Sorry I saw your tweet. Just a bit shy to message you lol. But with dating multiple people, wouldnt there be someone you really like hoping it will work? Actually you start acting like you’re in a “relationship” with them in your head when you’re really not. Idk it can be confusing. Have you been in that predicament? What’s your advice?
Lol don’t be shy, see it as you are making a new friend. Giving boyfriend privileges to someone you are just talking to who hasn’t even made his intentions known is a wrong move tbh lol speaking from experience. Yeah i know sometimes there is one guy out of all the bunch who you’ll like more and then you start to make exceptions for him, things you wouldn’t allow with the others you would let it slide. My advise would be to consciously try to treat all of them the same until one of them really steps up and makes it hard for you to entertain anyone else tbh. Doing this will prevent disappointment cause if things don’t work out with a particular person you wouldn’t get too hurt cause you weren’t that invested in it to begin with. You also make better decisions when you have choices and you will avoid settling.
