A New(ish) Era
Hey everyone! So this is quite a lengthy read so keep reading if you’re interested in knowing about the future of this blog! (It’s quite long but important!!)
So I know I haven’t been posting for a long while and some of you may be wondering where I’ve been. Well over these past months I honestly just haven’t had any interest in this blog. I feel like I’ve grown up and this blog hasn’t grown up with me. I’m tired of posting only “relationship goals” and relationship based things and it’s just become a very juvenile thing to me.
I started this blog when I was with my first boyfriend ever and I was young and very naive. Since our break up I have grown up so much and I’m just not who I was when I started this blog. I used to love posting about relationship goals and just all things relationships but I’ve learned to not prioritize them anymore hence why I feel I’ve grown out of this blog. I’m with a boy now who is not only my boyfriend but is also my best friend and has been my best friend for years. Our relationship is quite private to me and it’s a mature relationship that I’m proud to be in, but I don’t want to share details on a blog at this moment in time.
My thoughts for a long while has been to just delete this blog. I wanted to just disappear and no questions asked. But I feel like that’d be a waste of what I’ve worked on for years and a missed opportunity to be able to use my following to spread more help and positivity. I’m looking at this blog and all of you as an opportunity to make a change. SO the plan for this blog is:
I’m going to dedicate this blog to being a positive and safe space for women’s health and women’s sexuality! I’ve learned over time that there are alot of things people do not know about their own vaginas! And having a safe space to ask/discuss about periods, sex, masturbation, shaving pubes, etc etc etc is something that can be really useful for alot of people! I’m no expert but I can always speak from personal experience and open discussion for lots of people and it can be a positive learning environment.
I’m going to be changing my URL and redesigning the entire blog as well as deleting my past posts. I know this may be sad to a lot of you and it’s pretty sad to me as well but it’s for a fresh start! Also the style of questions I’ll be answering from now on aren’t going to be the whole “here’s a situation, does he like me!!!!!!!” I’m going to dedicate my blog to health and sexuality,, not relationship advice.
It was a fun run and I’m extremely grateful for the following I’ve gotten through this blog. I love you all and I hope you’re as excited for this new chapter as I am!
-T