Indicators of an attractive spouse in astrology
Idea credit: @harmoonix Thank you for the idea :)
Now, astrology used to use certain signs to indicate husband/wife, but we know that not everyone identifies as a man or a woman, so I use these same indicators to indicate feminine/masculine energy (since we all have both). But feel free to use them the traditional way if that's how you identify! I just want to be inclusive for everyone :)
[Traditionally, Venus was associated with how women attracted partners, and mars was associated with how men attracted partners, but there are other interpretations out there using other planets. You can use masc/fem energy or whatever gender you align with.]
Your Venus Sign can indicate the type of people that may find you attractive. Venus rules love and beauty. It can also represent someone's feminine side to their character.
Venus Sign:
Aries: You're likely to attract someone who appreciates that you're more dominant in the relationship. They may find your straightforwardness and leadership qualities endearing. They may also appreciate how you stand up for others. You need strongly expressed emotions to stay in a relationship with someone.
Taurus: You will likely attract someone whose love language is gift giving. They will probably appreciate how down to earth you are and the stability/safety you can provide in a relationship once you're committed. You may deal with jealousy in a relationship.
Gemini: You will attract a person that loves deep conversations. The attraction may be more to do with the mind than the outward appearance. You need someone to keep up with your curiosity about life. You can end a relationship if you feel like you don't have freedom.
Cancer: You can attract others who need more nurturing than others, but that's okay, because you love to give it. Just be mindful of those who may try to take advantage of you. Insecurity from past relationships can show themselves here.
Leo: You attract people who love your giant childlike nature. They have to be okay with the attention you may require and they won't mind you being the biggest light in the room.
Virgo: You appreciate the small things. You might not be outright vocal about your attraction to someone, but they'll know by the small compliments you make and details you remember about them. You attract people that appreciate being seen. You're probably cautious in love.
Libra: As a social person, you'll attract someone that doesn't mind being in social settings. They'll be outgoing and appreciate you for your kindness. You may view love as a spiritual experience.
Scorpio: You'll attract people that love your intensity. Anyone that can appreciate your take on life and the different facets of beauty. (i.e. finding beauty in pain, mystery, etc) You are likely to give everything you have to the relationship.
Sagittarius: You attract people that admire your adventurous spirit. You value anyone that can have intellectual conversations, but you don't particularly care for deeply personal conversations right off the bat. You want to have fun and your partner will want to have fun with you. You may leave if you feel that you cannot express yourself freely.
Capricorn: Though you come off cold, you attract people that know there's more to you than that. They'll appreciate your low emotional needs and they'll value you for your confidence and self reliant behavior. You fear non reciprocated love.
Aquarius: You'll attract someone that values your dreamer spirit. Your partners will likely value your need for change and can find beauty there. You aren't likely to get jealous.
Pisces: People may find you attractive because of your beautiful eyes, but they stay for your mysterious and caring energy. You are sensitive and empathetic, which appeals to your romantic partners. You may lose yourself in the relationship if you aren't careful.
Mars can indicate one's desires, passion, and what impacts our emotions. Represents someones masculine side to their character.
Mars
Aries: Attracted to someone who is direct and confident. You may have a tendency to be physically attracted to people with an athletic build or those involved in athletics.
Taurus: Attracted to someone who is consistent and always shows up. They provide stability for you. You can also be attracted to someone who does physical labor for a job/hobby. (i.e. woodworker, needle work, surgeon, trades, etc.) They can offer consistency for you (and Taurus is ruled by the hands)
Gemini: May be attracted to tall and long limbed partners. The person will have great intellectual skill. You want someone you can joke with and debate the existence of life with. You want someone that can challenge you above all else.
Cancer: Attracted to someone that isn't afraid to show their sensitive and caring nature. You crave depth and you love when a person is protective over you. You maybe physically attracted to partners that are taller or bigger than you.
Leo: Attracted to someone that's outgoing and confident. A little jealousy on their part can be a turn on for you. You want someone you can joke with and ultimately have fun with.
Virgo: You like someone that cares about their health. If they can take care of themselves, then they will be able to take care of you. You also need someone that matches your intelligence.
Libra: You like people that have great style! You also enjoy someone with a romantic nature. Quality time is a must for you.
Scorpio: Depth is necessary for you. You like the moody and brooding type of person. You probably crave a deep and intense connection full of emotional intimacy. You might not mind a dominant and possessive partner. (Just make sure it's in a healthy way)
Sagittarius: You want someone honest. Someone that will tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. You want someone to have fun with and you enjoy "class clown" archetypes. Laughing is a must for you. You may be physically attracted to someone's thighs/legs in a romantic partnership.
Capricorn: You need someone with goals and aspirations. You like the stability a partner can bring. "Actions speak louder than words" ring true for you. Teeth/bone structure may be a feature you look at first in the physical attributes of a potential partner.
Aquarius: You like someone that shows who they are in their style...and it may eccentric. You value someone for their individuality. You like a person that can make any situation fun and interesting.
Pisces: You could be attracted to someone whose complicated, but you feel good when you crack their exterior shell. You want someone that doesn't mind showing compassion and is empathetic by nature.
Beauty Indicators
Libra Rising or in the 1st: Libra is ruled by Venus, the planet of love/beauty. These people tend to have a very beautiful outward appearance.
Aspects in Natal Chart
Saturn-Ascendant: Saturn rules bone structure. These people often have very attractive physiques/faces/skin.
Venus Trine/Sextile Neptune: Great style and great at aesthetics. They can draw attention to their best features easily.
**All signs are attractive, so I'll probably do a post on rising signs and physical features in the future. These are just placements I've noticed that many equate with outward beauty**
Synastry Indicators
Having the same moon sign can indicate synastry. You probably are both comfortable with one another on an emotional level.
Whatever sign is in your 7th house is probably the sign you attract the most romantically. (7th House = house of marriage/partnerships)
Moon sign in the 7th house: great indicator for marriage. (Moon represents emotions. The 7th house is the house of marriage.)
Eros-Juno aspects: Very passionate relationship. Union often feels fated or like destiny.
