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"Might've picked up some happy weight but I still look tf good." MGM National Harbor, Fort Washington, MD - 2017. IG: snapsbyashphotography

Someone asked why all of my photoshoot uploads were edited; and honestly, I'm glad you asked. First and foremost, when you upload your portfolio, it's no longer just yours, it's the worlds. If you are still trying to make something from your craft, KEEP YOUR ORIGINALS. If you edit it, so what, no one can truly touch the original state because they don't even know what the original looked like. But when you leak your originals, EVERYONE CAN GRAB IT. So to put it lightly, all of my originals are solely mine to protect my portfolio and my image for the moment. Anything that's posted elsewhere, if it is the original copy, then the original is what will be posted. But until that happens, THEY WILL ALL BE ALTERED. 😌

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Is it worth it?

Fighting, fussing, and cussing - but no loving When the arguments arise it's like the reasons that made you so close no longer matter in that moment Selfish actions and troublesome words And it's like nothing's coming out right, nothing's getting fixed At that point, what matters and what's worth it? Man of your dreams, is it worth being more mad than loving hard? Woman in your life, is it worth picking and prying if the end result just makes you both feel bad? If love is what brought you together, why is hate what tears it down? It's like a double sided coin that just keeps flipping as the fight progresses And you don't wanna fight You don't wanna argue You don't wanna hate But evidently, that's what it comes down to So at the point where everything becomes so delicate And everything becomes distorted, because when you're mad you don't see anything, just red What will you do? Will you fold? Will everything that was good about your union become an incessant fight? ...will you leave? Ifuleave tells no lies when they say you'll miss me Is it deep enough to leave? Or is the relationship just that immature that it can't stand hard ground? Find out what matters and what you value before you make that call Before you break their heart, think about how much yours would be intact too And if it wouldn't be, ask yourself Is it worth it?