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Much love to you for your insight 🙏🏽💓 can I ask for a reading on my purpose/career/ventures? I have a million ideas of who I want to show up as for the world but don’t know which route to take.

Hi Love! I needed to clear some weird energy out of my house this week, so I apologize for the wait - I wanted to be as safe as I could be!

Regarding your questions;

I see that your purpose is deeply rooted in love - You know how to share and create love in others, and especially how to do this in a healthy and positive way. You are a comforting presence to be around, and this kind of love and balance creates holistic health and stability in others.

As for how this impacts your career, you likely have a gift that helps you share this purpose with the world, and it’s likely something you’ve done before. I see your career as being a truly harmonious mix between your everyday life, passions, and purpose. Your job will be the kind of work you love, making it all the more easy and fulfilling to do.

Your ventures may be in creating a home - for yourself and for others. Your venture also might be empathetic in nature, as you venture to make connections with others and provide them the safety, shelter, and stability of a home. (From this reading, I’m getting some women's shelter, work with the homeless, or non-profit work vibes - if any of those call to you, maybe look into them?)

Right now, it looks like you’re being called to show up to the world as a community member, an open-minded listener, and a courageous version of yourself - embrace your multifaceted nature, and bring your full self wherever you go next. You may not need to pick only one route - you and all that you encompass are needed!

I hope this helps!

Much love,

-Quill

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thequillandthecards

I suppose I would like to delve further into the reality of my relationship and what that will look like as I evolve and grow into what feels like my most authentic self

Hi again!

Let’s look at your ‘evolution’ first. I see that because you’ve begun to respond to the call to evolve and awaken, you are also feeling a call to step away from situations that no longer bring you joy. Know that the two are connected, trust your gut, and let go of what no longer serves you. I can see by the cards that you’ve already begun to set boundaries, but it might be challenging to stick to them. Know that now is the time to protect yourself and to focus on your mission/ what you feel called to - know that it will feel right and bring you a lot of joy. Have fun with what you are creating in your life! This work will bring you to a more solid understanding of yourself, and connect you more deeply to the world, the universe, and a community of support.

What this means for your relationships is this: Your relationship with yourself is going to deepen, but remember that there is no rush - this work can not be rushed. Let it happen and remember to take care of yourself. Trust in yourself. Love yourself. Know that your relationships with true friends are already there. You are doing important work, and those who see that and respect it will always be there for you. In terms of romantic relationships, it will be important to do some reflection to find what is right for you. Make sure to share your voice and once again, make sure that if you are commiting to a relationship, it is one that brings deep fulfillment to you.

You’re on an important journey! Good luck! You’re ready for it.

Much love,

- Quill

thequillandthecards

Hello 😌 I would love to request some type of reading or something ✨

Hi love,

So gald to hear it! If you have something specific you would like to ask, or a particular reading in mind, let me know!

For now, I’m reading that you’re probably confronting some deep truths and starting to question your reality. It seems like you’re being called towards a time of evolution, when it might be right to step back and cocoon yourself so that you can reflect and emerge as a beautiful butterfly. Ultimately, this is also a process of self-love, too. Know that you are precious, and that by focusing on your own authenticity, you can live life feeling more fullfilled.

Once again, please let me know if there is more you’d like to look into or ask about, as your original ask wasn’t too specific.

Much love,

-Quill

lady-indigo

Happy 4 u

existentialwhale

Active ways to cultivate positive body image:

(Because oh my god, it’s so hard, and everyone’s all like stop feeling so bad about yourself and it’s like how???)

Be naked. A lot. Sleep naked. Have sex naked. Eat cereal naked. (Or naked and wrapped in a sheet. Favorite thing.)

Follow beautiful, confident, (un-photoshopped) body-positive babes on the Internet. Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure. Exposure is key. You’re not going to get it if you don’t seek it out, because the media sucks and wants us to feel like shit about ourselves so they can take our money. (Some hashtags to follow: #effyourbeautystandards #bootyrevolution #blackisbeautiful #transisbeautiful #wheelchairlife #fatkini #fatshion)

Lingerie. Next best thing to being naked.

Self care, babe. Different for everyone. (Me? Showers, books, shaving my legs, nature walks, dark lipstick, good playlists, clean rooms, candles, sexy time.)

Get ready in your underwear. Boobs = happiness.

Self portraits. Be pro-selfie. Take a million selfies. Take sexy selfies. Take no makeup selfies. Take bad angle silly selfies. Take artsy tripod selfies. Take everything-is-on-point selfies. You’re gorgeous; document your gorgeousness. You don’t even need to post them.

Stop with the self deprecationnnnn. Pleeeeaseeee. It’s hard to control your thoughts love, I know, but you can control what you say. NEVER insult yourself out loud. Dare I say compliment yourself out loud? (And if you can, do your best to try to body-positive-ify your thoughts too.)

Sex (including solo sexy time), wine, and chocolate. In that order.

Share the body love. Compliment your girlfriends. Cultivate a nonjudgemental, supportive, lift-each-other-up “we’re so cute” friend group. Everyone’s insecure. Compliment your besties. And strangers, too. Be that person that makes everyone feel good about themselves when they’re around.

Good luck gorgeous. It’s a battle. We gotta unlearn all this societal bullshit.

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Reblogging cuz this is vital. Especially the point on self-deprecation. Stop that shit now. It is a glamour-don’t, a welcome sign for fuck ass ppl.