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I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

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Can I come over and be really disappointing

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victory :3

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couple making out on shut down I-65 in Louisville, Kentucky (6/3/26)

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eyes emoji was the perfect invention for nosy people. like 👀 whats going on over here 👀👀 i just wanna know #LetMeKnow 👀👀👀

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did laundry and showered today you knowwwww i'm hitting that clean sheets clean jammies clean me trifecta tonight

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bro im bedcelled. im comfypilled. im literally cozymaxxing.

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honkpilled shoomaxxer

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straight up "snorkin' it". and by "it" haha, well. let's just say. mimimi

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I think of this every time I sleep. And check if I'm cozymaxxing or if it's just nap-slop.

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receive and spins you

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STAR TREK: THE NEXT GENERATION (1987-1994) “Haven” (1.11)

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True and valid

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the sewing machine is like if a horse and an inkjet printer had a child

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I love browsing cover-up tattoo stuff when every once in a while there's someone asking "how do I cover up this unspeakably idiotic thing" and people are like "please do not cover that up, that's fucking amazing." You just have "shrimps is bugs" written on your leg now. That's your legacy.