THE VASSAL

!! NSFW & HARD KINK !! 27 // it // tme stone butch 2spirit lesbian // switch top // transfeminist // aspiring leatherdyke MINORS & TERFS DO NOT INTERACT

[leatherist]

NSFT, 18+ only. blog content may include:

cnc / noncon (fantasy only. posts may contain the word rape) / violence / long term orgasm denial / chastity / leather / sadomasochism / armor / torture / intox / boot and foot domination / trampling / tickling / forcefem / bladder control / human furniture / smoking / snuff / cbt / petplay / monsters / domestic service / men

also; art, bdsm think pieces, nudes, and maybe an original post here and there. im here to get perverted and that’s pretty much it.

no minors. no terfs.

[abjure-obsolescence]

getting hypnotized is the most fun a girl can have without taking her clothes off

[maletolion]

[choked-bun]

somno is so important for sleepy girls

[bitingbooth]

Thinking about indulging in masochism as a positive part of play. Like so often I see people talking about a sub getting hit for disobedience or failing to do something or even as just a passive thing that happens and like sure that has its place. But like what about a sub doing a good job so they can earn getting flogged? Warning a brat that you won't bite them for the rest of the night if they keep up the attitude. Offering to beat someone until they're crying as motivation for them to get all their work done? What if the violence was full of love? What if I want your skin to show the world how much I love and care for you?

[sadist-posting]

Lukewarm take but I think one of the biggest problems with the way kink is discussed on Tumblr and in lots of online spaces is the essentialism that often comes up when describing the role of subbing or domming. No sex act is inherently dominant or submissive, no body part is inherently associated with a particular role. There is no ideal Dom or ideal sub. It's all just how the scene is framed.

My domming ideology, my preference for how I conduct myself and the way that I view myself in Domspace is probably just as close to a brat or pleasure sub as it is to the stereotypical cis male Dom archetype that's very common in these spaces.

I'm sadistic because I enjoy the feelings I can give other people. I love the way they can react to pain, pleasure, and any combination of the two I inflict. It arouses me to have a submissive exert themselves for my pleasure. For that reason, my dominance is almost oriented around a certain degree of selfishness. I want to make you moan a certain way, cry just the way I like, whine and beg in the exact way that scratches that sadistic itch I have. It's like this inverted, perverse version of pleasure domming. It's so addictive. Even when I'm doing something which is meant to be physically pleasurable for you, I enjoy it because it gets me off too. Greedy, selfish dominance.

That same mindset extends to physical pleasure. I'm extremely fucking greedy. I love having my ass eaten and making a sub focus all their effort and energy into getting me off for as long as possible. I love being edged and overstimulated for that same reason. It's about me and my pleasure and they're just a toy I'm using to get off. I like it when they top for me and do the work because they're pushing themselves and working hard for my pleasure.

I love doing scenes where I basically use them to masterbate, or treat them like a pleasureless sex toy that can only get me off. Denial also seeps into this aspect of kink for me, where the dichotomy between my focus on my own pleasure and taking away theirs creates exciting and intense dynamics.

Am I still physically dominant? Very. Do I love doing the work and topping? Obviously. Am I sadistic and cruel for their pleasure as much as mine? All the time. But those components of dominance are expected and typical, while the selfish, self-pleasuring aspects of dominance are mostly expected from Femdoms (a group who has a ton of unearned stereotypes themselves).

My final point is that kink has no gender, sex acts have no specific level of dominance, anyone can enjoy anything and frame it however they want. Not all subs give head not all doms top.

[fitz-punk]

Internal spike chokers

Recently I experimented with a few different types and configurations of internal spikes, my favorite was the double row of cone spikes in the bottom right of the first pic, It was a nice amount of sharp but kind of diffused across all the spikes. The studs in the other 2 pics are really mild. The ones with the buckle can be worn discretely but I also did some with a slip chain instead, which I really like.

[gazeldhazel]

it's rest your hand on her soft penis thursday

[diana-andraste]

From Uncanny Lovers series, Paulina Otylie Surys, c. 2017

Love and sex with robots are inevitable.

"Dolls don't possess any of the unpleasant qualities that organic flesh and blood humans have. A synthetic will never lie to you, cheat on you, criticize you, or be otherwise disagreeable." (Davecat, the dolls collector)

[lunebrew]

sighs wistfully and forlornly and woefully and

[fxtherfigvre]

“my lil pornstar” as a term of endearment

[hunysckle]

we need "chubby" to mean fat again not just the pouch where your fucking organs go

[toxooze]

woof

[dirt-secret]

TGIRL WEREWOLVES YAY TGIRL WEREWOLVES

Yeah ;3

[ordr]

Thanks for sexualizing peoples trauma fuckhead

anytime

[midbyte]

be careful, she bites

[eebie]

i think we'd all be better off if we all touched each other more because now we have chumps walking around thinking physical contact always has to mean something and by chumps i mean 90% of the world population

[fffxcktoy-deactivated20230904]

Cool! Summary on piercings, focused on phallo with t-dick burial, people pursuing surgery should check with their own surgeon and not rely on an anon on tumblr, etc -

- top of the hood/foreskin will be gone after phallo with burial - piercings here matter much less. Not sure how this works for meta, I expect they’d stay but placement might change?

- triangle: this creates scar tissue under the penis that the surgeon will need to work around for anything with urethral lengthening

- outer labia: this will become the scrotum - not sure exactly how risky but if you plan on testicular implants that could interact or be a weak point. Erosion is no fun.

- inner labia: these may be used to reinforce the urethra - surgeon will probably appreciate not needing to work around piercing scars

My own surgeon was like “…ok, please don’t get any more while you’re waiting for surgery” which y’know, bummer, especially since getting pierced was GREAT for dysphoria the first time, but reasonable.

This is really cool to know! Thanks so much for sharing! 😁