Blue Necktie Enthusiast

Sideblog for queer gentlemen posting

[lesbian-gentleman]

Hello! This is my sideblog dedicated to the experience of queerness, particularly that of lesbians, but full love to all queers. I’ll be reblogging and making posts about queerness, some things personal to me, and men’s fashion.

Everyone of all identities are welcome here. This is a safe place for all.

That being said, do not interact if you support/condone: queerphobia, TERFs, anti-semitism, islamophobia, racism, ableism, and other related forms of bigotry.

I’m 20. My pronouns are she/any. I’m a butch lesbian. <3

I won’t be posting any explicit NSFW on this blog, but I will tag partial or non-sexual nudity. I’ll do my best to put content warnings in general, when needed. Don’t hesitate to let me know if you need anything tagged!

Thank you for visiting my blog!

[minminambus]

I’m going to be participating in art fight this year! Here’s my link if anyone’s interested :3

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I forgot to put a link eek! https://artfight.net/~just-mini-art

[minminambus]

I’m going to be participating in art fight this year! Here’s my link if anyone’s interested :3

[lesbian-gentleman]

Do u like chappell roan 👉👈

I’ve never heard about her before this ask! Hearing her music, I like her! Thank you, anon. 🌸

[civetcider]

i wanna be fishing right now part 3

Oakley the black bear and Traver the kit fox, she/her for both!

[theywontletmebeprincipal]

did I ever tell yall I used to think charlie chaplin was a drag king. for like three years straight

[theywontletmebeprincipal]

we watched modern times in seventh grade n I saw this shot n just took it face value that he was a twinky butch. for three years

[theywontletmebeprincipal]

I only found out he wasn’t because in tenth grade the topic of old hollywood leading ladies came up w my friends n I went “I think it’s so cool how charlie chaplin did all those drag roles. she was cute too haha” n they all looked at me like I’d said something just truly fucking insane. which for the record I had

[hms-no-fun]

no the butch you want is Dorothy Arzner, one of the only women directors from the silent era to continue directing after the transition to sound

she directed a multitude of films about atypical domestic relationships and has two entries in the criterion collection. you should absolutely read about her life, because wow. fascinating figure

[lesbian-gentleman]

On the topic of butchness, transness, and identity… do any other butches get uncomfortable when referred to as ‘Miss (last name)’? I don’t know how to describe it, but it just feels strange.

[lesbian-gentleman]

Okay, my blog is all updated! Woo!

[jadewolfy]

I don’t think we’ve put it enough into perspective.

Rafah is 48 times smaller than Rhode Island. Israel is forcing millions of Gazans into Rafah and trapping them all to bomb them. Keep speaking, keep telling others, keep protesting, do not turn your back on them! It is imperative we keep it up!

[hareofhrair]

Gonna need yall to stop putting Biden is Just As Bad propaganda on my dash. Had to unfollow someone because I don’t want to a start a fight with them over it, but I’m about to bite the next person who puts that shit in front of me.

If you don’t like Biden, vote in your god damn local and mid term elections for third party or further left candidates so that we get better democratic candidates for future elections. But this one is already fucking decided, and I’m NOT ending up under a Trump led dictatorship because yall value protecting your personal sense of moral purity over the collective good. Whether it offends your personal morals to vote for Biden is IRRELEVANT in the face of the alternative.

This isn’t a lesser of two evils situation. One guy sucks. The other guy is LITERALLY PLANNING TO OVERTHROW OUR DEMOCRACY AND INSTALL HIMSELF AS A PUTIN STYLE DICTATOR.

PLEASE look up Project 2025 and stop acting like abstaining is some kind of personal ethical decision!

[hareofhrair]

REBLOGGING THIS BECAUSE IT FUCKING HAPPENED AGAIN.

You give me a single goddamn scenario where not voting does less harm then voting for Biden.

You give me a SINGLE goddamn scenario where Trump being elected does LESS harm than Biden.

You give me even the BAREST WHISPER of an ACTUAL, ACTIONABLE FUCKING ALTERNATIVE to just VOTING FOR HARM REDUCTION.

Jesus Christ. Even if you think Biden and Trump are 100% the same, which is a fucking asinine and ignorant goddamn position to take but sure, in that case voting, at absolute worst, makes no difference!

The ONLY reason to deliberately encourage people to NOT VOTE AT ALL is to SUPPORT TRUMP.

You are blindly spreading Actual Goddamn Propaganda for a man who is frothing at the mouth to become a christofascist dictator!!

CUT IT THE FUCK OUT.

[lesbian-gentleman]

Oh, also I need to update my blog theme and pinned post! Just a moment…

[lesbian-gentleman]

Aw, I can’t find any of my pics that I used for my blog theme… I might just have to rework the whole thing.

[misstressviole]

I feel like fantasy lesbian aus are so repetitive with their characters appearances. Where is the charming vampire butch and the intimidating warewolf femme? The courtly butch prince and the loyal femme knight? The etherial butch elf and the femme orc? We need to step up our game...

[lesbian-gentleman]

Oh, also I need to update my blog theme and pinned post! Just a moment…

[that-butch-archivist]

"Lesbian Weddings" by Wendy Jill York

source: The Femme Mystique, edited by Lesléa Newman

[lesbian-gentleman]

On the topic of butchness, transness, and identity… do any other butches get uncomfortable when referred to as ‘Miss (last name)’? I don’t know how to describe it, but it just feels strange.

[lesbianblueboy]

[lesbian-gentleman]

Might I ask what’s the vanilla ice cream/cinnamon combination? (I’m also a closeted transmasc/butch) :-)

Oh way back in the day when I was unsure of my relationship with gender n such, I was looking up foods that could naturally raise testosterone levels. Regardless of whether it’s true or not, cinnamon came up in the results, so I ran with it and added it to so many desserts. It tasted the best with vanilla ice cream. :^)