genuine question: why does someone else’s way of engaging with an otome game feel like an invasion to you?
because from the outside, this reads less like “protecting immersion” and more like trying to police how women are allowed to play, write, ship, interpret, or feel.
some players self-insert. some see mc as her own character. some ship mc with the LI. some ship the LIs together. some do all of it at once, because fiction is not a locked chapel with one approved form of worship.
you are allowed to dislike li x li. you are allowed to block it, mute it, avoid it, curate your dash like the rest of us. what you are not entitled to do is decide that everyone who engages differently is ruining the genre, disrespecting the characters, or somehow less valid as a fan.
also, calling people “walls” or “cameras” because they don’t perform immersion the way you do is not some sacred defense of otome. it is just fandom hierarchy. people are allowed to play. people are allowed to ship. people are allowed to observe, self-insert, analyze, fantasize, write, and make art without asking permission from the “immersion police.”
block what you dislike. curate your space. (i cannot stress this enough).
and genuinely, why are you on tumblr if different takes on a fandom feel this intolerable to you?
tumblr is practically built on interpretation. meta, shipping, self-inserts, aus, bad takes, brilliant takes, unhinged tags, canon devotion, canon betrayal. all of it. that is the ecosystem. that is fandom.
entering a multi-interpretation fandom space and then acting personally violated because people are interpreting the material differently is strange.
your playstyle is yours. your immersion is yours. but it is not the sacred law of the genre, and everyone else is not committing some great moral trespass by enjoying fiction differently.
anyway. that is where i stand. curate, don’t crusade.
i hope you have a lovely day.
I ask you to read my previous posts, and I'll answer briefly: Because otome is not an open sandbox. It is a genre with clear mechanics and a target audience: women who want romantic relationships with male characters from a first-person perspective. When you enter this genre and start shipping the male characters with each other or viewing the story as a "novel between the MC and the LI," you aren't just "interpreting." You are changing the fundamental genre of the game. A simple example: You are given a keyboard that is meant to be typed on with your fingers. Of course, no one is stopping you from typing with your feet, but there is only one correct and proper way.
The problem is that when such interpretations become mainstream, they influence developers. They see the popularity of BL ships, they see that "MC as a separate character" gets likes, and they start to adapt: they add a third-person perspective, remove immersiveness, and make the game for "everyone" rather than for those who paid for first-person love. We are already seeing this with Love and Deepspace. You say "curate." And I say: when your "interpretation" starts affecting the product I buy - that is no longer a matter of curation.
Then why are you in otome if you want to watch two men in love? (If my memory serves me correctly, you previously messaged me privately with a question, and I was curious enough to check your profile, where I saw some posts about shipping between the LIs. If that wasn't you, I apologize.) In any case, this is directed at BL fans. Go play BL games. Everything you need is there. But somehow, you don't. You stay here, in otome, and when those for whom the genre was created speak up—you call them the immersion police. Convenient, isn't it?
"Block what you don't like." I do block. I left all the chats, unfollowed all the blogs. But you know what? It still finds me. Because you are loud, aggressive, and convinced of your own rightness. You invade hashtags, discussions, comments under official posts. You write "he and MC are so cute" under videos where a girl just wants to dream about being in the game. You leave no space for those who want to simply love their character in peace. You are everywhere.
The law of otome is you and the LI. Otome games were originally created for experiencing romantic stories with male characters, not for observing. And according to official statements from various otome games, the player is the protagonist. This means my "playstyle" is not just a style - it is the law, the canon of the game. Your interpretations, on the other hand, are just a style.