex will know right away, that house person is meant2 be a part of their life! And now they know. They're no longer alone in this world anymore. They now begin their destiny together, 4 soul searching🌍🌊💙.
Vertex in partners 2nd house makes the vertex person feel protected 4 the first time, and the feeling of belonging 2 someone 🔒🔒💋. Could get unexpectedly money/material things from house person, Vertex will learn 2 love themselves by the help of the house person 👩❤️💋👩😍. Confidence is a big thing here, hyping vertex up! Vertex will feel like it's their destiny 2 have a sexual or a business relationship with house person.
Vertex in partners 3rd house makes the vertex person have a feeling of fate, when it comes to talking 2 the house person and REALLY feel them on a deep level. Vertex have never met someone they can communicate with on a level like this 🗣🗣👋👋, they think about house person a lot, and they'll talk all night together like 2 👽👽👽.
Vertex in partners 4th house makes the vertex person feel like 4th house person is the person they r meant 2 create a home with 👫🏡🚦. They will be provided with unexpected love and attention, they will tell house person about all their family problems, and house person will provide a safe, loving space to do so. Could also mean you're meant 2 have a kid/s together🤱🧑🍼.
Vertex in partners 5th house makes the vertex person feeling destined 2 romance the 5th house person! 💃🕺 Vertex could be pulled into a "quick" romance or "passionate affair". Could also mean that vertex could steal 5th house person away from someone else, when they meet. Vertex will be provided with fun, games, creativity and pleasure! 😈🤑 Drama could form, because of other people 🤳🖕.
Vertex in partners 6th house makes the vertex person be provided with an unexpected routine and everyday things. Like, you could buy a pet together, house, take a bank loan, start a business together, and vertex will feel like it's fate to do these things with the house person🙅🙅♀️🤟🤝. Vertex will c that it's okay to need help! they'll be around each other everyday, but ofc look at aspects 2 vertex 2 babes 🫶🫶
Vertex in partners 7th house makes the vertex person be provided with a partnership, where they'll learn how to be equals and more accepting of people who mirror us✌💘🤲. Vertex will feel addicted 2 participate in house persons life, let it be love, "hate to love" "meant 2 marry", they can't stop themselves from being in the house persons company, even if they only bully them, comes with stupid comments😬😭😭😂😅.
Vertex in partners 8th house makes the vertex person feel a deep sexual, kind of disturbing attraction 2 house person😂🧐. Vertex could feel like they are meant 2 be together forever, with house person 💯🔞. Vertex sees 8th house as a soulmate, "I'll find u when we die" kind of energy 🍎🍎. House person could bring vertex to be suspicious, about certain things regarding their relationship💻💳🔑📩💌.
Vertex in partners 9th house makes the vertex person be provided with TRAVELS, HIGHER LEARNING, CRAZY THINGS you would never participate in, if you hadn't met house person! ✈🎡💒. House persons experiences, and what they have learned throughout their life, will give vertex person a feeling of fate regarding to being guided, and helped when they're in doubt about life🥹🤓📕❤️🔥.
Vertex in partners 10th house makes the vertex person be provided with opportunities, fame, marriage, a public social image🤌🙌☝. Vertex could have waited on house person for a long time, and feel like they finally get what they deserve🏆🥇☝💋. House can bring them unexpected deals in business, unexpected fans or haters🤬🦹♂️👊🖕Could indicate having a relationship as a publicity stunt 🖤💖
Vertex in partners 11th house makes the vertex person be provided with a friendship, that they never thought they'd enter before house person came along. A whole new social circle being provided by house person 👯👯♂️, your dreams could also be provided by house person here 🌹💫✨🌈. Helping other people together who needs their help, and guidance! Social injustice and DONATIONS BABY.
Vertex in partners 12th house is destined 2 meet in this lifetime, 2 sort out their karma! (bad or good)🔮🔫. Vertex will be provided with spiritual enlightenment ✨✨, deja vu experiences, as they've met before. Vertex will be provided with a deep felt loving partner, or a karmic partner depending on aspects 🍏🍇🍀. Vertex could have had a feeling that house person would come in at some point.
What placements do you believe have a mother that they should watch out for/be more aware of? Like their mother is competitive/jealous of them but hides it, possessive, makes them believe they're the only one who can protect and provide for them only for that to turn out to be false
answered based on personal experiences and not facts.
moon/neptune or neptune 4th house: people who have this placement tend to have a mother whos like a puppeteer and the whole family is the puppets, especially with the square. people with this placement can also have a mom who lies A LOT. they often wake up very late to realize who their mother really i. people with this placement also tend to be very loyal towards their mother an overidealize her and view her as perfect, the mother is not allowed to be criticized.
lilith conjunct moon/4th house: this can indicate having a mother who just doesnt know how to be a mother and sees the child as a rival or project their own issues onto the child. this placement is often a sign of generational trauma. ive seen people with this placement have a mother who hinders them from moving out, getting a job or getting their own apartment. Ive also seen this in the charts of people who have a mother whos very young so since they are so close in age the mother sees them as competition.
moon square venus: ppl with this placement tend to have a mother who doesnt like other women in general. the mother might talk a lot of shit about the other women in the family or turn other female family members against their own child. Ive met men with this aspect who had a mom who hated every female friend or girlfriend they brought home. this placement can also show a mother whos jealous of their childrens looks especially in the charts of women.
moon/pluto: mother and other women in the family could be jealous of them and even obsessed with them. this very often indicates a mother who sees the the child as a rival. the mother engages in powergames with them. the mother cares more about controlling and punishing their child instead of actually nurturing them.
nemesis(128) conjunct moon/4th house or at 4° or 16°: nemesis is the asteroid of enemies so this means the mother or other women in the family might work against them.
The UL is a chart within your lagna/natal chart. It provides insight on the first marriage/long-term partnership.
How to Calculate UL?
1. Count how many houses the 12th House is from the 12th House Lord.
2. Count that number again from the location of the 12th House Lord.
EX: 12th House Aries - Mars (12th H ruler) is in 2nd House - That is 3 away so you count 3 from 2nd House = 4th House is the UL.
EXCEPTIONS: 6th House & 12th House House can NOT be the UL.
For further simplicity in calculating see the below:
If 12th lord is in 1st house, your ul is 2nd house.
If 12th lord is in 2nd house, your ul is 4th house.
If 12th lord is in 3rd house, your ul is 3rd house.
If 12th lord is in 4th house, your ul is 8th house.
If 12th lord is in 5th house, your ul is 10th house.
If 12th lord is in 6th house, your ul is 9th house.
If 12th lord is in 7th house, your ul is 2nd house.
If 12th lord is in 8th house your ul is 4th house.
If 12th lord is in 9th house, your ul is 3rd house.
If 12th lord is in 10th house, your ul is 8th house.
If 12th lord is in 11th house, your ul is 10th house.
If 12th lord is in 12th house, your ul is 9th house.
If you have had more than 1 serious relationship or marriage, you can check the UL for the next relationship by counting 8 away from the first UL.
For example:
If 12th lord is in 9th house, your ul is 3rd house. This will show your first serious relationship or marriage.
For the next relationship, count 8 away from 3rd House. This would make 10th H the UL for the second relationship.
This will be helpful for my Upapada Lagna observation posts. I will not be re-writing how to calculate Ul in those posts. Instead, I will attach this link.
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You know the drill- This is partially what it could be. You need to see your whole chart.
╭☞ What are we looking at: 7th lord of D1 (lagna) chart in navamsa houses
❤️🔥 1st house: Spouse can bring personal changes in you, someone who is likely to influence your personality and your mindset. Sometimes the native can start behaving like their spouse as well, I would take this as a sign of good compatibility. Your focus after Marriage can be dominantly on your partner. Marriage may make you change depending on what the ruler is, if it's Mars you may change how you take actions, if lord if Jupiter you may experience change in beliefs, if it's mercury you may change your routine, your habits and possibly career, etc. Sometimes influence of spouse on you can be huge, you may be captivated by them. Chemistry is so intense. Although it can be lessons that relationship will teach you, can be karmic or soulmate relationship. Spouse can be dominating, Charming, independent, leader, impulsive and passionate. Your synastry may have important sun, Aries, Mars, atmakaraka, 1st house placements.
❤️🔥 2nd house: Marriage is most likely to bring wealth and money. Your spouse could be focused on your own family the one you build together, They may be affect your speech of the way you talk, they can affect your self esteem, marriage may affect your self esteem. Your children can may be more close to spouse or may be more influenced by him. Partner or marriage can influence your career. You may change or adapt to certain food habits. Marriage may affect your relationship with your family and close friends. You may work with your spouse, they can be from same profession. Your spouse may be famous in your work place. Your spouse can be known to you before, have a sense of familiarity, is sensual, stubborn, materialistic, reliable and trustworthy. Marriage may make you more money minded. You may have important Jupiter, venus, Saturn, 2nd house synastry with them.
❤️🔥 3rd house: Spouse may influence your sex style. They can be very sexual and they may initiate sex a lot, unless Saturn is in this house. They may help you learn some new things, they can influence your thought process and intellectually challenge you. They may be someone that you can know on friendly basis first. Marriage may be like between best friends. Sense of unity and passion will be great. It will be like partners in crime. The spouse may be influenced a lot by their father (your father in-law), the spouse can be busy with work. Your spouse may be someone who will put a lot of efforts into the marriage. Marriage may make you more smart, intelligent and tactful. Marriage and spouse may influence luck in life. Spouse can be intelligent, skillful, talkative, fickle, childish and witty. You may have important mercury, Mars, 3rd house synastry with them.
❤️🔥 4th house: Marriage or spouse may bring happiness for you, wealth, sense of familiarity, sense of belonging and material possessions. Spouse or marriage may be wealthy and give you calm and support. Marriage may influence your emotional well being and happiness. You may get more vehicles after marriage or through spouse. Spouse may be into vehicles, houses and material possessions. Spouse may be really focused on their career. Spouse has a provider energy. They may be dedicated towards the well being of your family that you build together. Marriage or spouse may influence your relationship with your closed ones, your mother or other feminine people. Spouse may be emotional or family oriented, introverted, sensitive or nurturing. You may have important moon, sun, 4th house synastry.
❤️🔥 5th house: Marriage or spouse is likely to make you more creative, romantic or fun loving. Marriage or spouse can bring fun into your life or influence you creatively, it another best friends like relationship with commitments and love, love here is fun and sweet and childlike, you may know this person from young adulthood or teenage years or before. You both may have more fun and romance after marriage, spouse will make sure to maintain spark and chemistry. Spark is important here. You both may do a lot of things together. Spouse may be someone who wants kids or loves them. Both of you may be focus on kids. Either of you can also study after marriage. Spouse can influence your romantic style. Spouse can be romantic, passionate, creative, musical, working in theatre, a good actor, intelligent, proud, loyal and arrogant. You both may have important sun, venus, 5th house synastry.
❤️🔥 6th house: Marriage or spouse may bring more routine into life. Relationship can be conflicting or both of you may be more independent. It can be an indication of incompatibility or lot of arguments. Spouse and marriage may bring more healthy lifestyle to you and or influence your health. Marriage can influence your mental health and work life. Spouse can be from your workplace or you guys may work together. Spouse will affect your self esteem. They can be criticising, healthy, independent, perfectionist, orderly and intelligent. This is someone who doesn't like chaos and usually dislike when things aren't the way they want. This person can be nurturing too. Marriage may bring debt to you or marriage and spouse may help you out with debt. There's possibility of growing bad feelings about union after marriage if afflicted. You may or may not get certain diseases after marriage, spouse may influence relationship with enemies and work colleagues as well. You may have important Saturn, mercury synastry.
❤️🔥 7th house: Spouse may be romantic or a business partner, relationship can start as business one, that means romance will grow gradually for some especially if Saturn is here. You may meet them in a foreign land. Marriage may influence your behaviour in unions, sense of independence and romance and also sexuality. Marriage may make you more team worker, more talkative and bring you more in contact with others. Spouse or marriage may affect or influence career or fame. Spouse can be romantic, balanced, fair minded, easily influenced, career minded, wealthy. Spouse or marriage may affect your self esteem. Spouse can be charming, sexually appealing and may have a large network. You may become more focused in spouse and marriage in general after marriage. You may have important venus, Jupiter, 7th house, atmakaraka, darakarka synastry.
❤️🔥 8th house: Marriage or spouse may bring a significant change in you, your beliefs, your attitude, depends on the ruler what kind of change. Spouse and marriage is also likely to bring money and wealth into relationship. The partner can be focused on their family as well, or your focus after marriage can be on spouse's family as well. A lot of change is expected also in priorities. Spouse can potentially be a karmic partner or will influence karma, this can be a karmic relationship. You may learn a lot through union and spouse. Your inlaws may be involved in your life after marriage like significantly. You've around older people more. You may become more wise after marriage. You may gain a lot from spouse. A big focus can also be on accumulating wealth. If unafflicted spouse may be someone to put efforts into the marriage they like stability in marriage.Spouse may affect your attitude towards intimacy and privacy. Spouse can be mysterious, materialistic, obsessive, protective, secretive, money minded, resourceful, passionate. You may have important mars, ketu, rahu, 8th house synastry.
❤️🔥 9th house: Spouse or marriage may bring more luck, knowledge, learnings, success and satisfaction for you. You can become more spiritual and religious. Marriage or spouse may affect relationship with spirituality and religion and may influence your beliefs, learnings and knowledge. Either you or your partner can study after marriage. Spouse can act as a teacher for you an teach you a lot of things. Spouse can be intelligent, intellectual, smart, religious, superstitious, spritual, educator, wise or self righteous. You may live in foreign land after marriage or travel a lot. You will learn a lot through union. You will be introduced to a lot of new and foreign things after marriage or by spouse. You may have important 9th house, Jupiter, venus synastry.
❤️🔥 10th house: Spouse or marriage may influence your career, public image, popularity, relationship with elders or authority. Spouse can be famous or meet you at your work place or you may work together. You may become more self aware or focused on image. Spouse can be more dominant, could be someone you look upto. Spouse can be focused on their mother or has a lot of similarities like their mother. You may be concerned about how you guys come across as couple after marriage. Your partner can be someone who can be similar to your father or almost like filling that role, this place can indicate daddy issues in relationship. You may seek someone that can provide. Spouse can actually have a provider family, they can be self conscious, care about society, traditions, elders, can be famous, career minded, wealthy, resourceful, respected, smart. You may have important Saturn, sun synastry.
❤️🔥 11th house: Your spouse or marriage will influence your individuality, your social circle, how you network, your hobbies and gains. Spouse or marriage may bring wealth for you, they will influence your luck and gains. You may marry a friend, or someone brought by a friend. You may run in same circles after marriage like a lot of mutual friends. A lot of your focus after marriage will be on accumulating wealth and prosperity through career, you may focus a lot or start other jobs or side hustles to earn that extra income, i feel both you and your spouse will be focused on money. You may start out new hobbies, meet newer people. You may experience changes in yourself socially. Your spouse could know a lot of famous or charitable people. Spouse can be friendly, unique, rebellious, sociable, chatty, analytical, tactical and strategic. You may have important Saturn, rahu, mercury synastry.
❤️🔥 12th house: Your spouse or marriage may influence your beliefs, your inner self, they will leave a strong impact on you. This can be a karmic relationship, it can be a lot healing or will leave you with lessons. Spouse may introduce you to foreign ideas, or you may introduce them to new ideas cultures. Spouse can be a foreigner. There may be a lot of foreign travel later in life, or you may live away from homeland. Spouse and marriage may affect relationship with spirituality. Relationship can be very sensual, spark and connection will be important. If unafflicted, emotional and sexual connection will be great. You may become more creative or sexual after marriage. Spouse can be very sexual and would enjoy it. You may experience some significant loss in any form after marriage if other factors support. You may become a lot charitable and socially giving after marriage. It's likely you and spouse can take up spiritual or charitable work after marriage. Spouse can be a dreamer, not good with money, creative, passionate, unique, different, idealistic, compassionate, adventurous, well traveled. You may have important Jupiter, rahu, ketu, 12th synastry.
In this essay I will- mostly be talking about your DK Planet (spouse planet in Vedic Sidereal Astrology) traditionally called the “Darakaraka”
Also ur Venus placement too
If you don’t know your DK Planet yet I have a post about it here ❤️
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⇨ Sometimes your Venus placement in your D9 chart can be more accurate in describing you future spouse than your D1 chart
⇨ DK planet or Venus in Bharani, Ardra, Uttarabhadrapada, Revati or Purva Phalguni you can have a “soulmate” relationship. Those are the Nakshatras that deal with the “soulmate” trope.
⇨ A man’s 4th house sign is the Zodiac sign he sees as a “wife”. For ex a Sagittarius man can see a Pisces woman as a “wife”, since Pisces is the 4th sign from Sag.
⇨ Venus or DK in Aquarius is the “friends to lovers” trope
⇨ DK planet in Mrigashira can show an obsessive spouse, a spouse that heavily pursues you or is “obsessed” with you. Themes of “stalking” are also present in Mrigashira.
⇨ If your DK planet or Venus is in Dhanishta or Ardra, its likely that your future spouse can be in the music industry or field. Dhanishta represents musicians and Ardra represents dancers. Shiva (Ardra’s deity), is know for being a great dancer. The Vasu’s (Dhanishta’s deities) are known for musical talents.
⇨ Don’t be discouraged if your Venus or DK planet is in Ardra (Ardra gets a bad rep sometimes). Shiva, (Ardra’s deity) is know in Vedic texts as an “ascetic, great dancer and devoted husband.” Ardra is also in the sign of Gemini, with Gemini being represented by the “Lover’s” card in Tarot. Gemini overall is a relationship oriented sign.
⇨ If Moon is your DK planet, it could show a spouse who is a musician. (Moon represents also music in Astrology)
⇨ Moon also represents devotion, so Moon DK can give a devoted spouse. It can also give a spiritually significant connection. “soulmate” vibes.
⇨ Moon DK can also show having multiple marriages
⇨ DK planet in the 12th house can give a foreign spouse
⇨ Venus or DK in the 11th house can give a spouse who can help make your dreams come true. Can give a wealthy or well connected spouse. This person fulfills your wishes.
⇨ Venus/DK in 11H can also give a spouse apart of a social society/fraternity/ or even the illuminati (lol jk…unless🤔) but def some sort of “social club” or just a social person.
⇨ DK in the 7th house gives a very social spouse. Someone who knows many people or has many friends
➢ If Saturn is your DK planet, your relationship with your future spouse can be long lasting despite hardships.
➢ Saturn DK almost always give a age gap with your spouse
➢ Saturn DK gives a spouse that doesn’t want to let you go. Like that boyfriend you try to break up with and they say “nope you’re mine forever”😭
➢ Sometimes Saturn DK can make relationships feel like a “prison”
➢ DK Planet or Venus in Leo can give ”famous” or popular spouse. Especially in Magha.
➢ In general, Leo/Solar energy related to your DK planet or Venus, gives a spouse who helps raise your social status in life
➢ DK planet or Venus in Dhanishta can give “famous” spouse as well.
➢ Sun DK planet can also give a well known spouse. You can gain status or boost in notoriety bc of this person.
➢ Sun DK planet tends to give a handsome spouse (if they’re a man) also tall too. Overall “manly” looking.
➢ Venus or DK in Ashlesha can give a clingy or manipulative spouse
➢Jupiter DK planet often gives a wealthy spouse or a spouse with a lot of resources.
➢ Jupiter represents charity. So Jupiter DK your spouse can be involved in charity work or you meet them in a charity setting. They could be “charitable” towards you.
➢ Mars DK can give an athletic, muscular, or physically appealing spouse.
➢ Mars DK can be so spicy🔥, your spouse can be s3xual towards you, or there is instant s3xual attraction. Either way the relationship can be v s3xual.
➜ The 8th house can show one’s sexuality. Gemini 8H might be bisexual while Aquarius 8H could be asexual.
➜ Mercury DK can give a innocent looking or youthful spouse.
➜ I’ve seen that with Mercury DK, you can get with your spouse when they already have a bf/gf. You can “steal” your spouse form someone else or vice versa.
➜ Mercury DK can also give a “trickster” type of person as a spouse or a person who is manipulative. (sometimes dishonest)
➜ Venus or DK planet in the 10th house can show your future spouse being your boss.
➜ DK planet or Venus in the 2nd or 8th house can show meeting your spouse through a financial transaction or business deal.
➜ DK planet or Venus in the 10th house can give a “high-profile” or public relationship. Your relationship with your future spouse can bring you fame & status.
➜ Venus DK planet can also give a wealthy spouse. A spouse who is “cultured” to “well mannered”,overall a “glamorous” person. They can have good taste too.
➜ 2nd house in D9 Chart shows your financial status after marriage💲
➜ Your 7th house in your D9 chart can show the nature of how your relationship evolves w your future spouse.
Note: Honestly, I had a draft for the 2nd part, but probably I deleted by mistake, or tumblr did it (idk). Maybe, That's why I thought I already posted the 2nd part, but I was wrong.
Part 1 🩷
♡ Venus in the 7th house ♡
These couple usually views commitment as all or nothing, are you in or not? They have strong values about true love, and they will follow them. Love is viewed as a contract by their souls or hearts. If they break any aspect proposed, they know it's the end. They can be reflections of themselves either the good or the bad. When the contract is done, it's over. The Venusian sees the house person as a very stable being. They feel safe and prepared for them. These two may live together before the year of knowing each other romantically. The pair just feel ready when it's about commitment. The house natives perceive the Venusian as very "wife/husband" material for them. With this overlay, their personalities blend well and work together. It feels natural for both of you to be close and intimate together. For others is moving too fast, and for them is easy to become intimate with each other. The seventh house person fits well for the planet native. These two feel like it's a soulmate connection, very easy. You’re both drawn to please each other. It's a very strong connection for long-term relationships. It takes time for them to move on if they ever break up. If Venus has bad aspects, it can be a toxic relationship. The reason for this, it's that they prefer to stay together instead of being alone or start something new. Intimate gesture like hugs and someone hand guiding the other. Cooking dates and going out at night the most. "Here, I bought this?";morning texts: " how are you today? My day...." "Can I call you, I miss your voice"; " My mom ask if we can go to her party?" ; "we should go to that restaurant"; Formal clothes; "hey, look me, they don't know how worthy you are". They like to spend time with people they love. Balance. If Venus cooks today, the house will do it tomorrow. Wearing nice clothes and a good perfume to impress the other. Compliments and physical touches, especially kisses in the cheek. Cheesy things like love letters. Having "the song" or the place.
♡ Venus in the 8th house ♡
These two have a different kind of love. The Venusian feels like the house person bring something in them that they can explain. Sometimes, these people have taboos to share. Death has impact their lives. The house person may become obssess with the planet person. Sex isn't a way emerger together. Usually, they possess the same interest in taboo topics. In the beginning, Venus feels attracted to the house, but it's also scared of them. Their sexual energy is intense. The 8th house person wants to know the Venusian's secrets and fears. Both are possessive, but the house win the round. They detest when their partner don't respect them. Their relationship status will remain a secret for the public eye (in the beginning). They would share many things even traumas (if hardly aspected). The house native will protect the Planet from the world. Sex can be very intimate or aggressive (bsdm stuff). These people will not be the same they were when they met. For them, love is intense and transformational. The house feels that the Venus native is trustworthy, but they need to see their actions. Holding hands during intimate times. During sex they will talk and have intense stares. "I don't like that person, be aware of them", "Here, use this for yourself"; "if you need money, just let me know"; "don't lie to me, I know you are sad"; his/her hand on your thing while eyes are on the road; taking notes of your gestures. They have weird hobbies together and enjoy dark humor too. Moonlight sex and long sessions.
♡ Venus in the 9th house♡
These individuals perceive love as a new adventure and try to go with the flow. If they're mature, they prefer to maintain a very healthy relationship. Both prefer to travel and know about new places and cultures. Love is not as other say. They may prefer to do things their way. Venusian isn't instantly involve, but they see the house as interesting. For the house native, the planet is nice an attractive, but they will not force things. The house native could be older than the Venusian. The house person likes the planet manners and life vision the most. They see the commitment as an experience. Sometimes, marriage isn't obligatory requirement. They may enjoy walks, museum, and play board games. One could be from another country or have a different culture. Their relationship presents a new chapter in their lives and their families. Besides, they like to engage in intellectual debates, maybe they are into philosophy. If they broke up, they will try to be professional or move on. They can meet later in life after maturing. It's likely that you will work together or in the same environment. Having a child or more is possible, so use protection. "Look at here, we can travel here"; "aww, baby, you were right they declare that"; ["I really want to buy that book" / "baby, you have that book already"]; Saving for vacations; buying each other souvenirs or antique objects as gifts; reading books and doing small debates about it; *knowing each other during trips, universities, conferences, cultural events, and religious activities" Buying new book editions. They love to try new foods or learn about new places together. They could meet while traveling or in college.
♡ Venus in the 10th house♡
Coworkers to lover vibes. They are comfy with being mature. Similarly to the previous combo, the house partner is the older one or has more experience. This partner also has more dominant energy. They could meet in different levels. The negative aspect is that they could be very nitpicking and too logical when it comes to love. The planet individual sees the house person as straightforward and mature. Partnership is very important; it's like a contract. If one of the part broke a part of the deal, it's done. They can work together or met during college (last year), conference or work related things. They are straightforward and mature when approaching the other. If badly aspect it, they have an issue with power imbalance (not good at all). Big egos over emotions, this is the start of arguments. They plan their dates. The planet person accepts that the house individual cares for their image and professional life. The Venusian isn't afraid of being a home stayed wife. Here the Venusian knows and appreciates the house efforts to balance their stability. Nonetheless, the house person must value the venusian support. Doing plans after they leave the work; caring for the other in profesional settings; making food or leaving notes in the stuff *you can do it* in their computer. Making each other feel valuable "Here, i make you favorite food"; let's celebrate your new position"; *making time to luch together*; naming the other whenever they can "I'm grateful for my wife meals and support"; giving gifts and showing their s/o in public. Even thought people think they aren't super romantic, they will try to match things. It could be rings, watches or wearing the same brand. Looking good.
♡ Venus in the 11th house♡
Love depicts a friend to lover storyline where both care for dreams and humanity. It's very possible that they met when they were helping other people. The Venusian fits the house's ideal type. They seem more friendlier than other couples. You wouldn't think they were dating at first. They prefer to joke around, but they love each other. The Venusian share the dreams the house native have for life. It's also likely that they like each other in the future, even if they met since birth. They prefer to have experience with love before settling down. Its common to see them as "I thought they were only friends". The Venusian sees the house person as humanitarian, reliable and interesting. Stay protected because big family can be a thing. Moreover, the must clarify about what is a family. The house perceives the planet native as beautiful and too much to some people. Together, they will form a very unique pair and family. Regardless Venusian feel the planet as hopeful person. The eleventh house person sees a future with the venusian because they feel understood. Love for the house is independent, and the venusian can see this as as a relief. Making fun of the other in a non hurtful way. "I can't deal with you right now *kiss them*"; "Alexa plays titanic's song" *grabs the venusian and starts dancing*; *hugs their s/o when they're cooking*; being romantic when they're alone; sending spicy texts "come home, I'm ready"; talking about the future; matching devices or wallpapers; a lot of trust, they share passwords. Having the same or similar friends. They like to help other people. Donating for other people as a hobby or helping to people who need. Dates in the nature. Cleaning beaches, rivers or places.
♡ Venus in the 12th house♡
Love is simple but blurry. They can't get confused in how they love. The house sees the Venusian see them as the real deal. The planet perceive the house native as too good for them. There are some blurry aspects that they don't understand. When this synastry happens, it can feel too blurry for outsiders. Sometimes, they feel as friends and others as partners. At times, they hide their feelings without realizing or because they don't want to hurt the other. The house may hide their crush for the planet (too well). The Venus feel like the house person hides things for them. The house native don't want to bother the venusian. The house wants to give all they have to the venusian without having a concrete reason (maybe they are friends, but they are their #1 friend). This connection feel very special even divinely guided. The house is very observant with the Venusian Different backgrounds, it's possible that the house person has faith or not. One (usually the venusian) is more intuitive. Venus comes to open the house's eyes to other knowledge. The house will do all they can, so the venusian is happy. They can be soulmates (even non platonic). On the negative side, they don't have good communication because they avoid confronting each other. Both have experience paranormal activity, but only one believes more. The Venus person will try to invite the house to their home (pure opening of their soul). The Venusian can be quite delulu, but the house see it as funny or special. They met when something is ending for the Venusian. Romantic times, home dates, asking the other about things or traumas carefully, a special vibe around them. *Big smiles and shiny eyes*, "I buy you this; you tell me two months ago around 9pm" "aww thank you", "are you sleeping well?" - "yes" , *astrology or tarot talks* "can you give your birth time?" - "12:34 am" " it was bad?" "No, we match". Talk about paranormal activities like any other topic, special dates, random celebrations, secret spots, discreet dates, spirtual conection, they may understand the other, but can't explain it.
Mars in the 9th house overlay: I want to explore you. I want to learn with you.
There’s a certain devotion that the Mars person feels toward the 9th house person, a need to understand their thoughts and ways, a desire to experience them on a deeper level. The Mars person looks at the 9th house person as if they’ve never met anyone so fascinating before. It's like an irresistible pull, urging them to explore the possibilities the house person opens up. Unlike the Moon or Venus in the 9th house, where admiration can lead to placing the house person on a romantic pedestal, hesitating out of a feeling of being out of their league, Mars here takes a more direct approach, there’s action, like playful teasing or spontaneous invitations. Whether through philosophical discussions or lighthearted fun, the exchange of knowledge and experiences is constant between them. Mars breathes new life into the house person, pulling them out of their comfort zone and pushing them to explore the world. In return, the house person embodies a carefree and alluring energy that captivates Mars. The 9th house is often linked to the idea of a second marriage, representing the start of a new chapter, romance here is free-spirited and full of adventure. In platonic situations, these two could be great friends for a while, drift apart, and then reconnect years later, as if the distance only strengthened their bond.
"We’re all a little weird, and life’s a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love." – Robert Fulghum
Note: Synastry can vary significantly depending on the zodiac sign and its aspects. For a more in-depth analysis of a specific placement, you can either ask me or explore the option of a full synastry reading that I offer.
where venus is the ideal feminine for the man, mars is the ideal masculine for the female. traits the male may exhibit from his venus will be searched for in the female
aries venus — confident, self-assured, and honest women
these men want women who are self-assured, confident, and authentic. an arian venus is a venus that seeks stimulation, growth, and adventure. without these in a relationship, the man will eventually tire and leave. spontaneity and surprise are a man's love language; he wants light-hearted love but he is possessive and will ensure to keep a close eye on his woman. while he may be jealous, he looks for women who try not to "control" them or "hold them back" from living life. for him, love involves growing by expanding boundaries and going beyond the comfort zone. if he is in a relationship with a woman and feels stagnant, the man will eventually reach an ultimatum of whereby he feels he cannot grow if he is still with her. he has a broad mind and will not settle for someone who tries restricting their way of living. they could be "out there" and party or simply just travel a lot and if the woman he is with attempts to restrict him, he will feel suffocated.
emotional expressiveness and honesty are key qualities these men look for also. he does not look for someone who smothers or someone who is overly protective, but he looks for someone he can rely on honestly. these men are not overly emotional but they are very impulsive and will heavily rely on their impulses to keep them moving and going through life. as long as feelings are kept honest and light-hearted, these men will feel most comfortable in the relationship. relationships where the woman is overly sentimental or "too sensitive" can actually trigger the man into leaving as he feels he has no emotional freedom as he is actually forced into feelings things, rather than coming to his own senses. this man needs to be pushed (mentally and physically) constantly and they cannot be stagnant in their personal and love life. lively, energetic, and confident women are most attractive to this man. shy and reflective women are only attractive if the man senses her inner confidence, mysticism, and self-respect.
women who are unafraid of expressing their thoughts and opinions are attractive to these men also. they may date women who are more "masculine" than feminine in the sense that they may be more sexual and free-spirited than a typical emotionally-attuned woman who values emotions and family over sex and etc. he may date women who are independent and have their own money and lives sorted as he feels unable to be wholly relied upon.
sex and lust will flow through the relationship in big, strong waves. passion and infatuation will be strong indicators of raw chemistry. these men want a connection that triggers their mind and soul into growing and chasing. these men, being an aries venus, love chasing; therefore, the women they are with must be enticing, with something to always discover. if the man feels as though he knows his woman thoroughly or feels as though he "caught" her, he may become bored or uninterested. if he doesn't feel a fiery connection or profound attraction, he may feel dissatisfied as his sexual needs can be hard to please. he wants a woman who is confident in her own sexuality and is not interested in women who are insecure or self-doubting. he doesn't want to feel owned while simultaneously owning the woman, if, of course, his venus is negatively aspected. in extreme cases if the man is insecure or threatened by a woman's self-confidence he will "own" the woman and become controlling. these men may have one night stands or just have very light and free relationships with people where labels don't define them. they may be cheaters or just very hot and cold in relationships. for an evolved man however, commitment and loyalty are actually desirable traits in a woman, because he offers these too. he may rush into relationships quickly or just offer a very quick-paced relationship... the woman must keep up or he will have no problem leaving her behind!
taurus venus — sensual, giving, and traditional women
in a broad sense, taurus venus are traditional men, whether with morals or actual traditions. traditional may include marriage or just very dedicated relationships. he may even have a provider mindset in his relationships. this is an insanely romantic placement with a very grounded demeanor that ultimately hides his passions and desires. he feels everything very deeply and looks for someone with whom he can live comfortably. he does not look for someone overly adventurous or spontaneous like a fire or air venus; instead, he looks for someone who can offer him the simplicity of love and peace. he loves women who value their appearance by taking care of their hygiene and taking care of their looks. they don't find unpresentable women attractive or women who don't make an effort on their appearance. this isn't to say these men are vain but, in a broader sense, these men love aesthetics; they love looking at something pretty or aesthetic. they love art and are fascinated by the magic of art and will, therefore, instinctively, look for "aesthetics" or the "pretty" in women. fashion, makeup, hair, etc. are all included in the "aesthetics."
these men might go for women who are independent and career-oriented. these men have the long vision of family and kids however, and he cannot settle with someone who does not share the vision of having a happy-ever-after with kids and love. these men are the type to spoil with gifts and surprise dates but these men do not rush into relationships. he is not insecure to bother with people just for the sake of being in a relationship. these men have no problem being alone whatsoever and will actually be alone until they meet someone who convinces them to stay. taurus men look for the qualities of loyalty, caring, loving, humility, and honesty in a woman. if he meets a woman he will not make any further movements until he is convinced she offers these feminine qualities. he is not interested in insecure women or women who have a lot of exes or promiscuous women. for him, a life of stability and financial freedom is all he wants; he looks at life as something to build rather than to exploit. by giving away his body or himself, he is giving away valuable access to people who don't deserve it. he doesn't need anybody's attention to be happy or feel free. he will also look for this in a woman.
these men are not emotionless; rather, they can be very emotional with the woman they have chosen. the only distinction is that he is very grounded in the way he expresses and processes his emotions and thoughts. he rarely lets anything bother him to the core but he is also very observant in how others act and treat him. he can be a very stubborn person with slight vindictiveness but he is generally a kind soul with little room for vengeance. he looks for women who won't mother him but will offer a balance between love and independence. he can provide for himself and is merely looking for a companion more than someone to care for him. if he is traditional, then he will actually look for someone to provide for. he may date women who are traditional or just very attractive. he may date women for marriage. he may date women who are independent; whether financially, or living alone, or working a specific job
these men express their love on a physical and emotional level. touching and gift-giving are these men's key love languages. they love experiencing life and others through touch and will devour their women with affection and attention. they are lowkey clingy with a very cold and hardened demeanor on the outside. he will rarely share his depth with people who haven't touched him emotionally. only close friends and family will know who these people really are. the ideal woman for this man would be someone who is of a consistent and hardworking caliber. she cannot let things get to her because she needs to stay consistent and dedicated on her journey to success. these men might not value materialism too much but it is also how they express their gratitude towards the woman they are with. someone who is predictable and humble will win his heart. it's like they are hardwired to be monogamous...
gemini venus — communicative, honest, and knowledgeable women
mental stimulation is probably the most important thing for these men. for these men, a mental connection is required for any relationship to bloom. it's why gemini venus typically prefers someone like-minded as them. in general though, gemini venus are very light-hearted people with little to prove. they are opinionated and somewhat stubborn; they are superficial but very funny and optimistic also. they can be very philosophical or just very communicative. he thinks nothing is impossible for him, not even relationships, however, relationships can become a real struggle if he surrounds himself with the wrong women. to specify, gemini venus is a very unserious sign, usually very light-hearted and very much non-committal. them being cheaters or two-faced is a direct manifestation of the superficial personality they show to everyone. it's not wholly true, because that suggests these people feel nothing below the surface when they really do. it's just they are very selective about who they share their feelings with and when. in relationships, for example, they may communicate their feelings very rationally or very specifically. for women who are overly sensitive or emotional, it becomes a bore for the gemini venus to give constant reassurance when, in his mind, there is nothing wrong. the disconnect between emotions is real when he is an unevolved gemini venus. he may lead people on or be very flirty, but he may also run away quickly once he detects any ounce of seriousness creeping in.
for him, his ideal feminine is someone who can keep the conversation going forever. he loves learning and will look for someone who can learn alongside him. he loves traveling and exploring and looks for a best friend and a lover to join him. his ideal feminine is someone who can trick him, someone who can make him laugh, someone witty, someone who can challenge his mind. physical aspects are important, but this sign tends to focus on the mental to really feel anything else. they look for the mental "click" between him and his woman before he feels comfortable going further. he may prefer women who are social and have a lot of friends.
independence is a strong need for this placement. they need to feel like they have the freedom to roam and do whatever they want without the restrictive "labels" that tie them down. a lot of these people don't commit because they actually fear commitment. he needs a man that keeps her guessing at all times.
these men may date women who are independent, flirtatious, and unserious. these men may date women who are vain or just very superficial. he may prefer short flings to real and long-lasting relationships. these men may date women who are insecure or need male validation; he often preys on these as a result of being an insecure man. when a gemini venus is insecure, he will become highly opinionated, will gossip, and will cheat. therefore, the women he attracts will be of the same caliber.
cancer venus — sentimental and family-oriented women
the ideal feminine for this man is someone caring, loving, and family-oriented. there is usually a nostalgic or sentimental connection with these men's lovers because of their connection to their roots and mother and how much they try to replicate it in their own personal lives. these men are tenacious and ambitious, being a cardinal sign. he is a leader at heart and understands the need to provide and his responsibility in building a home. he doesn't desire or go for women who are too loud or showy. he prefers women who are quiet and down-to-earth like himself. women who are homebodies or women who enjoy spending time alone are most likely his preference as he is the same. many people may associate this sign with immaturity because of certain stereotypes that cancer placements are cheaters but, in reality, it's only the case if this venus is unevolved or malefically placed/aspected. it can also be the case where these men are overly protective, jealous, or possessive of their women; these traits usually signify an underlying problem though, such as mommy issues or just neglect from a young age. for most men, they try to replicate their domestic home in their current one, whether it be through sentimental objects or just through certain traditions.
he is protective and loving of his woman. he is connected to his feminine side of nurturing and being sympathetic. he looks for these qualities in women too. his ideal feminine involves someone who is caring, loving, humble, and childish like him. he is a loyal man who will devote his time and energy to his woman, always. on the outside, he may be known as the guy who works hard to provide for his woman. he may be known as someone who's just ambitious or a workaholic. but really, he is a gooey and affectionate guy who loves hard. he expresses his feelings both in an affectionate and gooey way but also in a provider way, where he provides for his woman and gives her gifts. this is a seriously happy placement but it can also be a severely damaged one. these men may attract women who are insecure or just very emotional and overly sentimental. this typically speaks of an issue the man has, as the women he meets are reflections of his own insecurities. an unhappy home may lead him to see women with broken homes too. he may play the saviour in relationships or try to "heal" the other without realizing he needs healing too.
his ideal feminine will be someone who is sensitive to others and himself. he may go for women who are shy and sweet. he may be the indecisive type and will actually need a woman he can go to for counsel when necessary. he really just wants a best friend and a lover with whom he can relate to. this is a very needy placement and women who are easily overwhelmed or disgusted at gooey affection will not be satisfied in a relationship with these men. he wants someone he can build a family and a home with, not somebody overly focused on superficial things like money or social status (although because this is a cardinal sign, cancer venus are typically very ambitious when it comes to these things... but only because he has to!!!).
leo venus — dramatic, fiery, and loving women
leo venus is arguably one of the most devoted and loving signs of the venus zodiac. they are loyal and care for their partners very deeply. for a man, the level of devotion he expects should be returned from his woman. an evolved leo venus will always be humble and loving when in a relationship. to him, however, his ideal feminine will be someone who is unapologetically self-expressive and fiery. he wants someone who can bring the real deal and someone who offers an undying passion for their partner. he feels things on a dramatic level and expects his woman to express his feelings, however dramatic they may be. he goes above and beyond for his partner in a love so unconditional and somewhat divine. what he wants from a female, however, is appreciation, compliments, and to be valued as a man. if he is in a relationship where he doesn't feel reassured, valued, or appreciated, or feels as though his loyalty is being tested or abused, he will quickly lose interest. he does not settle for women who lack gratitude or appreciation in simple things. the ideal feminine will involve personality and security. this may be a vain placement in the sense that these people typically go off looks or appearances but their attraction towards physical appearance wears off as attraction towards personality and actual expressions of love take over. he needs someone who isn't validated by the world or someone who has a very strong self-image. he wants someone who knows how to dress. he has a love for art or just writing and would appreciate words of affirmation. he may be attracted to women who are independent but most importantly women who are proud and confident. he does not find insecure women attractive as it does not align with his goal to become his best possible self.
these men radiate luxury and materialism. they, if evolved, are hardworking and attract very elegant women. therefore, women who are promiscuous, or women who do not offer loyalty, are instantly out of his mind. their strong desire for affection and attention are sometimes expressed in how much they spoil their woman. they love love and love being loved. leo mars in women typically look for men who are ready to bow to her and worship her but leo venus in men look for this "worship" in a different way. if the woman is outgoing and herself and offers her time to the man only, then he will feel like he is worshipped. he wants a woman who is confident in her sexuality as he is very sexual and very intimately demanding. he will have a high sex drive for his woman and will continuously look to bond with her. in general, this placement dates for marriage or, at the very least, for the long term. because these men have so much love to offer, they typically hold off until they meet their "one" or until they trust someone. unevolved leo venus men actually act gullible because they desire attention so much and are so insecure they need it from multiple women. they tend to put their trust in so many people and are therefore abused.
leo venus men are probably the tamest out of the fire venus bundle because this is a fixed sign with a very hardworking streak. they are very calculated in their work life and will look for a woman who can match the independence, work ethic, and morals that he has. he has very high standards in love and will look for a woman with matching dignity and self-respect. he also looks for optimism, support, and advice from his woman. these men must ensure that they do not attract the wrong type of confidence, i.e. women who are cocky and self-absorbed. these men may have the tendency to be self-absorbed and cocky and therefore attract women who are the same. but, they must find childishness in the woman they date because leo, in general, is very childish/childlike and heals through playing with their inner child. releasing their inner child in a relationship is very important.
virgo venus — critical, humble, and self-giving women
virgo venus is a critical sign, especially in a man. because this placement is so logically placed, there seems to be an emphasis on logic or rational thinking in love. these men love being alone and spending time with quality friends/family. they're not the type to make friends with everyone, but instead the type to make a few friends along their journey. therefore, it's a clear sign of love if a virgo venus man decides to keep a woman in his life. his main struggles will revolve around learning humility and learning how to stop being critical (towards his woman and himself) and learning to not be a perfectionist. being perfect is great, but it is not realistic. modesty and honesty are admired and desired by these men because they love cleanliness and being tidy. they love women who have good hygiene or have a (strict) routine they can stick to, whether it be a work routine or a gym one. the ultimate downfall for this sign is being overly possessive or controlling and having standards too unattainable. on a general level, though, these men are attracted to quiet women. they don't like or desire women who are too loud or overly expressive.
these men may be the loner type, or at least the type to have very few friends. he needs a lot of time for his social battery to recharge. it's important for him, then, to have someone who respects his need for loneliness. he looks for women who are dependable and reliable because he is also. being an earth sign, reliability, consistency, and predictability are his strongest qualities. he may be overly critical or too much of a perfectionist, but his work ethic or sympathy toward the poor can never be undermined. he looks for these qualities (sympathetic, loyal, clean, predictable, reliable) because he looks for a woman who can live her value, rather than not having any self-esteem and trying to prove something she isn't. dignified women who have a lot of self-respect and humility are most desirable for these men. they may be traditional or, for example, look for maternal qualities in their women, too.
these men's downfall can involve self-esteem issues or heavy insecurities, usually projected when in a relationship because of how much they are forced to look at their partner who mirrors these men's self-esteem issues. they may attract "low-value women" with qualities the complete opposite of what these men desire because of their own "low-value" selves. these men may surround themselves with too many people because they actually fear being alone and they look for the attention and validation of others to satisfy their inner void. they experience great turmoil when they realize their critical and hateful nature actually stems from their own distaste for their own character. they become hypocritical and heavily hateful towards others.
these men don't fall in love very quickly, therefore making them very slow-moving in love. they're not quick to love or feel (but are definitely quick to judge!), so the woman can always expect the man to reveal himself later on in the relationship. he is not the one to expect immediate commitment, but commitment that is worked on instead. loyalty is everything to him, as he makes an excellent companion. these men can actually become infatuated and deeply in love with women, but it takes a long time to really get there. when in love, though, become provider men. they prioritize their women's needs and actually do everything for her.
libra venus — flirtatious, sensual, and feminine women
very similar desires as a taurus venus man: feminine women with good taste in art, "aesthetics", and fashion. these men may be feminine themselves or just be very attuned to their feminine side, i.e. emotional, fashionable, etc. they appreciate the finer things in life and looks for a woman that is a chase but also someone with style. as this is a sign of scales, these men look for a woman they can be in synch with. this is a sign of togetherness, therefore whoever this man chooses, he will reflect. women who are "well-groomed" or just very elegant are his ideal feminine. he doesn't look for someone loud or gaudy or someone who doesn't take care of herself. he looks for cleanliness, charm, and peace without her having to do much. if you want a mental image of who these men want, think of someone with a libra rising or someone who has very heavy libra placements (especially those that are very prominent.) he looks for a woman who is respectable, polite, and confident in herself and her sexuality.
relationships promote his flirtiness and need for love and, therefore, if in a relationship, he will find himself spoiling his woman or just tending to her every need. therefore, he will look for someone who can reflect his flirtatious nature and sex drive. this is a hopeless romantic who loves love. he does not look for a woman who is vain or so focused on appearance, it becomes her whole personality. these men, as much as they want good looks, actually fall into the trap of dating women who are superficial and offer only... well... good looks. they often date women with no personality or women who cannot truly reflect the man's need to bounce off his woman and connect with her on a romantic level. sensuality and sexual grace are key qualities the woman should have because he is drawn to looks and energy.
these men don't look for someone who make relationships hard. they don't look for someone who mother them or smother them in love and demands. yes, this is a highly affectionate and loving sign but he tends to stay as superficial as he possibly can, emotionally wise. feelings aren't difficult for him but they can feel like a chore if he is in a relationship with someone who demands feelings to be felt. he prefers someone he can work and grow beside. he prefers being with someone and feeling as though he can still be independent and not tied down by chains in the relationship. he wants someone who speaks and moves smoothly, not someone who is aggressive or sudden in their approach. he actually encourages feminine behavior in his relationships and will actually help other women heal their wounded femininity. however, women who act masculine or tough are not desirable to him. to him, the ideal feminine is quite literally feminine all around.
mental stimulation is important in his relationships because he is an air venus. if he feels stagnation or boredom, his mind is easily piqued by others who offer something more worthwhile. this isn't to say libra venus men are disloyal; they can be very loyal, but to a fault, they have demands as does anybody else. air signs are constantly on the move whether it be physically or mentally. this person is always thinking, interacting, and fantasizing. if his woman does not share the same excitement as him or the same energy, he will quickly become underwhelmed. he is not impressed by women that are wanted by other men, but women who are modest, independent, and offer love only when they want it.
scorpio venus — sensual, mysterious, and “untouchable” women
these men, on the outside, are typically very emotionless and uncaring. on the inside, however, they are profoundly emotional with a strong capacity to love. these men tend to attract women who cause severe change within themselves, as scorpio venus can be a tremendously burdening placement to have, with scorpio = change/transformation, and venus = love/friendship. with these two combined, their friendships or relationships are constantly challenged. for a scorpio venus man, love is a heavy source of change and transformation. their insecurities are usually mirrored in their relationships. they have a strong responsibility to heal with this placement. for a man, his ideal feminine is someone loyal, possessive, and caring. this placement carries a heavy emotional aspect and these men must find someone who can reflect their depth of feeling. he does not find weak-willed women attractive. confidence and sensuality are this sign's turn-ons and he will not find someone who lacks depth or mystery. for him, loyalty is not easily given. he will choose "untouchable" women who have a short history with men. they are not picky, but are just very selective with whom they have intimacy with. they will only open up to those they see long-term potential with.
this is not a sign that dates for fun or for the short-term. if he does, he is an unevolved scorpio venus. evolved scorpio venus' dates with labels, with clear possession, with clear signs the woman is his and his only. unevolved scorpio venus' usually date but fear fully committing because they are scared of rejection or facing the fact that someone might not like them as much as he likes them. typically, these men attract women who are seductive, passionate, and mysterious. they tend to keep their relationships private. for him, his ideal feminine is someone affectionate, loving, and confident. he loves women confident in their sexuality. he typically goes for women who have similar energy as him, i.e. someone with scorpio placements, with whom he can relate to. for him, having someone to relate to is important because he wants to feel understood by his partner inasmuch he wants to understand others. his red flag, however, is his subconscious habit of self-sabotaging. he may cause drama or self-sabotage whilst in a relationship. being a heavily insecure sign, it's common to see many relationships fail because of him. pluto's influence over venus causes turmoil within him, making him question his self-worth and ability to provide for his woman. it's why, for him, relationships can be scarce. oftentimes, the women he attracts are the catalyst for his healing journey. the typical depiction of scorpio is someone who brings others down in an attempt to become equal to them. here, too, the scorpio venus man might become overly controlling or obsessive in the relationship to the point of bringing down the other instead of uplifting the other.
the ideal feminine for these men is someone who can recognize the value between intertwining love and sex together. this sign is intensely passionate and will cling to whoever he loves dearly. if his woman doesn't reciprocate the same neediness or obsessiveness as he does for her, he will doubt his true feelings for her. what he wants is someone who can let him heal and grow. he is attracted to women who are quiet but fiery. he wants to know his woman inside out. he desires quiet elegance whereby the woman speaks with energy instead of words.
spirituality may become interwoven into the relationship as these men see love as an ecstatic experience more than a shallow connection. this means these men typically see relationships as something spiritual or destined. if his woman is not on the same wavelength as him on this fact, he will quickly become disinterested.
sagittarius venus — adventurous and free-spirited women
this can be a very fun placement for those who don't want to take love so seriously. these men are born to be unserious. they are born to be adventurous and to experiment with others, especially in love. this can be a highly polygamous person or a cheater. this sign is rarely loyal and, if loyal, is only loyal because the relationship has little to no rules. this man's ideal feminine is someone concerned with the spiritual life, as well as the material one. these men are highly spiritual people, with a very strong moral compass. they have very strong views on life and can actually be very opinionated, depending on how some people view them. they may be stubborn.
for him, his ideal feminine will involve someone who can offer spontaneity and excitement in the relationship. movement or adventure is crucial for these men to feel satisfied. they actually bond with their loved ones better when they have a mutual interest (such as traveling) or when they can explore new themes/places together. these men radiate light and optimism wherever they go and will look for a woman that uplifts them rather than one that tries dimming his light. he is actually very selective in who he loves because of his adventurous and independent standard. actually, his independence may become his ultimate downfall in relationships. because they are so individualistic and independent, they often fear losing their independence in relationships and will, therefore, avoid any sort of serious commitment. it often backfires when the women they're with lose interest because they can't seem to offer them honest loyalty. they start lying and manipulating their way into the sheets just to disappear the next day. this sign is the perfect example of someone who wants independence but also wants love. they feel love on a deep level, regardless of what anyone says. they're not superficial lovers but they make things superficial for the sake of light-heartedness. nonetheless, they can make great partners if this sign has evolved into someone with spiritual or religious values. an evolved sagittarius venus can become one of the most intoxicating signs because of their positive attitude toward life.
i may have mentioned his superficiality in relationships, but his ideal feminine involves someone who can think incredibly philosophically and someone who has a deep view of life. he meanders through life with a specific purpose in mind and needs someone who understands him and why he does the things he does. he needs to work with others to figure out how life works and how different cultures live. it's why adventure is so important to him and having a woman who can join him on his adventure. he wants someone to grow with, someone to evolve with, someone to learn with. these are highly philosophical men who will trigger others into rethinking life just from their opinions or beliefs on life.
these men may not have a particular goal in mind and therefore need a woman who is the same or at least is willing to explore with him. women who rely on predictability, consistency, and money will find themselves dissatisfied with a sagittarius venus because money rarely actually matters for these men. even if they become rich, their generous nature encourages them to spoil their family and friends rather than themselves. because this is a jupiter-ruled venus, luck and abundance may reign throughout these men's relationships, but they may become too broad and general, there's hardly ever a deeper click than with the mind or physical attraction. for these men, they can be highly lustful or passionate they use sex to satisfy themselves. this isn't for every sagittarius venus, however; this is only a general observation or interpretation. sagittarius can actually be a very loyal companion... only if evolved.
he may date women who are spontaneous, spiritual, religious, or philosophical. he may date women with little to no expectations or women who don't mind having short flings or short relationships. he may date women as part of an arrangement (think arranged marriage) or he may date ethnic/foreign women. he may date outside his race or culture. he may date women who are exotic or something he's not used to. not as a fetish, although this can be an extreme manifestation of an unevolved sagittarius venus. he may date someone from one of his travels or adventures. generally speaking, he may date women who are very optimistic, funny, honest, humble, and generous.
capricorn venus — hardworking, traditional, and successful women
these men are very traditional and hardworking. his ideal feminine will include the following traits: loyal, hardworking, traditional, independent but family-oriented, logical, and successful. social status may be important to these men but, in general, they value success and material wealth. they desire women who are family-oriented and motherly. because they are traditional, they will mostly be monogamous and will marry their spouse without a doubt. for them, hookup culture isn't a thing... if this placement is evolved. these men work for their money and are natural providers for their women, whether it be entirely or just partly.
these men value class, elegance, honesty, and ambition. these men are very stubborn people in the sense that they will persevere, regardless of circumstances. they are workaholics who appreciate when a woman is independent and can take care of herself. he looks for ambition in women, also. he does not find laziness or reliance on him attractive. he does not find gaudy or loud women attractive. modest and quiet women seem to catch his attention. in relationships, he is not quick to open up but, being a stubborn sign, will always persevere in his relationships. he is not quick to tire when it comes to working for a successful relationship. he is devoutly loyal and will always communicate openly. however, his only downfall is his emotional unawareness or lack of emotional reciprocation. he wants a woman that is motherly and intelligent. he wants a woman that is in control of her emotions instead of someone who is overly sensitive or complains a lot. being an earth sign, he is slow to fall in love and slow to propose. he is not looking for someone aggressive, but someone who is predictable, sure of what they want, and certain of their future. this sign works for its future. these men are probably one of the most hardworking signs in the entire zodiac and, while it may come with its disadvantages, it comes with a lot of advantages, too. for example, they will always be predictable in their approach. their woman will never be unsure of how this man feels for them. she will always know, for certain, where in life he wants to go. she will always feel comfortable knowing he will provide for her when necessary. she, on the other hand, must promise him loyalty, responsibility, commitment, and patience. these men work for their future slowly and steadily. if he values social status or social success, he will most likely look for women in the public field, or older women who have a lot of success.
these men look for someone mature. they're not feminine freaks but they will desire a woman who is connected to her feminine side as her maternal instincts (i.e. care, love, sensitivity, empathy, loyalty) match his masculine instincts (hardworking, providing, guiding, honesty.) these men may instinctively date women similar to their mothers. they may date women who are serious and detached.
aquarius venus — unconventional and authentic women
these men are naturally self-expressive and authentic. they are very different from others and know this in their minds. therefore, they will look for similarities in women. women who are self-expressive and unconventional are their ideal feminine. they don't want a woman with a copy-and-paste personality or an appearance that is similar to everyone else's. really, this person looks for someone who stands out from the crowd because, they too, stand out from the crowd. they are very genuine in their approach to love because they appreciate the differences in people, rather than what's conventional. they don't like following traditions or submission to dogma but instead will create their own "traditions" or beliefs that involve their own personality. they may oppose marriage, for example, or they may oppose monogamous relationships. they may not believe in labels such as boyfriend/girlfriend, even. nonetheless, they can make great lovers because they inspire their women to take charge and to go after what they truly desire. they push the boundaries of those they love and will happily stay loyal to the long-term vision they have with their partners. they're not particular about their fashion style but they, as an aquarius venus, stand out with their uniqueness. they feel if they were to "settle" with someone who is just like everybody else, they may lose their individuality. it's why, too, they tend to refuse or dislike labels. if they feel as though they have to fit some standard instead of being themselves, they tend to run away. this sign can have some serious commitment issues but, if evolved, can see relationships as an excellent tool and method to grow as a person and learn about others.
similarly to other air and fire signs, they tend to fear stagnation or boredom in a relationship. therefore, women who are "eccentric" or women who bring a lot of temptation, chasing, and change are very desirable. these men value women who can keep their own independence and women who can let them be independent also. women who recognize the value of excitement in relationships are ultimately most desirable as these women are the ones that cause growth in relationships. if he's in a relationship with a woman that is too laid-back or predictable, he will feel like there's nothing to chase and nothing to gain from the relationship. mental stimulation is a necessity for them as they must always feel like they are on the move.
because both aquarius and venus = friendships/relationships, these people ultimately look for a best friend they can relate with. they don't date simply for sex or for love but for the bond that comes with being friends and lovers. for these people, they can be very loyal to their partner if they think their partner is both a lover and a best friend. there must be a strong connection before he feels like he can commit to them. these men don't commit easily in the sense that they must have a mental rapport with them stronger than physical attraction. remember, this sign looks for quirks and things others don't see.
these men may date women who give themselves to society or those who are good with the public or have a lot of friends. they choose to date women who have a unique style and women who enjoy being self-expressive. loyalty and authenticity are key qualities these men look for because these men look for something unique, rather than something copied. they may date women who, on some level, "don't want anything serious", or women who have very loose beliefs on traditions and the like. these men may date women who are very independent and look for companionship more than a serious relationship.
pisces venus — loving, dreamy, and mysterious women
this placement can be very similar to scorpio venus in the sense that these men crave sensuality and emotional intensity. this is not a sign that dates for fun or for the short term. to thes men, love is more ecstatic than practical. this doesn't mean they are unreliable as lovers but they focus on the emotional aspect of relationships to the point of becoming engulfed in the idea of escaping through love with another person. he has an incredible capacity to love and will give whatever he can to the woman he loves. his ideal feminine is someone loyal, sensitive, and emotional. he needs someone he can feel back and forth with and needs someone emotionally readily available for them. they can be a hunch to date as they have a tendency to smother or be insecure in relationships. most of the time, these men attract women who are hard to reach or emotionally unavailable. this is a common link between all water signs because they crave a connection so deep and profound, they tend to force emotions or self-sabotage for the sake of feeling. he is ready to worship his female, but only if she is willing to do the same. they may be hopeless romantics and spend their entire lives looking for "the one" with unrealistic standards and expectations of love. despite the fairytale love he looks for, he often fails to live up to the dream he envisions. nonetheless, these people are devoutly loyal and, if positively aspected, can make some of the most unforgettable lovers out there. their level of kindness is unmatched and the things they are willing to do for others goes beyond just personal sacrifice.
he does not find cold women attractive. he needs someone to emotionally attune to. this is his demand. if he feels as though the connection has run out of synch he will either run away or try his hardest to revive the connection. he looks for someone understanding and committed because he offers a level of understanding and empathy others cannot offer. he is turned on by kindness, sweetness, and motherly traits because this person looks for someone quite the opposite of independent, aggressive, or just very emotionless. if any girl was to win his heart, it would be through affection, attention, and being nice.
a highly negative side to this placement is that, while he may desire love so much, he may actually attract women who need to be loved. he may act as the healer or attract very broken and insecure women who need to be shown love. this can prove to be toxic when the man begins over-giving and the woman begins abusing his attention and efforts by demeaning his efforts as she will never feel good enough for him. to him, the ideal feminine involves being mysterious and hard to reach. he doesn't like easily accessible women or women who have a lot of options. they need to feel like the only one.
this placement can be very ambitious, but he is ambitious through emotions rather than logic. if he feels something, it's felt passionately and thoroughly. he doesn't follow his instincts as much and actually prefers taking the flow with things but it doesn't mean he's idle or passive. instead, he takes his time and makes time for things he is genuinely passionate about or interested in. if he doesn't have someone who (emotionally) supports him or shares his interests, he will feel undermined or unvalued in the relationship. femininity is important to him. he likes someone gentle, delicate, etc.
love and sex are intertwined as one and only unevolved pisces venus would abuse sex. to a pisces venus, sex is the sacrifice of the body almost; it's the connection between body and mind and it is where love is truly expressed through physical connection + climax. there is a certain idealization of sex however, where it is made up to be some sort of great escape of pleasure when in reality it's a soul tie with a deeper bond.
💙Welcome back the second in Future Spouse series. We will look at some more info about your future partner. 💜
Because there isn't much Darakaraka in houses, here it is, i hope this helps.
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Disclaimer: I am not putting any major negatives in this one, let's keep it light.
How to calculate your Dk Planet-
Go to Farfaraway.com generate your birth chart, look at the degrees and choose the lowest degree planet, or their must be DK written, that is your Darakaraka planet.
#Rahu-ketu cannot be Darakaraka.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 1st - They may know you before you know them, may approach you, will influence your outlook and thoughts, could be dedicated to you, spouse can make or break things for you, may affect your health, could transform or change you, can challenge/trigger you, you may acknowledge them the first time based on their appearance, could be just like you in beliefs or looks like you, may meet them in Hospitals, police stations, grocery shops, mall, salon, events, marriage event, business events, social gatherings, court, places of businesses so malls, cafes, retailers, supermarket etc., Are supportive of you, power couple vibes. Could start off as sexual relationship, sexually attracted to each other first, marriage can change perspective and life for you, spouse will help you throughout, marriage/spouse may help make up some decisions or help give mental clarity.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 2nd- Shows someone who is wealthy, may work in finance, banking, culinary, are family oriented, are "family/marriage" material, can be some one from your childhood, you may know them for a long time before marriage, they value security a lot, and will probably take time with you before entering into Partnership, can make or break your self esteem/security/finances, self learnt/independent and skilled, can teach you something, Family issues/attachment, may meet them at bank, near your home, at dentists, school, can come to your house, cinemas, after a major event in life, or after someone's death or loss, at places of spirituality, or in dark places or at night, could marry you for money, will affect your relationship with your family, wants a family, you can become more or less confident after marriage, more or less comfortable and finally not on your feet after marriage, stability and happiness from marriage.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 3rd- May be from your neighbourhood, school, is a friend of your sibling, cousin, has relations with your friends, friends to lovers, talkative, competitive, skilled, socially anxious or sociable, may meet them in your neighborhood, around your house, on a short distance travel, on a bus, local transport, bus stop, local cafes, library at place of learning, while travelling or places involving foreign elements, both of you may gossip together, big on friendship in marriage, best friend type marriage, childlike love, infidelity, three party situation, communication is going to be very important for both of you, misunderstanding can occur, a true learning experience, you may learn something from them, they can be a teacher or teach something to you, verbal conflicts or stubbornness when it comes to opinion and lack of adjustment, similiar upbringing, rise in creativity after marriage for you, you both can together create something.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 4th- Home like, safety and security is important, provider energy, emotional relationship (draining or beneficial), unadulterated love, attached to their mother, less likely to move to another place or leave their home place, you are their "home", patriotic, changes home aesthetic often, finds you "marriage/family material", could be from your childhood, mother(their or yours) may bring this person or introduce, Could meet you when you visit back home, around your house, at a realty site, near a building, can have good relationship with your mom, is like a mom(not literally) to you, wants you to have good relationship with their mother, affects your happiness (for good or bad) , private couple, challenge your upbringing, bring material wealth to you, influence political decisions, may meet near government buildings, has royal linkage or political connections, could be patriotic or serves country, Spouse can bring happiness and help you open up emotionally, they will last an everlasting impression on subconscious even if you decide to separate.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 5th - Hopeless romantic, Soulmate connection, past life connection, head over heels, may meet you in your early 20s or teens, childlike love, meet you at a place of fun, at bank, through friends, at place of learning, normal but feel like divine meeting, meeting at University, young love, jealousy and passionate, Can be your first love, they love kids, you guys may have met when you were kids, can meet at a playground or around children, they want many kids or none, the kind of uncle/aunt kids love, popular or famous, into music, meets you when you are having fun or a place of fun/party, could be into Spirituality, affects your gains and finances, brings you material wealth, you or them could be other's creative muse, fun couple, you can see your relationship with children and creativity and self expression be affected or influenced by spouse, you may become more open and accepting to centre stage after marriage, rise in ego and confidence and may pay more attention to fun, spouse will add fun to life.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 6th - Lives around you, does social service, may meet you when you are helping others or they are helping others, at a gym, in neighbourhood, around your locality, at workplace, at a grocery store, pet store, park, at hospital, near spiritual sights, while travelling, around food outlets, in cinema, near places of art, is a colleague, has heightened nerves, can be a doctor or in medical line, has a pet, or you get a pet after marriage, may have health ailments, marriage affects your health (good or bad), spouse will affect your stress and anxiety(for good or bad), may do social services together, or work together after marriage, verbal arguments, animosity and competitiveness with spouse, marriage may affect work life, possible talks of separation or living separately for some time, loss of love or bond, either one could be critical or your insecurities may be triggered through them or after marriage, can work together, both can defeat others together, power couple, the intellectual couple.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 7th- Spouse may be devoted to marriage, is loyal, could be famous, may meet you at your workplace, at a celebration, at a wedding event, at a social/public event, at a place of business so grocery store, retailers, stores, may come at you on their own, near court, at workplace, gym, etc. May be businessman or works with an audience. Has a social presence and will impact your life majorly. Foreign spouse. Will influence your perspection and Personality, opposite attract, partners in crime, business partners, may work together, could meet them with the soul purpose of marriage, they may be competitor, someone who values union, treats you their equal, sexual attraction first, starts with sexual relationship, enemy to lovers, communication and friendliness is important, there may be desires of either one involved with other, very sexual relationship based on trust and equality. Couple goals for some, people, recognition through Spouse or after marriage.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 8th- Someone who will impact you in a major way. Could be someone that helps you with your fears, could be someone that meet you during or after a big change or after something sad happy. They may meet you in hospitals, places of mysticism, cinema, dark alleys, places where light is dim, during the night, in places of research, or investing, bank, or places you may have fears of. Shows deep intimate connection between two, very intense. Enemies to lovers. Can be introduced by older people. Foreign spouse, living in a foreign country after marriage, revealing deep issues through marriage, long distance relationship, lack of trust in marriage, secrecy about marriage or in between partners, in laws will play an important role in marriage, focus on increasing assets and finances, spouse can marry for money or you can, can start as sexual relationship, jealousy and possessiveness in marriage, and possibly control. Spouse can have insecurity arising from you, talks of prenup before.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 9th - They will affect your beliefs, relationship with Spirituality and religion, they may be your teacher or someone you will look upto, they will teach you a lot, and you guys may be compatible over your beliefs or Experiences. You can meet them at a place of education, University, while travelling, through father or grandparents, in places of worship, religion and spirituality. Could be a soulmate or spiritual level connection or feels like one. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. Could be a teacher or traveller. Can travel a lot after marriage, relationship with father may be affected. Spouse's siblings play an important role in relationship. You could feel lucky or a dream come true with spouse, you may complete higher education after marriage, marriage may bring fame, rise in luck after marriage, financial prosperity from spouse, romantic and divine meeting and union.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 10th- Helps you out with your career, status and responsibilities. Someone who shares your burden of duties, partners in crime. May meet at work, could be your colleagues or superior, meet at social event or family event or around your home or introduced by someone in family, at government buildings or historical or royal buildings. Likely to be older or mature than you, can have royal linkage. Works with government, may live in another country, contractual marriage, gains from father in law after marriage, spouse is attached to mother, provider energy, has a strong lineage, will bring fame or is famous, can affect public image or how others see you, challenges and is self righteous, you can get more responsible after marriage, both of you can work together, Spouse brings prosperity and you may feel powerful after marriage or with spouse, Spouse is person of power, both of you can do business together. There could be political ties.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 11th- Someone you may be friends with, meet online or through friends or elder sibling, or you work together in a community or meet a social event. The emphasis will hugely be on friendship and communication and exchange of ideas. You will both be supportive of each other and will also benefit financially from marriage, you may find your hardwork paying off after this union. Some may have to work hard in the relationship but end result will be beautiful. Could do humanitarian work together. Could do business in technological or items of prestige. Spouse could work in tech field, both or either may feel very lucky after this union or feel like your are each other's manifestation. You both can make some goals and aims together you want to achieve together, Partners in crime, emphasis on friendship in marriage will be significant, communication will be important. Your desires may start to come true, fame can come to you, Spouse can bring contact with influential people, they may already be an admirer.
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𓆩♡𓆪 Darakaraka in 12th - You may have spiritual or soulmate level connection. Intuitively connected, you may meet them after a loss or at place where you may spend monetarily a lot. This may be a friends with benefits situation, you may meet at hospitals, places of spirituality, orgies, places with foreign elements, while travelling, in a distant land. You may meet in dreams, in parks, in places of healing and health care, grocery stores etc. They are likely to be yours or you to them a muse or creative inspiration. Will impact you deeply. Long distance relationship. Foreign spouse. They will impact your relationship with Spirituality. Could see increase in travel after marriage. You could do business of foreign elements, medicines, spiritual items, or in foreign land. This can indicate a relationship arising out of loneliness. They can come at a time when you feel alone and insecure. There may be substances involved either when you meet, or the person themselves does it, or you may be prone to it after marriage.
💘Welcome to the first in The future spouse series💘
If you want to calculate your vedic chart and d9/Navamsa chart, go to farfaraway.com. generate both charts from there.-> go to my vedic astrology master list and find out how to read north indian vedic chart if you want to know about your future spouse traits.
I believe the following vedic ones to be the most apt and are always accurate. Try to find patterns across both systems.
This is made for first spouse. Read accordingly for other partners if you want. 2nd house is 2nd spouse, 9th house is for 3rd spouse. Same for UL take 8th house from first UL for second spouse.
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Aries/Mars
The relationship is going to be fun and playful for you both. There’s going to be a lot of teasing and playful banters involved too. May fight often or have conflicting opinions too. Both of you maybe be particularly fussy of your own opinions and hence arguments are very likely. However this can lead to make up sex later on. Either of you may even just do or say the exact opposite of what other is saying just to instigate them or tease them. I see a lot of running around after each other, sarcastic comments, in playful hitting, tickle fights, pranks, taking many adventures together, playing video games, ego clashes when both of you are not speaking to each other and would expect the other to come to them, (sun is exalted in Aries). Funny thing is directness is appreciated but won’t bow first. Protective over each other, supportive, possessive, gets confidence from each other. Aggressive kissing, unexpected kisses. Tugging one hand around other’s arm in public or pull them closer. Sexual tension will be high, bunnies. laughing between the s🔥x. Wrapping around each other, legs over legs. Difficult to keep hands off each other. Acting sexy when other is working to entice. Shoving against the wall. Neck kisses. Shower sex. Water fights. Standing on the balcony in duvets looking over the sunset. Clingy, always touching each other, mocking each other, making weird faces at each other. There maybe power struggle, finding a balance for both is important. Physical touch is very significant here. Butt grabbing, picking other up and getting it on on the kitchen counter. Playful dynamic overall.
Taurus/Venus
Relationship is likely to be calm and consistent. Silence doesn’t feel awkward kind. I see a lot of chilling happening at home, wine bottles, slow dancing, playing games. Cooking together, indulging in own work at home without any hard feelings of not getting attention from other, calm and indie music playing in the background. Cigarettes on the balcony. Often dine out at favorite restaurants in sweats. Dresses up to eat at fancy places too. Confidant of each other. Giving each other advices or helping them out. Though stubborn, conflicts from both sides, won’t be too loud but will stick to own ground. Meeting in the kitchen, after a day or two of fighting and not talking, cuz you guys were hungry and end up eating the Nutella jar together later or ordering something in. Bringing in sweets, chocolates and pastries or any food item to make up after one is upset. Enthusiastic foodies. Kind to tell other to make the morning coffee, or to open the door. Junk food eating together is going to be a thing. Acts of service, receiving and giving gifts. Strong trust between two. Talking about work stress and finding solutions together, looking at house furnitures guides and catalogues often between work and sending each other images when not together even though you don’t really need it. Use of food in sex. Unexpected sexual urges. Suprising each other with enticing gifts. Satin dresses, handcuffs. Chocolate syrup, strawberries. One second you be cooking and next something else is cooking. Back hugs. Can get too vanilla at times, mundane lives as well, so try to keep fire alive. Chill dynamic overall.
Gemini/Mercury
Again very childlike and fun. Though major emphasis is on communication, you guys will talk a lot, figure out solutions together, communicate and bounce off ideas of each other. Make each other laugh a lot. I see literally lying on bed whole day and laughing and just talking about literally anything. Sarcasm and inside jokes. Best friend turned lovers. Experimental with sex, although either one may have a nervous energy surrounding it. Discussing conspiracy theories late at night and finding truths. And random rush of need to watch documentaries late at night. Waking up the other cuz your mind be buzzing and other one doesn’t mind but actually indulge with you. Drinking coffee together late at night. Reading books, silent rooms. A lot of hand holding and two crazy people playing with shopping carts in the store. Banters, laughter and at random things, and wit, conflicts can be childlike with sarcasm and mocking tones. Can be irritated with each other, and not talk for a day and then curl up in the blanket together at night cuz you missed them. Conflicts can be something which can also bring ego and pride for both and hurt emotions caused by each other’s words, that’s something to be worked upon. Words of affirmation, physical touch. Helping each other learn the value of communication and clarity. Best friends dynamic.
Cancer/Moon
Nurturing towards each other. Either one stresses out other one would immediately start thinking of ways to make them less stressed. Cooking for the other. Sometimes together. Covers the other with a blanket. Carrying to the bed when one fall asleep on the couch. Watching romcoms together. Talking to each other about each other’s families, helping each other with family stuff, visiting each other’s home town, offering to take each other families to doctor’s appointment or any other kind, organizing family dinners often. Slow dancing with one’s head on other’s chest. Soft kisses leading to intense eye stares and then shifting it to the bedroom 🔥. Starting off slow and sensual then it gets real passionate. Fireplaces. Cuddles later, playing with each other’s hair. Forehead kisses. Scolding each other for slightest of dangerous stunt other might pull. Words of affirmation, quality time and gift giving/recieving. Needy and clingy with each other, tugging on each other’s sweaters. Conflicts can get emotional too soon, easy crying, both can actually end up crying, hurt emotions, that’s something to be balanced. Feeling lack of affection. Healing own childhood trauma with partner. Caressing, feeling comfort and safe and secure and finally at home with partner. Feeling most happy in each other’s company, smiling at other at end of long day. Long hugs. Each other’s home feeling/dynamic.
Leo/sun
This is going to involve romantic gestures, date nights. Protective over each other, supporting each other. Taking stands for the other even at slightest of offensive comment from external source. Controlling at times. Date nights even after 50 years of marriage. Telling each other cheesy jokes to make other laugh. Reminiscing initial days of relationship while watching old photos/videos. Casual impromptu couple dance in rain. Painting house together, getting possessive over each other. Jealousy is gonna be real here, even with friends. Want all the attention and love and care of other, not sharing each other one bit. Childlike, hopeless romantics. Suprising the other by setting the mood for spicy deeds when other comes back from work, loose tie. Candles, chocolates, sweaty, satin robe, white duvets, Cuddle sessions later, no fixed big or small spoon here btw. Inside jokes, sarcasm, playful banters. Possessive ness and jealousy comes from insecurity or wanting all of other, lacks practicality and groundedness sometimes. Clingy often. Feeling of belonging ness. Quality time, grand gestures, physical touch, words of affirmation. Making each other Spotify playlist when away from each other. Matching outfits. Serenading each other. Both will help each other be open to learning to love and accept love and help in creativity. Teenage love vibe.
Virgo/Mercury
I think both of you will try to be there for each other as much as possible, acts of service is going to be so important. Cooking together, listening and bonding over music, just sitting sharing headphones is going to be your thing. Can be muses to each other. Maybe adopting/getting a pet would a thing with you guys. Walking, comfortable silences, holding hands. Park dates, picnics, nature walks. Hand involvement in sex too.(Use your mind, I know you will get what I mean). Laying and watching stars together, silent hand grabbing, discussing family, insecurities, victories, joys, burdens, friends, theories, politics. Doing chores together, sticking awfully close to each other in public(it doesn’t even seem weird to you and cute to others) like protecting or shielding the other or just for security, complaints and nagging. Nitpicking habits has to be controlled, relationship insecurities can arise. Has to be checked as well. Writing love notes. Acts of service, physical touch. Sharing music, discover about each other pasts late at night, lying on your stomach facing each other and just talking, cat or dog at the foot of the bed curled up, gym buddies, couples’ yoga, nervousness around sex sometimes, using sex to release stress, bunnies, flexible, weird postions. Running in the rain and dancing, might cry when stared at for too long cuz supressed emotions/insecurities come up, might shy away when one is looking or staring. Watching random environmental documentaries late at night and deciding to visit the vegan store next morning. Acting goofy out of the blue to release other’s stress and giggling together. Both will help each other with routine, stability and insecurities. Searching each other in the crowd and make eye contact feeling/dynamic.
Libra/Venus
Romance is just flowing here, maybe sometimes too much. Striving for balance and equality. Running home or thinking of the spouse first thing when you get a good news, or can’t wait to tell your partner the gossip about the co worker both dislikes. Getting affected by other person’s mood, internalizing each other’s stress, helping and providing solutions to over come them. Date nights, gentle romantic gestures, soft kissing on the lips, slow random dancing. Gift giving/receiving, quality time. Taking out time out of busy schedules to spend time together. Jealousy, waist grabbing in public, kind to shove the other against the wall when things are heating up, and look at the lips and bam. 🔥. Serious foreplay effort, booking hotel reservations to spice things up, role-playing, meeting at bars as strangers. Kissing on forehead when other is sleeping, putting blanket over the other, watching other sleep, fondly looking when one isn’t looking. Staring at the other and shies away at eye contact. Baking together, shopping together, matching outfits, gifting each other perfumes that makes you think of them. Planning romantic getaways often. Both will learn to balance each other’s personalities and behaviour together. Two peas in a pod. Similiar yet different.
Scorpio/mars/ketu-
Relationship is going to be full of emotion and love. Having a sense of possessive ness and belonging ness with each other. Thinking about each other when one is not around. Lots of cuddle, staring at each other, comfortable silences, impromptu slow dancing at 2 in the morning. Can get clingy with each other, sitting on each other laps especially anytime is working or even during video games too, sleeping off on the couch. Waist grabbing, pinning up against the wall or down on bed. Controlling can be an issue here, where either one can get a little to attached. A lot of insecurity and past hurt sharing is gonna come up often and other would be empathizing ,hugging and rubbing back when one is crying. Be in for long hugs. Relationship where you ll be just want to provide the other with whatever they want or crave, random food cravings, done, random long drives done, spontaneous trips done. Booking places for graves together in cemetery. Waking up together late if either is stressed or anxious, kind to fulfill partners every desire even if it’s mint choco chip ice cream at 4 in the morning, shoving the other in the inside of footpath/sideroad and away from road cuz even the slight of danger is horror. Hating on each other exes, staring the fck out of someone just for looking at your partner. Finding new things about each other every time you talk, and be amazed how less you know of each other. Continue to surprise each other. Helping each other be more open and be open to be vulnerable, help each other with trust and commitment issues. Physical touch and quality time. Just want to protect the other kind of love.
Sagittarius/Jupiter-
A very calm and heavy on discussions and ideas to be bouncing of off each other. Planning random getaways at 3 in the morning. Best friends. Confidants. Maturely handles conflicts, both will have strong opinions or not back off easy, but being a mutable adjusts easily. Travelling is a really go to activity. Reading together, silences. Giving each other looks when someone else says anything dumb or inappropriate. At home date nights, amusement parks, movie nights, Netflix rituals. I see a lot of learning for both of you, from each other and as a couple. You may take part religious activities together or learn the significance or indulge together. May take up meditation or yoga as well. Surprising with spontaneous trips. Banters, jokes, witty remarks. Role-playing, meeting at bars. Planning to check off bucket list goals at 3 in the morning and adding new to as couple bucket list. Piggy back rides, bicycle race, Bike travelling, skinny dipping in the middle of the lake with security just few metres away. Baking each other with make up as well, or self care routines. Having a own personal party of two dancing to edm or club music ofc at a reasonable hour. Also the kind to put headphones on separately and just dance together to own music. Acting goofy anytime anywhere and other laughing. Looking fondly at the other, and when the other person also makes eye contact both end up making a wierd face and end up laughing. Quality time, words of affirmation, gift giving and receiving. Unexpectedly wearing matching outfits. Aggressive cheek kisses. Butt grabbing. Things heated on the Kitchen counter. “Where were you all my life” love.
Capricorn/Saturn-
The relationship will be stable and comfortable for both, very self oriented and yet together. Nurturing and caring towards each other, may or may not be as open with the love like to the point it’s obvious but mostly through actions. So gift giving and acts of service is going to be major here. Both of you are comfortable with each other even in awkwardness and handle conflicts maturely. Either or both will have a lot of say in each other doings so micromanaging has to be something you should be concerned for. Yet I see both of you some very loving and kind gestures for each other or caring for the other and other has no clue of it. Sacrificing little things just for the other out of love and other not knowing. Keeping tracks of each other favorite things and suprising them with it. Type of love that’s sensual and accepting. Hand holding, back rubs. Long hugs as a way of comforting when either is stressed. Either may feel shy and awkward at first or sometimes feel other is more experienced than the other and can cause some insecurities, which has to be talked about. Sharing family inflicted trauma or family history late at night out of the blue and other empathazing, making eye contacts together and keeping the stare intact without awkwardness. Scolding the other for doing something harmful or dangerous to self even unintentionally. Fancy vacations, expensive gifts. Each one doing its own thing yet other doesn’t feel insecure or lack of attention. Independent yet in union. 🔥 Sex, experimental, slow initially maybe vanilla cuz of not wanting to force on other but as they adjust and adapt things get heated too fast too often, may even have to run out of social obligations/events cuz other one was literally too sexy to handle. Trying to entice other while other is working. Learn stability, being in union and responsibility with each other, how to let go of control and be vulnerable. “ In it for the good and the bad or none at all”
Aquarius/Saturn/rahu-
Build on some common ground and interest. Taking up many activities together or adapting to each other’s hobbies and actively participating in them or atleast try to. Although both will have their unique and separate hobbies which they ll be enjoying on their own without other feeling lack of attention. Tbh I see both of the tech human sitting and coding all day and weekend, occasionally either one gets up to make coffee or what not. At times may even skip a meal and later only realises when sun has set, and then make ramen or order in something. Very chill and free dynamic, no as such sense of control and and possessiveness yet also comes with lack of apparent affection one might crave, at times I think communication can create misunderstandings for both creating awkwardness, which shall be address and faced head on than shied away from. There may be feeling of not being understood at times but also like it’s your best friend whom you dearly love, lil awkward but yours. In between work glancing each other lovingly and smiling and then getting back to work. Video games, late night talks, late night walks, stubborn opinionated people arguing. Skinny dipping in the lake when it’s prohibited and security at few distance away. Spray painting graffiti on wall, and running away and hiding in an alley, laughing. Playful hitting, running after each other. Long drives, eating drive thu in parking lots jamming to their songs. Learn responsibility and independence from each other, being in union yet having own goals to be achieved, having a sense of self. Communication is going to important, cuz misunderstandings can arise. Either may feel detachment or feel other is detached or lack of affection maybe an issue, yet neither should be coerced into doing something. Any matter must be resolved patiently. Ego clashes and loud arguments cuz opinionated. Might help each other see things in broader perspective and influence social views. Can take social causes together and work with charities. Adopting a pet together. Partners in crime.
Pisces/Jupiter-
Emotionally dominant. In tune with each other or just know what other wants or is feeling. Intuitively connected. Imagine the scene when one is thinking of the other and in that moment your phone beeps with a call or message from the other. Pursue a lot of creative endeavours together, act as muse to each other if either does something artistic. Exchanging new music and waiting to get home to tell the other about the new album they discovered in the bus on their way to work. Sending cute animal pictures to each other when not together. Actively trying to partake interest in each other hobbies and passions, watching movies and shows like a ritual, or following up episodes together, park dates, picnics, flowers, candles. Midnight movie marathons, cafe dates, long drives, discussing long trips, many travel plans, looking up hotels in a totally different continent at 3 in the morning because other saw a travel post on instagram, only to realise it’s not feasible and sleep cuddled up. Blanket forts. Bonfires, fireplace. 🔥. Make up sex, crying in sex. Taking each other’s random photos without other knowing. Wrapping self around the other, cuddles, white duvets, mood set for foreplay. Sacrificing little things for the other and other getting mad for doing this for them. Back massages, quality time, physical touch. Shower sex. Baking together, flour fight. Taking spiritual practices together, may influence religious or spiritual beliefs of each other, talking about childhood, insecurities, dark secrets, comfort hugs and back rubs. Back hugs, nose kisses. Giving or leaving each other flowers. Soulmates dynamic.
