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Great morning talk with my bestfreen @sweetdreadfairygrams 🙅🏾‍♀️ . . My mom use to say this all the time.. how many of you know the meaning of this phrase??? . . . She would say this EVERY TIME she would try and closer to her “family”, closer to her “friends” only to have her heartbroken! For years I watched her struggle to be accepted by the ppl who claimed to love her! It wasn’t until she was on her dying bed that the very ppl, who she spent years trying to get them to love her back, would see what they missed out on! . . I had to let my mom know that ppl make time for what and who they WANT to make time for... the phone, the internet, Hell even the mail works both ways. . . . If you find yourself as the one who is always “reaching out” first, always trying to “sugar coat” your words to please other ppl but they don’t care how and what they say or how they treat you... you welcome them into your home, into your life only for them to give you their ASS to kiss.... well that’s the time to step back and let go! . . . Jealousy, envy, and low self esteem is an ugly thing and it will turn the most wonderful connections bad, and that’s ok. . . Stop fighting other ppls demands and surround yourself with ppl who truly care and love you, through the good, the bad, the ups and the downs.. . .follow @ladye_lifemotivator for your daily dose of motivation and inspiration.. . . . #Idontbegandidontbum #iamwakanda #wakandaforever 🙅🏾‍♀️🖤✊🏾💜

#iamwakanda #idontbegandidontbum #wakandaforever

Most times it’s YOU who are changing/growing and can now see people for who they truly are. . . Too many people are “content” with how their lives are now and any deviation from THEIR norm starts to pull them farther away not because they don’t love you but they no longer see themselves as having a seat at your table and get scared of the changes they see coming and THEY choose to fall back.... . . LET THEM, it’s part of YOUR growth. . . . @ladye_lifemotivator 💓 #yourpastdoesnotdefineyourfuture #motivationalcoach #lifecoach #lifechager #spiritualjourney #fitnessjourney #lifequotes #futurepsychologistinthemaking 👩🏾‍🎓

#futurepsychologistinthemaking #lifecoach #lifechager #lifequotes #fitnessjourney #yourpastdoesnotdefineyourfuture #motivationalcoach #spiritualjourney

Getting closer to the month I dread with every fiber of my being! . . . Many ppl will never understand your pain, your silence, your tears or the unanswered calls.. many ppl will make YOUR grief about them.. . . However, you will have ppl who truly understand and will allow you to have your moments but they will STILL be there, they will STILL text, even if you don’t reply, they will STILL call, they will STILL send you positive vibes. . . They will put their issues and pride aside (if only for a moment) just to listen to you, and for those who do... . . I thank you! . . . Not everyone grieves the same way, not everyone shares your special and sweet memories of the loved one, who is no longer on this side of the universe... . . Be kind to someone today, you never know what they may be going through! . . ~2014😔🙏🏾💜👸🏾

This is exactly how they are in real life, NEVER READY🤣🤦🏾‍♀️ #mytwo #myheart #myworld #myreason

#myheart #myworld #myreason #mytwo

What can I say about this young lady, besides the fact that I love her sooooo much! I have known @chauntahamilton for 28 years (met in 2nd grade). This weekend was one of the best weekend I’ve had in a while. We haven’t physically seen each other in TWO WHOLE YEARS(b/c she moved behind Gods back, to the country) so to be able to see her AND her daughter (my God daughter/1st born) was a blessing! We have been through so much together, from heartaches, deaths, illnesses... you name it... but the ONE thing we’ve NEVER done, even after all these years, was argue OR FIGHT! She respects me and I respect her. We respect that we are grown and have our lives to run but we know we will always be there for one another! She has NEVER questioned our friendship Cus she KNOWS she’s the ACE, THE DAWG, THE FIRST, MY FIRECRACKER & MY SOUL SISTER! She even cooked for us (made me my own pot Cus I don’t eat beef or pork) she woke up on Sunday and cooked breakfast for the boys, cleaned the kitchen and all! I mean what more could I have asked for in a friend! Her selflessness is like no other! When I said “freen you didn’t have to cook n clean up” her response was “I know you work, take care of the house n family, workout and more so it was my pleasure to help you so you could rest, now get up and go mop the kitchen floor!” 🤣🤣🤣 (yea I got fussed with PLENTY this weekend🤣) God places ppl in your life for a time, reason and a season.... she was placed in my life, for a LIFETIME! We may not talk or text all day every day, but we KNOW our loyalty runs deep! @chauntahamilton I love you girl, but you knew that already😉💜 I pray you move back close again so we can have many more weekends of fun! #longpost #bestfriendgoals #bestfirend #reallove #aboutthisweekend #mybestieisbetterthanyours

#reallove #bestfriendgoals #aboutthisweekend #bestfirend #mybestieisbetterthanyours #longpost

So proud of my sister @sweetdreadfairygrams who was one of the honorees to receive the MLK Dream Cather Award!!! #aboutlastnight #myinspiration #myrolemodel #mybestfriendisbetterthanyours #myreallifesister

#myrolemodel #aboutlastnight #myinspiration #myreallifesister #mybestfriendisbetterthanyours

So proud of my sister @sweetdreadfairygrams who was one of the honorees to receive the MLK Dream Cather Award!!! #aboutlastnight #myinspiration #myrolemodel #mybestfriendisbetterthanyours #myreallifesister

#mybestfriendisbetterthanyours #myrolemodel #myreallifesister #aboutlastnight #myinspiration

The beauty of the sun rise! #charleston #charlestonsc #sunrise #ilovethesky

#sunrise #charlestonsc #ilovethesky #charleston

#bookstorevibes #booklover

#booklover #bookstorevibes

#loveislove

#sunrise While driving to work, I caught the smoke coming from the paper mill and the sun rise. The sun made the smoke look gray and purple. The way it danced in the sky, grinding towards the sun was..... well, you would have had to see it for yourself but this is the next best thing! 🌕🌤

#sunrise