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how do you get over someone you've never truly had?
Stop setting up expectations for people who don’t show effort and stop placing them on pedestals that they never belonged on. Invest in people who can prove to you that they actually give a fuck.
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Confessions of the "forever single" girl.
I think just about every girl has gone through a situation where they deem themselves, “forever alone.” You get to that moment when you’re tired of dealing with all the b.s., the guys that only want one thing, or the ones who just aren’t interested in you like you are of them. Maybe at one point, you actually thought you found one that would stay. But something always has to get in the way..
Every. Single. Time.
Then you’re like,“F-it, I’m just going to stay single forever… Might as well have it stamped onto my forehead. If I have to go through the same thing over and over again, I’m done.”
-> Truth is, you don’t really mean it.
You crave to be someone’s other half. You spend half your time making up imaginary situations where you might “just so happen” to meet your true love. You want something that even Twilight’s love story can’t touch.
Labeling myself as one of those “forever single” girls, is something I grew used to. It’s like a coping mechanism I used to cover up and throw away the hurt. At 23 years old, a lot of my friends have at least someone in their life. Most of them have a boyfriend, a husband, some even have their child/children. Heck, some even have acquaintances. And then there’s me.. The one friend you invite somewhere who’s sitting alone, drowning their sorrows in tequila and vodka, silently cursing all the annoying couples who they can’t ever seem to get away from.
Just kidding on the last part.. Only sometimes.. ha
But even if I say I’m going to stay single for a while, my mind always likes to wander.
“What if that one relationship actually happened? What would it have been like if he actually picked me? Would my life be any different? What does she have that I don’t? Was I not worth his time?”
Comparing myself to the other girl, is something I used to do all the time. It’s one of those things that’s in our D.N.A. that you just can’t help but do. No matter what people would tell me, no matter how much they tried to convince me that I probably have something she doesn’t have, I always picked myself apart. I’ve always been my own worst enemy..
Time has changed me a bit though. I grew older and hope am a bit wiser. Still trying to focus on the positive and (eventually) finish college. I’m still picky (Sometimes it’s okay to guard your heart). I still think about the past every now and then. I’m still learning to accept my flaws, and that “forever single” still lingers.. But it doesn’t feel the same. It’s under a different name, more along the lines of “temporarily single.. Under construction until I work on a better me. Until I find the one who helps me and encourages me, instead of hurts me.”
If there’s one thing to take out of this, is to never give up on yourself. Once you do, it’s very, very hard to pick yourself back up. Don’t be your own worst enemy. Don’t stand in front of the mirror and pick out everything you hate about yourself. Don’t try and change yourself for someone who’s not worth your time.
I know, it’s easier said than done.. But if I can get through it, so can you. You are worth so much more than you think and are stronger than you give yourself credit for. One day, the right one will come along and you’ll realize there was a reason why all the other ones didn’t work out. Maybe it’s tomorrow, next month, or years from now, the right one will show up. He may not be Prince Charming or sweep you off your feet like in all the unrealistic fairytales.. But one thing is for sure, you’ll know.
Until then, just sit back and enjoy life. Go buy that dress you saw at your favorite store. Take a mini road trip with your friends somewhere. Have a girls night with your best friend and buy every kind of junk food you can think of. Once you let go of the “forever single,” it can no longer be used as an excuse. Don’t let it hinder you. Let it empower you.
-Lauren M. :)
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- stop checking who’s watching your story compulsively, or at all - stop checking if theyve read your message - stop deleting posts and pictures when they dont get enough attention - who cares if they can hear your music blasting through your earphones, turn it up - stop comparing yourself to her. you are enough - stop apologizing for being sick - stop refreshing your notifications, my fingers are so sore - ignore the urge to conform to their expectations - stop talking, listen - do not let people tell you to calm down - stop trying to get them to want you , if they want you they will ask - stop making the same mistakes - stop feeling bad about thinking of his body against yours - stop refraining from appreciating yourself - stop explaining yourself - create. - you dont need people - stop feeling everything so damn much
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