Today’s Read: The Happiness Equation (Secret 6 - 9)
Neil Pasricha continues to share the secret of ‘The Happiness Equation’ based on the experience of his own and of some popular entities. He elaborates why are we busy and how to compensate our time efficiently to be productive and happy at the same time. He uses a simple technique to overcome fear and do the task which we are supposed to do. Further, makes us revisit our true self which is masked by the world we live in.
To summarize:
Having more choice reduces our happiness. We get decision fatigue. We avoid the decision or we make a bad decision. And we always worry we made the wrong choice
Parkinson Law states "It is a commonplace observation that work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion".he more time available, the less effort we put in overall. A little thought today. Start the project tomorrow. Revisit it next week. We procrastinate. Why? Because we’re allowed to. There is no penalty. Nothing kills productivity faster than a late deadline.
How do you add an hour to your day with only one small change? Remove access. Close the doors. Lock the windows. And pick the bell you will answer and focus on. Delete and remove all access to yourself except for that one. Watch as your productivity spikes, your days become more productive, and you create beautiful space.
Idleness is not just a vacation, an indulgence or a vice; it is as indispensable to the brain as vitamin D is to the body, and deprived of it, we suffer a mental affliction as disfiguring as rickets. Space and quiet that idleness provides is a necessary condition for standing back from life and seeing it whole, for making unexpected connections and waiting for the wild summer lightning strikes of inspiration—it is, paradoxically, necessary to getting any work done.
Use the 3 Removals to add to your life. Because life is short. Time is fleeting. And you will never be as young as you are right now. So develop extra space by Removing Choice, Removing Time, and Removing Access, and nurture that space, that powerful space, so it fills your mind and time and life with contentment, freedom, and happiness.
Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. Settling into your true, weird, authentic self isn’t easy, but it’s the most satisfying way to have everything. Having one giant purpose that you strive toward forever isn’t the goal. What is? An ikigai. A current aim. A reason to get out of bed in the morning.
Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find the happiness that you had thought could never be yours.
Being you remove regrets from your life. Authenticity removes regrets from your life. Remember: Advice reflects the advisor's thoughts, not your thoughts.
So what’s the single best piece of advice you’ll ever take? Don’t take advice. The answers are all inside you. Think deep and decide what’s best. Go forth and be happy. And don’t take advice.












