Just saw another mutual on Xitter go "so many fans are hostile towards the transfem character who's the self-insert of the trans woman creator it's obviously transmisogyny".
Jax is an antagonistic character, he's explicitly a bully, a blackmailer, someone that has played a part in causing 2 of his friends to abstract, a bit of a perv too if you consider that mind-vision of him inviting Gangle over. He choked out Pomni in Ep 9.
He's supposed to be Goose if Goose chose different, pretty much like an Evil Goose.
If she's transfem, she's now a transfem bully, blackmailer, perv, and someone that caused 2 of her friends to feel lonely that eventually led them to abstract and someone that choked Pomni violently. NONE of the actions go away because of the transfemininity. What happened to "your past explains your actions, doesn't justify them"?
You can like her as a character, I'm all for loving the problematic evil ones, trust me. You can ship her with whomever. You can feel bad and empathise. But you can't police how other fans feel, especially other bullying victims who relate to, say, Gangle or Zooble or even Ribbit (which I do). They WILL hate Jax. They have 100% rights to.
There's also people going "Jax pushing Ragatha into the deep fryer is a gag, you guys won't survive Tom and Jerry" like the point of the show isn't that even in the digital world, these actions hurt. That has been established several times. You can't minimise her actions either.
No, it's not "you guys just hate mentally ill characters, Jax just has BPD" either. I have BPD. I know it makes me a lonely person that's hard to love and the friendships I've lost haunt me so deeply. It doesn't take away that mental illness can be really difficult sometimes, it is ugly and it is cruel to others and so often parents with mental illness ruin their children, anorexic friends cause their friends to starve. Mental illness never justifies your bullshit, there's still accountability to take if you act like an asshole. You can feel bad for Jax but you cannot brush all the actions away witu "uwu BPD" and "you're ableist".
I've disliked Jax since Ep 4 or 5, before trans!Jax was even a popular fan concept. I never hated her, made hate posts and threads, but I was never a fan purely cause Jax was all my school bullies, the ones that acted like they knew better than me, the ones that forced me into COCSA, the ones that mocked my autism, all of them rolled into one. They're calling me transmisogynistic for that now.
This fucking fandom, man. Trans women can do no wrong, all hail Caitlin Jenner and Ava Kris Tyson purely cause they're trans women and that means they're 100% angels and pure beings. What do I know, I'm just a theyfab bitch anti with AFAB privilege.
As a trans person, one of the worst things the queer community does (and the worst things we do to ourselves) is acting like trans people, whether they're real or not, can do no wrong instead of treating them like human beings. Sometimes this also overlaps with holding them to impossible standards where they're either perfect angels or the spawn of the devil instead of actual people.
Jax is a severely broken, lonely, traumatized character with profound gender issues, but they also have a deeply cruel side that they chose to lean into, and this caused two of their friends to abstract. Goose didn't make such a complex character so that people could harass strangers over different readings.