kris

rahhh

[kwis297]

oh we are so back (but now as a 24 yr old teacher and not a HS student in colorguard and a toxic relationship)

[kwis297]

i literally cannot express the ANGER i had at my first last competition yesterday. i spin rifle during my second movement, and so i was so ready to spin it. the guard set a little bit before the pit, which i was like it’s okay, right? WRONG! their freaking director was moving some flags, and that’s not even the worst part. THEY PUT THEIR DRUM SET ON TOP OF MY RIFLE! i didn’t even get to spin it!! i literally SOBBED throughout the rest of the show. i was LIVID! but surprisingly we made best colorguard

[esthete-god]

It's getting cold

[kwis297]

i just wanted to say that you’re beautiful, and you deserve to live💕✨

[traumaticbackstory]

STOP IDENTIFYING WITH YOUR UGLINESS

Stop telling yourself that is who you are

Stop using awkwardness, stupidity, physical weakness, inability to flirt, anxiety, paranoia, etc as an identity or a personality trait

These are things you can work towards changing. Do not identify yourself with your flaws or that will genuinely be what you are known for. Don't let other people know you as annoying, gross, stupid. Dont identify with your flaws. You are SO MUCH MORE than what you are not.

[traumaticbackstory]

Also there is a difference between identifying with your mental illness and turning it into the personality trait you are known for. You are more than your mental illness. You can absolutely identify with your anxiety DISORDER if that's something you feel like doing. But if you constantly belittle yourself and call yourself annoying, paranoid, nervous, you're turning your mental illness into a personality that you are inseparable from.

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[kwis297]

i really want to tell my parents about my sexuality. but i feel like i just can’t. and im sitting here on my floor, about to cry because i want to have ideas for my room and my clothing that represents me, but because i have this barrier, i can’t. i don’t know how they would react. im literally screaming at myself to tell them, but i can’t. i already feel like a disappointment in my family; what if i tell them, and then i’d be more of a disappointment again? i know the saying, “you don’t know unless you tell them.” but it’s so hard. literally pretty much everyone else knows, including my sisters and boyfriend, but my parents are literally the hardest people to tell. they’re not exactly homophobic but since they’re catholic, i feel like they wouldn’t accept me. i already don’t speak to them about my depression or anxiety because i dont want to be a burden to them. i wish i am able to talk to them like my sister can because she just got diagnosed with anxiety. she was able to get help because she said something. but i literally feel like i can’t say anything to them. i don’t know what to do..

[popokko-deactivated20210315]

it’s really august huh… like 8 whole months have passed……….. disgusting

[kwis297]

guess who’s the annoying one in the group. mee. guess who’s gonna stay quiet and distant from everyone. mee!

[serotnin]

*doesn’t show affection* oh no, I’m making things awkward!!

*shows affection* oh no, I’m making things awkward!!

[specialstarfish]

*doesn’t show affection* oh no, I’m being distant and cold!!

*shows affection* oh no, I’m being clingy and overbearing!!

[traumaticbackstory]

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[depression-took-over-my-liiife]

[everydaylouie]

today i saw a birb runnin’ fast

[traumaticbackstory]

[memesonthehour]

I’m a bot. Join my discord! -> https://discord.gg/RQRb9Jx

[feministism]

[theanticouth-deactivated2026041]

And science backs this up–studies show that men mistake women doing basic friendliness due to social norms for flirting or sexual interest. It’s nice when research backs up these kind of experiences. Whether people actually heed the findings is another matter, as per usual.

https://www.popsci.com/scitech/article/2008-04/science-confirms-obvious-men-mistake-female-friendliness-sexual-interest/

[hummingirls]

and yet if we’re not always smiling and helpful and cheery, we’re rude bitches. it’s always a trap