People love to claim, you have to be calm as you protest, you have to speak in a way that the powerful will respect, you have to dress in a way that doesn’t alienate people. But following such rules does not matter. There’s no right way to protest your own dehumanization and your community’s destruction, especially when your country insists that there’s nothing violent, uncivilized, and un-American about how it routinely dehumanizes and destroys certain populations.
This quote in particular presents the idea that you cannot tell a group of people that there is a “right” or “wrong” way to protest, especially a group that witnesses murder, violence and dehumanization of its community on a daily basis. Telling black people to be “calm” and “peaceful” is an attempt to turn the issues they face into non-issues. By saying they shouldn’t protest violently, it is making it out to seem like these aren’t events that would or should evoke emotions as strong as anger or violence.